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Well my name is Rebecca...I love giving others advice and I love recieving advice...Helping people is what I live for...lol Relationships/Friendships/Families/school
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i recently met this guy about 3 weeks ago and weve hung out and talked on the phone once about 4 times n im pretti sure he likes me but im not totalli sure hes 19 and im 16 and hes mentioned sumthing b4 about him being older but he still hangs out with me n talks to me n stuff we went to the movies the other night and he like flirted with me n everything n bought my ticket but he didnt hold my hand or anything and wen he dropped me off at my house he was just like well ill talk to u online or sumthing n then hes like well if ur on and im like yeah bye i was just wondering if u thin he likes me or not (link)
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he's probably interested but he isn't sure if he wants a relationship cuz the ages...
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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
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no...if you're not readi then you're not readi
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Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut. (link)
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well...why don't ya...find a reason you wanna break up with your boyfriend...then like a week later...or a few weeks later...start going out with Kevin...sorri if I didn't help
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*sry if to long but please read*
well im in 7th grade and we have some 8th graders in my PE class. and theres this guy i think is pretty cute but ive never met him but were always kinda glancen at each other every once in a while n stuff and it might be a bit obvious that i think hes cute but idk if he thinks i am. anyways so today he was talking to these 2 girls and i was talking to 1 of my friends and one of them turned around and was all hey do yall think hes cute? so i was like uhh idk and i said softly (well i hope softly) liek not really and my friend was like no and they were like omg i think hes cute n stuff and i was kinda blushing. i would go out with him if he wanted to go out with me but im not sure and i REALLY hope that that didnt make any of a difference. id really kno what im asking, i just need someone to kinda tell me if i did the right thing or not
please help...x3 (link)
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well if he was near by you should've acted like you didn't know he was like and be like "OMFG YES HE"S HOT" lol...then he might be like "Kool she likes me I can make my move" haha but now...he might know all your friends or whoever said they think he's cute...and he might try and get with one of them
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Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do? (link)
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lol this has always happened to me...still does every once in a while...just knowing that they know I like them...or knowing that he likes me...kinda...gets me nervous...but I just try and not be alone with them...I try and be in a group with them...so I can act my self and not worri about it
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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses? (link)
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Well my first kiss was when I first turned 13 and I'm gettin readi to be 14 in sept....well when I first started having boyfriends I'd be really quiet and nervous around them...and then I just started actin my self...and if they don't like who I truely am then they don't deserve me...yeah this might sound kinda weird but when I use to talk to my boyfriends on the phone I'd start feeling sick...it was weird lol...let things happen naturally...don't worri bout kissing...find someone u really care about and they care about you as well...and then worri bout the kissing...hope i helped
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Hi im 13 and am a female and am 5'2 weighing 150 pounds i wear a size 9 in juniors....my mom said that its baby fat and when i hit a growth spirt it will be gone but im not really thinking she is right anymore how can i loose this weight fast?? Also i have no friends...i kinda am a loner, im in 8th grade and everyone is clickish and dont except me...and I HATE STANDING OUT IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A LOSER! also i really truly love this guy austin he is soo perfect, perfect height, weight, brownish blonde hair brown eyes, plays sports popular and as you can see im no hottie. also eh is really mature and when im around him i start acting weird...and kinda immature how can i mature...YOU WONT HURT MY FEELINGS! (link)
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Well this kinda reminds me of me...I'm kinda chubby yes...I do situps/crunches...eat healthy things...drink water...and juice...slow it on the junk and the soda...ummm do you wear makeup? if not...ask ur mom or someone to get you some...some eyeliner, mascara & eyeshadow...get a blackeyeliner, black mascara and a silver pinkish eyeshadow if u need help with putting it on...ask an older sister...or get a magazine...and look at how famous people do it and kinda copy 'em...and when you're around austin act like he's someone else...let him get to know you and how you are around others...and you shouldn't really care about fitting in...and being popular...hope I helped
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Im 13 years old and im very scared. This summer my boyfriend who wasnt my boyfriend then got out of jail for drugs. He said he would change for me and I believe him. We've been goin out now and Last night he called me crying sayin he thinks he is going back to jail. All I know is that his dad and him got into an arguement and that he wants to move in with his grandparents. And He wouldnt answer me why He thought he was going to jail again. Then he said he had to go and that he loved me and he never called back. I dont know if he went to school today or not, but Im really scared and I dont know what to do about it. Should I call him and ask him about it or what? Last night I cried all night long. I tried calling 2 times and nobody answered. I dont want to loose him. What do I do? (link)
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omg! i had a similar situation it sucked...i hope everything gets better...but yeah...keep trying to call him...call his friends...or something...sorri that i couldn't really help...
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this is going to sound idiotic but i have never had a boyfriend and im 13!!!!!! i dont think im ugly and i am really smart and stuff but no matter how hard i try no one has asked me out!!!! (link)
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well when you find someone you're interested in...become really good friends with them...flirt with them alot...and always try and get eye contact...and then try and get them knowing you're interested and maybe they'll ask you out
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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
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maybe you're bi...cuz that's how i am too...but i wouldn't date a girl...so ummm you're Bi
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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!? (link)
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maybe he wants to get back with you...and after he found out you finally moved on and was interested in someone else... he finally realized he loved you still...be friends for a while and then see how things go from there if things work out for you two to be just friends take it back to the boyfriend girlfriend relationship...if it's meant to be it'll happen
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i am on my sis computer again lol but i need advice so help me ont hsi question please
okay me and my boyfriend live in differnet towns and he going into 9th grade and i am going into 8th i live about 20 min away and we talk all teh time ont eh phoen and stuff and on im and see each otha on weekend and stuff and and he said he loves me loves me lik truly menaing it . . i mena it gonna be ahrd going to a differnt school with him but like i realy lie him so much . . waht do i do should i breka upw ith him or stay with him and try to make it work out ..
p.s my friends say i am a very flrittatiuos person and very attactice and i can get any guy i baseically want (( that what my friends sayy)) (link)
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well hey...you should wait a few weeks into school to see how things go...but if you two are truely supposed to be togehter... you will be together in the end
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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now? (link)
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just start getting to know her and let her get to know you...ask her for her #...maybe go to the movies just as friends with some other friends...flirt ALOT...alotta eye contact maybe she'll get the drift you like her
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I meet this guy i really liked him and he liked me..so we went out..he goes to another school but we live so close that we could walk and meet up sometime..he says everything soo right then one day he broke up w/ me..i felt that we were going to be together for awhile..i mean i REALLY like this guy..what do i do to get him back?
Female
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girl to be honest if he walked out on something that was meant to be then he wouldv've stated my opinion move on find someone better
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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..? (link)
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oh my gosh...lol...my friend has went through that and still has...they went out for 5 months and broke up...he started trying to get her jealous...and pissed her off all the time...she'd cry and cry...and still always talk to him on the computer...he even once pissed me off...start SHOWING him...you aren't gonna take his shyt anymore and maybe he's takin out his pain and frusteration out on you since you broke up with him
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx! (link)
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well...ok...ummm maybe since he's considered a 'nerd' that's why he said he's had sex before to try and fit it...do u know for a fact he's not a virgin?...and if u know for a fact he isn't a virgin...if you really like him and he really likes you back...he should care enough about you to trust how you feel about the subject 'sex' and will be able to handle not getting any from you
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