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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

dont dump him! you love him n other people should focus on there lifes not you n ur boyfriends relationship the only reason there doing this is because they have free time n want to raise there self esteem.. if ur in love thats all that matters! People who make fun of you guys are most likely just jealous that they can't get a strong relationship that u have!
Stick in there.. n dont let anything anyone says get to u!
HoPE I HELPED!
arianna

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ok, im going out with someone, and they always say they love me, but i dont really feel that way, and i want to dumb them,but not have them be mad at me, or any of there friends, is there anyway of doing that?

Just tell her ur not ready for a relationship n that you'd really like to be friends n try starting a relationship later.. i think shes moving a lil to fast if you ask me! N if shes mad she wont be mad for that long cause she'll have to get over it sometime..
Hope i helped!
ask me for more advice if u need it!
Arianna

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wuts better... viagra or enzyte?

um.. idk try both of them! I've never used them so i wouldn't know but try both of them n see which ones you like better!
Hope i helped..
Arianna

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can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?

Cyber sex is having sex over the internet... n u just pretend like ur actually having it! But oral sex is like a hand job n blow job fingering n like eating out.. thats what it is..
Hope i helped!

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well i have a small penis.. and im embarassed to do anything with girls. i always think theyll be like wth is that! in the locker room everyone taunts me and calls me slimjim.. does this matter to girls?

-jim

it depends on what kinda girl it is.. if shes a fake girl then she'll tell everyone bout it! Or if shes truelly into u she wont care at all.. it all depends on what kinda girl it is!
Hope i helped!

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no i need a technique.. my bf says he is happy with what we do but i want to give him mor ehtna i have.. his bday is coming up.. please give me a technique.

-veronica! thanks alot hun!

just suck it slow the go fast then move ur tongue around.. hope i helped!

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yeh im with sally.. how DO you give a good bj

-veronica

um u kinda just.. idk like suck it.. u have to find ur own way to do it.. its really hard to rescribe u just do it.. im sorry
Hope i helped!

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how do u give a good bj
-sally

um i cant explain it.. u just do it! sorry..

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I was havin a great summa wit this kid named tim but he was my frendz cuzin and he lived in PA and was just visiting. He was so great and like my dream guy that i had been lookin for for a long time. he would hold my feet to keep them warm, play with my hair, adn id just sit on his lap and wed talk. Neways after about 2 weeks he started likin a diff. friend and since we werent officially going out he started going out wit her and i bawled my eyes out and couldnt eat the next day cuz i was so depressed. Now we still talk a lil and the thing is is kinda still like him and i dont know why. hes supposed to come down next summa for the whole summa and im afraid they mite hook back up (they broke up now tho). If i hook back up wit him everyone down here would b mad cuz they hate him for what he did to me. I dont even think he would take me back neways but i cant hepl but miss him.

Im going thru something like that i miss my ex so friggen much i love him with all my heart but i think the best thing to do is move on.. i mean u'll hardly see him i mean over the summer u can u know flirt with him and stuff and possibly kiss but why go out if ur just gunna break up at the end of the summer?
Hope i helped please rate!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi --

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My birthday is on Nov. 2nd. and my b/f's b-day is on Nov. 4th. so should we celebrate it on Nov. 3rd? Or have 2 seperate celebrations? What would you do?

I would have a huge party with ur boyfriend that'd be awesome n really cute! rent out a place and get a dj and invite a whole bunch of people .. or just go to ethier one of ur houses and just have an awesome party there!
-Hope i helped!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi

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okie well i go to this camp n im 13 the oldest kid there n there is a camp consler who is 18 he is going off to colledge n befor camp ended i always talked to him n we got to no each other relly well n well he is soo awesome at camp he use to pick me up n like beat up on me not like rele mean he would just put me on the ground n sit on me n stuff like that n i rele like him n yea thats kinda a big age gap i tell himi love him like luv ya kinda stuff but is it grosse that i like him??? or is it oki

i rate well

Its okay that you like him but ur right theres that huge age gap..i think u really need to find someone around ur age group! I mean flirting with him is awesome.. cause lOl flirtings fun but like hes kinda older then u so i wouldn't get ur hopes up or anything! Juss be really good friends wit him!Please rate.. hope i helped
-good luck!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi

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so theres this guy, callum and he is just the sweetest guy ever! he is nice to me and cares about me and my feelings. but i course, i go for the older guys (he's 15 and im 13) anyway he's telling me how much he likes me and i like him too but my mom has a prob with him bc when i was talking with him on AIM he asked if i've given bjs..infront of my mom..aight i saw him today and i just about melted. he had just got back from soccer pract and he taught me some moves. i dont know if i should date him or not. my mom said not until im 14 which is in 4 months but i cant wait that long. my brothers says hes a flirt (what guy isnt) and is bad news. i dont really care what my brother thinks. what i care about is how can i get my mom to lettme go out with callum and what else should i do like make him like me more even if we stay friends?also do u have any flirt technichs that i could use?

Um well ur mom is a big deal in a relationship so if ur mom doesn't like ur boyfriend it'll be hard to go out n stuff.. what u need to do is just explain to ur mom why u like him and explain to her what u feel for him! U like him alot and u dont wanna lose him do u? Ur brothers opinion doesn't matter at all.. its ur heart not his! To get him to like u more- all u have to do is be urself totally and not fake.. trust me being fake doesn't get u anywhere at all.. and just be nice to him n stuff!Dont make urself look to much of a slut but looking pretty is a must.. theres a huge difference between a slut n looking pretty member dat! But for flirting teachniques.. i dont kno what to tell u.. flirting isn't like... planned out it just happens! So just do what ur heart desires..
GOOD LUCK!

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Okay well my boyfriend has been acting a lil Weird lately. He for some reason hasnt been being very nice to me. I mean when i talk to him on the fone he is so mean to me. He makes fun of me and stuff, its crazy. He tells me he is just kidding around but it doesnt seem like it at all. Then the first time we went out he always told me he loved me and stuff. He doesnt anymore. Im not sure why...does he really like me? I mean I love him and i wanna tell him but when i try then he just hangs up. Wuts going on?? Can u help me. I love your advice so plz help!! -Cutie T-

Trust me i went thru the same thing my x boyfriend used to make fun of me and i used to get really pissed cause i couldn't tell if he was joking around or what so i just took it as if he wasn't kidding although he told me he was. It seems to me as if he doesn't like u and is going out with u to go out.. sometimes relationship ships can be confusing like that. But trust ur best judgements and stick with him if thats what u really really want.. but why would u hes making fun of u and u dont need to go thru that!
STICK IN THERE BABE!
good luck!

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Arianna help me!!!
ok so im currently dating this guy....we went out then broke up....now we are going out again....but i think hes gonna break up with me again cause i like one of my really good guy friends too.....i like my bf and all....but i just can`t get over the other guy.....what should i do? 13/f
SO CONFUSED!!!

maybe u loved this other guy and cant get over him? maybe u should take some chances with this other guy and see what it turns out to be.. dont go out with people to just go out with them it doesn't work trust me i've done it! So stick with ur heart and what ur heart tells u to do!
-good luck babe!

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OK, im 13 and i like this 16 year old guy. i dont get to c him very often but when i do i just light up and i'm so incredably happy.
he and i flirt back and forth. (he will tickle me all the time, play pranks on me, stare me into the eyes for a really long time...) its wonderful..but u c he has a 18 yr old g/f who knows about me. they have been going out for 2 months and she is going off to collage this year. the guy i like has a sister who says i have a good chance with her brother, which is good n all but my folks said no dating him. thats only bc he has gone all the way and smokes. recently this guy told me that he cant talk to me anymore bc he thinks he isnt allowed to talk with me since he is 3 yrs older..so gay i know..anywho i just dont know what to do. i want to be friends with him but then again i want to be more than friends. ~H-E-L-P~

He sounds like hes kinda nasty.. smoking and goes all the way.. i mean cmon hes friggen 16 years old! I think that u should stick with your own age group and find someone respectable to u! Ure 13 and u shouldn't have to get urself involved with smoking and sex its not right for u.. and u shouldn't have to go thru it! Trust me dont get urself with him and stick to people ur age im helping u for the long run! TRUST ME!
-stick in there-
good luck!

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ok my boyfriend and i went to a party the other day at my best friends house and all my friends were there and we all started to watch a scary movie and i looked at him and he kissed me and i felt werid cuz we were the only couple there and i felt like i was showing off or something and so i pulled away. i don't kno what i should do cuz me and him never hardly see eachother sooo i kinda wanna make the best of it while we do see eachother but yet i also don't wanna not include my friend, what do you think i should do, i feel like i have to pick my friends or my boyfriend but yet i love both of them with all my heart

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Okay well what u have to do is just go seperate places with each of them instead of bringing both along cause trust me i've gone thru the same exact things my boyfriend and my bestfriend hate eachother and wont go anywhere with eachother so it was really hard for me.. so i just didn't go places and bring both of them! Just do that it works a whole lot better cause then u can be intamite with ur boyfriend whenever and kiss him and stuff and then ur friend wont get pissed..
-GOOD LUCK!

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Ok, this guy im going out with u kno pretty well...so i need some help. This isnt the first time i have been with him. and well the last time he cheated on me with his Ex while i was on a mission trip. And there is something about him that just wants me to be with him so I am. and everyone is getting kinda mad at me, bcuz he has already cheated on me before and...im going out with him again.Everyone is telling me he is going to cheat on me again and hurt me again but i just dont want to believe them. Since he has cheated on me once should i be with him, now? do u think he will actually keep his promise to me and not cheat on me? ok well i have another problem with him...my parents hate him so im not allowed to go anywhere with him outside of school! so wut should i do? should i dump him? or take the chance of him cheating on me?
::Scared and Confused::

What you really need to do is confront him and see if he really wants to take action in a serious relationship or if hes just messing around with ur heart..

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i really need ur advice, ok i have a boyfriend and he's soooo amazing sweet and i love him with all my heart but the thing is, is that my family doesn't like his family and soo that makes it really hard cuz they think he's like his family when he's not, and soo i can't ever go anywhere with him and we're never alone! which sux soo what i did is i told my family that we broke up, which we did for like a week but now we;re back together again and i don't wanna tell my family cuz i kno that they won't ever let me c when cuz when they think we;re just friends they let me go more places, but i feel really bad for lieing, i mean i've lied to sooo many people and i hate it! i just wanna tell everyone the truth, i don't kno if i can. please help, please please
love ya always
bye...

I'm thinking that u need to tell everyone the truth and if they don't except that u love this guy and that u wanna be with him... well all u can do from there is do what ur heart desires! Trust me you will feel so much better after you tell everyone and that stress is off ur shoulder! And plus u dont want to lie to anyone anymore do u?
-Good Luck!

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OOoOkAy.. GeT rEdDy.. i REALLY loved this guy and we went out 6 timez then he dumped me for the stupidest reason.. it was cuz i signed this guys guest book JOKING AROUND acting like i liked this dude..but then i put j/k..and to wrap it all up it was a YEAR AGO when i signed that guest book. and then my BFF knew how much i loved him and then she went and ASKED him out!!! i mean, come on! and then they went out. the next day he broke up with her because i was soo sad about it and then that night he was tellin me he loved me and stuff on the phone. it was as if we still went out. but we didnt. but my bff and i made up and found out that hes tellin us lies. its like he tells her that he likes her and not me. but he tells me he likes me and not her. and he's lying to both of us. but one day. he payed his dad to let him go to hang out with her for the night. and they were going to hide it from me. but my bff told me about it..n he still continues to try and hide it from me..hes lied to me about alot, yet hes lied to her too. i dont know wat to? ive tried liking other people. but thats imposible. he tells everyone the perfect story for THEIR ears to hear.. but i just want him to tell EVERYONE the SAME story. i want the truth.. i LOVE him for REAL! PLEASE HELP!!!!! I REALLY NEED ADVIcE! asap!! THNKZ BUNCHEZ BABE!

okay well i kinda went thru the same thing.. u or ur friend both need to get over him! No offense but hes a big time player, he has lied to the both of u to get ur hopes up and to lead the both of u on. U may not be able to get over him but trust me its for the best for the both of u. When he says he loves u dont tell him u love him hes just lying about it! Dont let it bother u.. just try going out with other guys who will treat u n ur friend the right way! But it wasn't right of ur friend to try hiding things from u!
Stick in there

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I followed ur advice u gave me and asked out that guy and he said no. our families are friends so i will c him all of the time. i think this is really awkward because i asked him out and he said no. im depressed and confused wat shuld i do??
12/f
:..*..:Brittany:..*..:

Just talk to him and become really close friends if thats all u can be right now.. and he prolly feels the same exact way! He knows what ur going thru so just talk to him about it and im thinking talking to him over the internet will be best right now! Or if u have enough courage talk to him to his face.. u never kno what the outcome is going to be... and im sorry my advise didn't work for u before! But im always here for u!
-Good luck!

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