Okay, me & my boyfriend have been going out for about a week. Seriously. But I really really like him. He likes me back. I trust him.
But that has nothing to do with the question. He's leaving tomorrow morning to go away for a week. Tonight I kissed him, twice, with tongue. Or actally he kissed me.
I'm pretty sure he's kissed someone like that before. But I'm complete new to it. I didn't feel like I did a good job. He just like, got his tongue into my mouth. & I had no idea where to put mine. Way to hard. I feel stupid.
The second time, I ruined the goodbye kiss. I had gum in my mouth and I didn't know what to do with it. So I just pulled back, "I have gum" I laughed. He kind of laughed too. But later I felt stupid.
I'm sure he's okay with it. He's going to call me tomorrow. But I need help with kissing. +X
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? One_Fine_Day answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 6:40 am: Okay, when he slips his tongue inside your mouth your supposed to gently massage it with yours. You'll get used the feeling with practice and know whatto do better. Just try and follow his lead to start with until you get confident, move your tong with the movements of his. As far a feeling stupid, don't, everybody is new to it at some point and feels the same way you did. Just tell your boyfriend that the reason you said the 'gum' thing is because you didnt really know what you were doing and didnt want to do it wrong. just laugh it off, he'll understand, he's had a first time too remember and everybody feel like they do it wrong.
Hope i helped! [ One_Fine_Day's advice column | Ask One_Fine_Day A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 1:55 am: Just basically mimick what he does with his tongue. Just move it along with his. Or whenever you talk to him, just be like,"Haha, I'm sorry about the other night with the gum and everything. It's just I've never kissed anybody like that before, and I'm just not exactly sure what to do." And laugh it off. Whenever most girls talk to their boyfriends about it, they'll "help them out" I guess it what you'd call it. And also then he'll understand if you're not very good or whatever your first couple times doing it. Maybe your boyfriend'll explain to you what to do since he is more experienced. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
simplyxogorgeous answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 1:40 am: Hey. Well that how i used to be when i first made out with someone. but here is a little tip
when the guy has his tounge in your mouth sorta move your tounge along with his. and then when he pulls out you go in. (that sounded wierd) but do you catch my drift? Just try to do what he is doing and dont bring yourself down :] [ simplyxogorgeous's advice column | Ask simplyxogorgeous A Question ]
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