Hi, my names Hermione and i'm basically here to help! My friends all come to me for advice and so i figured that i'd like to help other people if i could. So i'll try my best to give sound, down to earth, practical advice!
So please ask me anything and i'll be happy to answer!
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would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice! (link)
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it all depends on the guy. some guys love the idea that they'll be your first and think its really sweet and cute, whereas other guys like experience. but i wouldnt say it would ever be a turn off, if a guy likes you then it wont make a difference to him.
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So I like this guy named Chris...and I'm pretty sure he likes me to I mean we text ALL the time and were always talking on myspace and Aim at home...I like him alot and I'm pretty sure he likes me alot but there's one problem that is a BIG problem for me. He never talks! Like i wouldnt say he was shy..just he never talks at school unless you start the conversation...I mean I do talk alot..just i'm not a good conversation starter...so what do you think I should do to help him talk more because I would hate to go out with him and he never talked! HELP! (link)
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Sometimes it's just a question of guys feeling a bit nervous, that's why they sometimes don't talk. They don't know waht to talk to you about, and they don't want you to think they're boring if they start talking about something you don't like. so they jsut perefer to listen. Maybe you could have a little talk to him and just say that you wished he'd talk more because sometimes it feels as if he's not really there and doesn't want to talk to you. most times they don't even realise they are doing it. they jsut need a little help sometimes!
hope i helped
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this boy and i have been hanging out this summer and we've gone as far as holding hands and stuff. he seems shy and hasnt told me he likes me yet, but my friends think its obvious because of how sweet he is to me. i dont know how to make the first move, and i just dont know what to do. i like him, but he hasnt told me he likes me back. (link)
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Well i think your friends are right, if he's being sweet and holding your hand then he probably does like you, its probably just that he's shy. Just go for it, tell him you like him. you've got nothing to loose by telling him and if you don't you'll never know if he likes you back because it sound like he's too shy to tell you first.
Just go for it, tell him!
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Okay, me & my boyfriend have been going out for about a week. Seriously. But I really really like him. He likes me back. I trust him.
But that has nothing to do with the question. He's leaving tomorrow morning to go away for a week. Tonight I kissed him, twice, with tongue. Or actally he kissed me.
I'm pretty sure he's kissed someone like that before. But I'm complete new to it. I didn't feel like I did a good job. He just like, got his tongue into my mouth. & I had no idea where to put mine. Way to hard. I feel stupid.
The second time, I ruined the goodbye kiss. I had gum in my mouth and I didn't know what to do with it. So I just pulled back, "I have gum" I laughed. He kind of laughed too. But later I felt stupid.
I'm sure he's okay with it. He's going to call me tomorrow. But I need help with kissing. +X (link)
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Okay, when he slips his tongue inside your mouth your supposed to gently massage it with yours. You'll get used the feeling with practice and know whatto do better. Just try and follow his lead to start with until you get confident, move your tong with the movements of his. As far a feeling stupid, don't, everybody is new to it at some point and feels the same way you did. Just tell your boyfriend that the reason you said the 'gum' thing is because you didnt really know what you were doing and didnt want to do it wrong. just laugh it off, he'll understand, he's had a first time too remember and everybody feel like they do it wrong.
Hope i helped!
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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her? (link)
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If he's a very good friend then he shouldn't pressure you. He should understand that everybody is different and so feel ready to have sex at different times. If you feel you can, try and explain your anxieties with him, i'm sure he will understand and feel bad that he's made you feel like this in the first place.
However if he doesn't take into account waht you say and does pressure you to have sex, purely because he already had and he and his ex used to have sex then thats wrong. You're a different person to her and he should understand that. He's not worth it if he doesnt. No one sohuld feel pressured into having sex, it's supposed to be an act of mutual love and openess between people not just because one of you wants it.
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okay so today...i was talking to the boy i like, online..and he weve liked eachother for a while...and you know we'd kinda flirt and stuff...but yeah it was just friendly i guess. and then the other day he told me that his friend tricked him into saying he loved me and then today he's like, you wanna know something? and im like sure and hes like well today i said i loved you and i wasnt tricked and im like ooo and then my friend talked to him b/c i had to do something and then i came back and talked to him and then i told him i loved him too and he said that i shouldnt say it just because he did and im like i didnt i mean it
so yeah, i know i meant it...but it felt weird telling him that.
so my question is...
how do you know you love someone?
and being 14...is that too young to know what love is?
14/f by the way. thanks..sorry its so long. (link)
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There's all different kinds of love and i don't really think love has an age limit, just a sort of an emotional limit. As you get older you'll get more experience in understaning how you feel about people and about the sort of people you like, its unfortunate but this only comes with age. But i think at your age you can like someone enough to say you love them.
There's no realy way to tell that you're in love either, it's a tricky business. sometimes it can be so obvious that you don't know what you'd do without the person and other times it can sneak up on you and you love them without realising it. i think one on the signs that you love a person is that you feel comfortable to tell them anything, they have to be like a best friend to you and you can't be scared of what they'll say. because to love someone you have to be totally honest and willing to share anything.
Hope i helped!
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