HEY IM HERE TO HELP IN MY 19 YEARS OF AGE AND I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND STILL GOIN THROUGH THINGS SO ASK ME I BET I CAN HELP...
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Location: N.J
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Age: 19
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Member Since: November 5, 2007
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Okay so about a week ago not the Thursday of this past week but the week before, I was having an issue with my (now ex) boyfriend. My dad was getting tired of my bf's b/s so he had the luitenit(sp?) from police department go to his house and tell him that he cannot contact me in any way or he gets arrested. What is this called? I know its not called a restraining order because my dad didn't actually get one. He said it can be reversed also. Like if I were to talk to him, I could get arrested.
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it's not called anything cause if there was no actual report filedfor a restaining order than it s not real...
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I'm sorry if this is long but I've had this is my system for awhile and i need to get it out.
I met this guy "B" this summer when we were both attending summer school. He is 3 years older than me and we are both in high school. I started liking him, and then we started talking to each other through myspace and then on the phone (texting.) Then we started talking more and the first time we hung out , we made out. We kept hooking up and hanging out constantly and we still are, but not as much as we used to. The problem is that he doesn't really talk to me in school, even if we have a class together,yet he always stares at me. He constantly comes to visit me at my house and i don't think hes embarrassed of me because all his friends know about me. He kept me that he was really confused about something and that it was a complicated situation. Then he admitted to my friends that he liked me but didn't want to ask me out because he was confused about something. A few weeks later. I found out that while he was hooking up with me, he was also hooking up with this other girl. That really made me break down. That's why he was confused ! I've been trying to confront him about this, but i can't seem to do it. It's really hard for me to do, so my question is how should i bring it up and do you think he really does like me or is just playing games?
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if you really wanna know whats goin on you cant go through friends you have to go to him if you cant do it face to face try over the phone or textin but to see if he really like you fall back from him make him think your not into him like that and i bet he come runnin...
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alright let me explain my situation:
theres this kid (mike) he likes me, but hes too much of a friend for me to like him. i cleared that up last night.
and i like his friend (cory) its not the reason i dont like mike though.
my friend.. not that close of a friend, (michelle) has been messing with cory's mind lately. cory has liked her for a really long time, but she hasnt given him the time of day. shes been really unclear about it, and everyone tells cory that he shouldnt like her.
well me and cory are good friends. we always talk about each others relationships. ive been helping him with the michelle situation, and hes pretty much over her. meanwhile though, im kinda starting to like him.
last night we were texting and he was like i heard that you said u liked me (which is true) i kinda beat around the bush, but i eventually admitted that i liked him. after i said that, he was like "i like you too, but u just ended things with mike" so im under the impression that we were just gonna give it time..
well apparently michelle and cory got in an argument last night and now she says she likes him.. i really hope he doesnt go back to her now, because i just admitted to him that i like him and he said he liked me... so what do i do??? what is your opinion of this situation and how can i get this guy with me???? thanks! (link)
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you know what all you can do is sit back and play your part because it sounds like to me michelle is only doin this because she know you guys like each other he's not goin to with michelle because she's been playin him for so long dont rush remeber good things come to those who wait..he's comin to you..good luck pebb
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I have been in a relationship for two years next week and I haven't told him I love him yet. I'm just not sure if I love him and if I'm not sure I'm not going to tell him that I do. He told me he loved me six months ago and I believe that he really does. I'm okay with him saying I love you, but should I love him by now? I mean we have known each other for five years and dating for two. I would think I would be able to say those three words to him. If I'm not in love with him should I break it off before he gets too attached to me? I care for him a lot, but I don't want to hurt him any more than I possibly could. Please help. (link)
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umm..im not sayin you have to fall in love fast but after two years there should be aliitle bit of love somewhere..but i think you should break it off before it get deeper.. than he might get his feelings hurt and i know you dont want that
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okay there is this boy i KNOW i love. well we were going out then he broke up with me, but like i said i KNOW for a FACT that i love him. but he likes another girl. And all my friends are telling me i dont need him, but i do need him. he doesnt love me back and just every second of the day i think of him, and jsut want to be with him. but i know i cant. so what should i do, and my friends are also saying that i could get any guy. and a few boys have asked me out but i dont want them i want the one i love. so what do i do. i jsut cant get over him. he knows that i love him and he just doesnt care i guess.
so please help me .!! (link)
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i know that you probably dont wanna hear this but your friends are right i understand that you love him but you cant sit around and get your feelings hurt because he dont love you back...maybe you should just be alone with no guy until your able to get over him..hope i helped
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my friend cant go on the intertnet so she wanted me to ask how she could get a boy friend....a hot one(lol). (link)
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tell your bestfriend to go out..if she still in school it's the best place
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this isnt really advice im just curious. one day this question popped into my head and ive been thinking about and asking other people as well. i already have an opinion of it but id like other perspectives. the question is, do you think one can be deep IN LOVE with another person, if the feeling isnt mutual? not just love them but be truly IN love. also could you please explain why or why not for your answer =] thanks. (link)
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yes you can deeply love some one nd they not love you it's just like you may love someone a little more than they love you because with us girls we love hard so it's very much possible
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when im texting this one guy i like...our conversations get really boring and i never know what to say/ask..any suggestions? (link)
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textin is the easy way of communcatin just talk about what yall day was like im sure it would lead to something....
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i met this guy and known him since school started. i like him alot and i cannot figure out if he likes me. one time he asked me to go driving around with him and i did. i text him afterwards and said thanks and he said it was fun and that we should hang out more often. and if i mention another guy he kind of gets protective? and he compliments me sometimes, and other people think it is obvious that he likes me. but the thing is the other night i asked him if he wanted to go somewhere and he made it sound like we were going to do it, but then he said it was too late... i didn't know if he really wanted to do it or not and also if i want to talk i have to be the one who sends him a text or i.m. first. am i just analizing the whole situation too much? do you think he likes me?
-plus, when i texted him the other night when he said it was too late to hang out he kept talking about how bored he was and then randomely, out of the blue he said, "man, i really need a girlfriend or something." (link)
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i think he likes you wait i know but boys there so complicated he problem wating on you to give him hints that yoy like him cause he dont wanna make that move and get rejected..he made that random comment because he wanted you to know he wanted a girl and he wants it to be you so if you like him than u might hve to make that first move...good luck ..pebb
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everytime i tell my friends who i'm into, they always make it akward for me. they let on hints to the person so hard, and pretty much confess my love to them. its happened before, and will probably happen again. they dont know who im into right now, but they're getting pretty close to figuring it out. they keep bothering me about it. and to make it even better, its the kid my friend kinda likes (but could never have a chance with.) but i'm pretty sure i have a better chance than her. should i just keep this to myself? or do you think they could somehow help? (link)
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for right now i would keep it to my self but if you and this boy get serious than you should tell your friend especially the friend who wanted him before because that can become a huge problem within itself...good luck..pebb
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So there's this boy...
well, to be truthful, he's so much more than that to me now. We've been dating for a little under eleven months now, and I love the hell out of this boy. He's been everything to me, and we've helped each other out of a lot of potentially bad situations. Of course we've had problems, all relationships do, but overall everythings been perfect.
So this time it came upon me like a ton of bricks. He just seems like he doesnt care anymore. We havent even been fighting lately but he told me today that "I cant stay with you if we're gonna fight every day." Which stumps me because we havent fought at all for the past week or so. And then he got mad at me for talking to an old friend who I've known since I was four. this old friend happens to be very feminine, although he is, indeed, a boy. Well, we fussed about it for a bit and he just walks away like he could care less. Then the next class period he walks up to me with another girls name on his hand. Now, in high school, thats kind of like labeling this boy yours, so naturally I was PISSED. and there is no way this girl couldnt have known we were dating, our high school has less than 60 kids altogether 9-12th grades. And eleven months is a long time. So I asked him "do you care about me" yes. "Do you love me?" yes. "do you wanna stay together?" idunno.
WOAH back the truck up, I'm confused!!! He's NEVER said that before, its always "I love you baby, I'd die if I lost you...yada yada yada" I dont know what to do, whats your opinion? Sorry if this is too long, but I really neeeeed HELP!!!!!
Oh, btw, I'm 16 hes 17 (link)
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hey i been here before it seems to me that he loves but by what your sayin he might be thinkg that its time for you guys to go seperate ways if he starting argument ands doin things that he know wil piss you off(the girl name on him) he just dont know how to tell you because e dont wanna hurt you....i know what your feelin...pebb
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okay well me and alex. broke up yesterday, he broke up with me and said it would probably be better if we were just friends. now i want to be his friend but we have 7th and 8th period together, and today all i did was think about him and today he left early and as soon as he left as SOON as he walked out the door i couldnt hold it in. i was crying like crazzy. i want to be his friend i really want too, but im afraid that if i talk to him all the time. and see him with other girls im going to like him the rest of this year, and be jelous constantly. hes not the HOTTEST guy ever, hes cute and has the BEST personality. it wont be easy trying to tell myself that we will probably never go back out. so my question is how am i supposed to talk to him and be his friend and not show him that i like him. cause i know that if i talk to him im going to like him and never stop. and i want to just from now on think of him as a friend as hard as that may be.
thanks in advanceee! :D (link)
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hey, im 19 and i been here before hnestly it's goin to be so hard to try to pretend that you dont like him...here what i use to do and maybe it will work for you..i always knew when i would see him so right before i use to give myself a pep talk keep sayin u can do it and i bet you can..and after i would break down but aftera while it get easier...hope i helped ..pebb
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