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Does he like me?
So.... I have a crush on this guy, and I am not sure if he likes me back. It is a little hard to tell. People tell me it s because of his Aspergers. That doesn t bother me at all, if anything it makes like him more. I have spent hours researching and trying to find ways to talk to him, but I am afraid because I don t want to bother him or anything.
I met him last year, and we were hanging out with someone friends. When he first saw me, he stared at me and wouldn t look away from me. He helped me carry things and even leaned on me ( I am 5 0" and he is 6 3") he was very close to me and didnt mind being like that.
Another time he hung out with our mutual friends, they played around and said we should go into a closet (we were in school) and he grabbed me and kinda play pulled me toward the closet and was laughing.
There were a few moments like that and he had even said he was interested in dating me. But that was a few months ago.
I saw him again in school and kinda developed feelings for him. He doesn t talk to me and seems to purposely avoid me. If this means he doesnt like me, I wish I could take a hint...
My friends told him to hug me, and he did, which was surprising since he HATES being touched...
Any advice??? (link)
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Maybe he is afraid to get close to you or he may just want to be friends.
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i like in chicago illinois & i was wondering where i can go to meet guys... that AREN'T pervs
im a senior in high school (17, female) (link)
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Well online dating is a great place to start, cafes, and diners or school.
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I don't know what i done to deserve anything of this, but i never knew how hard a break up can tear someone apart and destroy their whole system inside. It's been nearly 4 months we ended and i find it so hard to sink it in that the last kiss we ever had was gonna be the last kiss ever.. It's painful to understand whats going on in my life. I feel like i've changed so much during these months, i feel like he changed me inside and out, i try so hard to keep my mind busy and yet i don't know what else to do. I don't even think i could be in another relationship for a very long time, i try hide what i feel from everyone and i feel that iv lost those who are the closest to me by my actions, i keep pushing them away.
I feel like an idiot, like I actually wrote to him saying il be here for him and he ignored me.
I never thought love could hurt this bad, and its sad cause its the first relationship that i ever took serious ...
please try and understand me..
female/18 (link)
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Hey sweetie how are you i hope everything is ok. U will find love if he hurt u thats not right
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I'm confused as to what to do. I feel like my boyfriend is lying tj me but have no hard evidence he is. For example when we got together, he was talking about how his grandmother left him her condo when she passed away. But yesterday texted me saying that his aunt is kicking him out of the condo. Which of course made me ask that if the condo was left to him how she could kick him out. He basically said she left him the condo but pays the rent to his aunt and since he's struggling financially because his employer cut his hours and he hasn't been working hes almost 2 months behind on rent so she told him he needs to move out. Another example, his hours were cut because business is slow, which is understandable. He asked for hours(supposedly) and was told he wasn't given hours that week because he had a few negative responses on the service surveys. A week later he claimed he talked to them and they said he got the best responses about his service, and was guaranteed hours the next week. He also said he talked to his boss, and was promoted and given a raise and he would have hours last week. Again he didn't work, until tonight. I asked him yesterday what hours he would have next week and he said he was working today, but not sure he hadn't gotten his schedule yet and he'd have it today. So I asked again today and now he's saying he hasn't gotten his schedule yet. It always seems as though he talks in circles and says one thing then later on contradicts what he said previously. Now I'm left to wonder if he's lying, if I can trust him and if I should break up with him(and yes I've discussed all these things with him multiple times and he blows it off or changes the subject) (link)
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Am sure whatever brach he is in should pay for his college education and he is making excuses not break up with you. 2. He probably is lying to you
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I've had a HUMONGOUS crush on this guy for 3-4 years. We dated off and on a year ago. He now has the big crush on this girl Claudia and he has been recently dating a few girls to get Claudia jealous. It has worked. I really wanna go out with this guy but I don't want to be used. I want him to like for who I really am. Last year we dated and he seemed to get really attached but... I dumped him because things got really busy and complicated. I wanna get back with him now. Help? (link)
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I wouldn't date this guy am sorry he sounds like a jerk.
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Hi!!I'd like to know how to trust someone you love again when you have realized that they keep on lying to you. THANKS (link)
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They wont change its their job. To lie
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I am a 24/F that has a fulfilling life with great family & friends, will have my degree soon and also work. I recently started dating a great guy. The problem is, I don't know how to navigate this. He's more of a "go with the flow" and as much as I would love to be that way, I'm a planner & sort of uptight. Thinking about it though, I'm not sure I'd even have the time/energy for a full-time boyfriend. It's getting intense since we are both very sexually attracted to each other. This excites me, but also scares me. I want him to respect me, but I'm also a realist & don't necessarily need to be in love to have sex. My body, mind & heart are at war here. I'm worried if I take it to the next level, he'll have everything he wants - a girl that he can have fun & have sex with no strings attached. Then again, I'll have that too! What should I do here? (link)
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It sounds like u are not the kind girl
that doesn't live for the moment you have everything but you to understand love is not just fun and games it happens to people everyday.
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Ok I'm 17 f and I was hanging with my two friends that are girls. My boyfriend was also there but he said I was weird because I act different with my friends and that he felt left out. My boyfriend wanted to give me a hug and kiss but I didn't let him get to lovey dovey because my friends would of felt left out. I was to bussy trying to make my two friends feel less weird by totally not being lovey dovey with my boyfriend and I guess I ignored him in a way, even though I didn't want to. Should I invite my friends when I hang with my boyfriend? Or keep inviting my friends but this time not ignore him and kiss and hug in front of my friends? I'm very akward person so sometimes I don't know what to do..
Thanks for reading!!(:
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It seems like u feel insecure around your friends when you are with them and your boyfriend.
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