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hmmmm.......Well I'm Erin I have a best friend named haley and a brother whos 15. I not reallly much of a dater but i give great advice on love. I think this is because i see all points of the relation ship. I love texting, food sleep and him.. I've beeen through alot even though I'm soo young I would love to help you out and i consider no question stupid. k thnxx bye =] You can IM me anytime at :XOERINICOLEXO

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My ex got a summer job at the same camp I'm working at. Last week was our first week working together and he kept flirting and said to me "you know you want me back" right in front of other counselors. He's been calling me at night but I've been avoiding his calls until I figure out what to do. I like him so much. We were together eight months and we broke up in March. We met at this camp last summer. He knows I go out with someone else now and he keeps asking me what he can do to make me like him as much as I like my current boyfriend. So far I've just smiled and gone on about my work. The guy I go out with now is great!!!! Almost too good to be true. We don't argue and he treats me like a princess. Life with my ex was drama filled. My current boyfriend knows we are working together and he has no problem with it. Should I stay with this guy that is wonderful? or should I follow my heart because my heart is telling me to get back with my ex? Either way the rest of the summer is going to be hard...seeing him everyday. Yesterday he started flirting with some other girl but made sure I was around to see it. It hurt so bad but I didn't let on like I cared. What should I do? How do I sort this out?

I agree with the girl below me. Feelings never disapear easily so maybe you are feeling a little regretful but rember that if you ended a relationship there had to be reasons why.. and remeber those reasons Also next time your ex calls you ask him if he could be more professional at work to make it easier to get through the summer . Try to rmeber how much you love your boyfreind and ignore your other feelings.

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okay i met this guy 2 or 3 weeks ago when i was waiting for my friend ouside in class me and his eyes met and he started saying hi to me and introduce himself and ever since we started talking and hanging out and stuff, i kinda like him and we pretty much flirt with each other and we always do a hand shake for like 5-10 minutes and stuff we also hold hands while we're doing our "handshake" we also hug a lot and when im with my friends he tells me to stay with him. also he alwats borrows my wristband i always wear. my friend says we seem like a couple do you think he likes me or what?

I deffinently think thatr he lieks you! SO if you like him back try and be forward about it!

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So theres this guy, lets call him S. And i really like him. But i dont know if he likes me. And i wanna ask him out but i wanna make sure theres a little bit of a chance he likes me. S is in my math class and he sits diagnally from me. And sometimes i catch him glance at me and when i go to look at him back he turns his attention to something else like the clock. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at a lot of stuff. And today this girl, L, that sits next to me at my table thing was like okay stop flirting you two, and he turned red. So does he like me, and should i ask him out? But like im really afraid to do it because i dont want L to know i asked him out since i dont really like her and she"ll make fun of me, so do you think itll be weird if i have J thats in his second hour ask him for me. And whats a way i could go about asking J to ask S out for me. Sorry its long and maybe a little confusing, but any help at all will be greatly appreciated. :].

Just flirt it up and casually invite him to hang out with a group of freinds instread of a one on one date to make it easier. Also flirt with him more .. a little flirting never hurt =]

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My best guy mate is called phil. He's really nice and sweet and i know he would never hurt anyone on purpose. But over the past couple of weeks he's been acting weirdly with me. For example, if we're talking on msn and he has to go, he used to just say g2g cya xx then go offline before i even reply. But now he doesn't go offline untill i answer and he says g2g cya with loads and loads of kisses and sometimes with a heart and allways with a sad smiley face.
We made up this joke a couple of weeks ago, like we would call each my lovly or something, and now he starts calling me babe and baby and everything.
He told me he likes someone and apprantly everyone knows. But, i wanted to know why he wouldn't tell me, we tell each other everything, and i mean everything, everyone was saying it's me but i kept saying we're only friends. Well, i finally got it out of him and he said ''well, i'm not sure yet but it might be storme [this other girl at my school], but i'm not sure yet'' and i asked him why he wouldn't tell me before and he said i didn't want to :(.

Arghh it's pissing me off! Does he like me or is he messing around with me?!

xxx

one possible thing is that he liekd you b4 but you were sending him negative messages so he used this storm girl as a cover up but i would say he deffinenttly has had or still has a thing for you

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Theres this boy, Brandon, he lives in foxboro mass. and i live in Westchester NY.

He days he loves me

Example on aim

"Brandon: I love ***** ***** [my name] more than anyone else in the world."

and he comments my myspace pictures/comments and facebook pics/ comments like

"now i see one gorgeous girl in this picturee "

"pshh can you say I see a gorgeous girl in the mirror?

i think he likes you but only on a physical level

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Ok my best friend (let's call her jenna) went out with (let's call him jimmy) (off and on)for 3 years... they broke up for the 5th and final time (for now) and she's heart broken. This time he for real wants to move on. He blocked her from aim and myspace and won't even talk to her. He was her world for almost 3 years and now he's gone... ok that's her version. The truth is he was a the biggest jerk to her and treated her like crap and she still wants him back and is acting emo about it now.. how can she get over it?

remind her that she will get through this and be a oood freind fo her tell her how much of a jerk he was and that she doesnt need a person liek him in her life bc hes gonna just keep dragging her down when they break up .... also try to have a girls night with soem freinds to help her get her mind off it . but if she seeems self destructive (ie. cutting herself) tell a counsletr imeediately
hope i helped

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okey, i like this guy, lets call him J and lets call me M and we used to be friends and flirt ALOT. but lately we havent talked to each other. I see him alot in the halls and at gym after school, but its just really awekward between us. I think that he knows that i like him bc, somebody who knows, went up to J and said, "I know someone who likes you!!" and then J is like, " Ya, i know its M." So i know that i like him. He told my friend that he thought i was pretty, but idk if he really means it because my friend might have been pressuring him into saying that. he also said that i was a really good friend, but idk. i have his screenname, but he doesnt know that i have one, so i cant just start talking to him, bc then he will think that im like a stalker for having it, but my friend just gave it to me, knowing that i like him. ahhh i really dont know what to do, sorry this is really long. but i dont really want to talk to him in person, because i never get a chance too, and i dont wanna tell my friend to talk to him for me, because thats just lame. im really in need of some help. so if anyone has some answers that would help!! thx in advance

hmmm a good trick tyo use is to im him and ask something liek "who is this agian ?" that way you have an excuse to im him also RELAXX =]
hope it helped

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kay i am freaking out because i am about to go kiss the guy that i like and i was wondering if anyone new anything that might help callm me doown. i have tried breathin but its not working very well. My Hands ARE SHAKING!!!1PLEEZE HELP!

cheww gum so u dont worry about bad breath and just relaxx . it'll work out =]

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ok, i'm having a hard time understanding the whole "friends with benefits" thing. i mean, if you're attracted to someone, and that close to them, why wouldn't you want to just be boyfriend/girlfriend? and i know this sounds sexist, but... i can understand why a guy would like this arrangement ("woo-hoo, i can mess around with any girl i want!"), but as for the girls... don't you feel used and cheap? or are there really that many girls who just want sex and nothing else? i'm really not trying be judgemental, i just want to understand it!

ok sometimes with freinds with benefits its complicated for example a girl may be attracted to more then one guy but she doesnt want to hurt either of them so she has freiends with benefits .. basically you are single but always have a partenr just incase u want action.. i dont know if that helped much or not

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