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i'm cristina. I'm spanish, from bolivia. i'm actually really good at giving advice. whether it be about relationships, looks, school, and whatnot, you can trust me w/ these things. I've truly been through a lot. I've had numerous of bad hair days, and definitely a load of bullcrap to deal with. I'm christian, [but i'm not a fanatic]. you can talk to me about anything. sex, hair, school, family, friends, love, racism, whatever you'd like and i'd be glad to give you an answer. and i love tatiana like a lotttttttt
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I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige?
he "can try" to forget. oh hell no, honey. he's not ready. he has to be PREPARED to the forget. scratch that, he has to ALREADY HAVE FORGOTTEN. marriage is a big commitment. you dont want to be divorced by the time your 23. that's when most people get married. 23-27.
So I have a crush on this guy I've been friends with benefits with. Good idea or no? and why?
friends w/ benefits..that type of things always starts off innocently. but as time goes on, it's natural that you and him are gonna start to like eachother. that's why it's not a good idea to get attached. cause maybe if you like him, he might not like you..he just wants to be you're FWB. but i mean, keep doing what your doing ;]
My friend gave my number to the guy that I like and he said that he would definitely call me. If he calls me, I know that I'll get nervous and freeze up. In case he does call, how do I stop myself from being nervous and how can I calm down?
think of the one thing that relaxes you most. maybe the beach, or the soft, wind moving swiftly against your skin. you want to impress this kid right? when he calls, pretend to be busy, but not too busy. like..as soon as you answer the phone, start laughing to give him the impression that someone around you just said a joke, and you're cracking up. it makes him think that you're not lonely, and you're rather popular. just talk to him as if you're talking to anyone else. be cheerful, ask him questions. ask him about himself, what sports he plays, what his hobbies are..all that good stuff.
There's this guy that works at a store right down the street from me and I think he is absolutely gorgeous! I want to start talking to him but I don't know how to go about doing this. Can anyone give me some ideas on how to start talking to him without making myself look crazy?
Oh goddd, if he's a hottie, go get him tiger. Just go down to the store completely casually one day, and buy something. Make sure he's your cashier though. Invite him somewhere. Be like, "it's summer, and you're at work? You should come with me one day to do/go to ________" (whatever it is you wanna do or wanna go) If it accepts, give him your number, or let him give you his number..and just go with the flow
good luck. tina
(15/f) ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now. and im used to guys who are trying to make out with me or atleast kiss me on the first date. my boyfriend and i just had our first kiss on the lips last night. and i had to like pull him over to me to do it. its not like im his first girlfriend or anything.
arnt guys supposed to be nnot shy at all.
isnt the girl supposed to be the shy one?
and its not like im a slut either..
why is he so shy? and how can i make him not"?
eh trust me girl, i've been there. He'll change as time goes on. Just keep on kissing him [even if you're the one who has to lean in over to him], and with time, things will change. Maybe he thinks that you don't want to do anything, so he's not trying to rush you into anything.
is always calling him. Like everytime I am with him, she calls. she'll call like 92875 times if he doesn't pick up. Then he told me that he told her to stop calling because he has a new gf and she cried, cuz she loves him and they lost their virginity to each other but they broke up in february. soo then i thought she stopped calling, but then the other day when i was with him and his friends and his friend has his cell and told him that she called, and then he's all like, why.. what time.. etc. He was really interested in her call.
i've never met the girl, she goes to a different school.
I feel like i'm just getting in the way of something that they could have again. If you've seen The OC, I feel like I'm Anna and they're Seth and Summer. I wish I knew a way to bring this up to him, but I don't know how and I don't even know what I'd say because I can't even put it into words how I feel. I feel like a fool, but theres more to it.
and then last night we hung out til like 11, and then he called me at 11:15 because he's going on vacation and we won't see each other til next week and i said i had a headache, and he told me to go to bed, and i told him that it wouldn't matter if i went to bed because i'm not tired. at the time i thought he was just trying to give me good advice about my headache, but he was really just trying to get rid of me so he could CALL HIS EX GIRLFRIEND. after the headache thing, he was all like, "im sooo tired, im gonna go to bed." but i believed him at the time. then i logged onto myspace and his ex left him a comment being like, 'thanks for calling me at 11:30 last night! call me tons when your down there!" me and him got off the phone a little before 11:30. so much for GOING TO BED.
i've never mentioned anything about how i feel about him and his ex gf, i just keep it to myself because i don't know how to bring it up. he said he'd call me while he was on vacation, so when he calls I think I'll just be like, "I'll let you go, so you can call [his ex] or something." Idk. Advice?
okay. you've got to tell him how you feel. If they lost their virginity to eachother, then yea..she wont stop calling him. Especially if he was her first, she's going to feel the need to continue talking to him. About the MySpace thing, you need to confront him about that too.
A casual way to bring it up, would be..go out to dinner one day. Or lunch. Or breakfast or w/e and just talk about everything. Let it all out.
Maybe because he lost his virginity to her too, he's attached because she has something very dear to him. (his virginity).
Just talk to him about this. Keep checking his myspace. And if you can, talk to her about this too. Tell her to back off, cause he's yours.
A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..
Obviously this guy is SO overrated. well, depending on where you live, you can check out the latest teen clubs. If you live in jersey, there's Soundgarden, and Abyss. That's always a great place to meet new people. Another thing, its summer! you can easily hit the beach with some of your girls, go down the shore, have some fun. Six flags is always an option. Hitting the mall would be the first thing i would do. It always cheers me up. Go to the mall, get a hotties number =).
Ok so i posted something yesterday about how my crush just found out i like him, well he texted me and said we'd talk tomorrow. So i'm just wondering if he likes me. I mean we don't get to see eachother that much right now because school is out but we still talk a lot. And when we do see eachother i can see him staring at me. i look at him he holds his gaze for a second and looks away. it drives me crazy! i want to like walk over and be like i like you! anyways when we see eachother it seems like he can't stand when we're in the same place and we aren't hanging out together. Like he was at my brothers wedding (his cousin married my brother...i knowit seems weird but we have been friends for way longer than that, and we're not blood related...lol just had to clear that up) anyways he was at my brothers wedding and we had a hummer limo no one else was in there yet but instead of sitting somewhere else he sat really lose to me, like really really close. He was always offering me a drink from his beer, and he wanted to dance with me the entire time. He's a grade older than me so we don't een see eachother that much but he always comes by locker after school and talks to me. Does he just want to be best friends or does he want more too? I rate all 5's for good advice!
UM YEA HE LIKES YOU! lol. Okay, i'd like to say a few things.
1.) because he knows that you like him, it's going to make him start to realize that he has a good chance with you, and he might want to make something work now.
2.) You're incredibly lucky that his cousin married your brother. I say that because you two HAVE to be close no matter what. Whether or not he doesnt like you, you still have to be close because of the fact that your brother is his cousins husband.
3.) at the wedding, when you two were in the hummer limo, i bet you looked stunning considering the fact that it was a wedding. So, he's seen you at your best, he's seen you at your worst, and he still wants to be seen with you. He still wants to get close to you. So yeah, I would have to say that he wants to be more than just "best friends" with you.