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Q: well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
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Q: I really really like my best guy friend. And if I ever lost him, I would feel like dieing. He likes me too. But I'm afraid that if we end up dating and breaking up, we won't be like we are now anymore. All of my ex's I barely talked to after we broke up. No matter who broke up with who. And one of my ex's and I who now hate each other, used to be really close. So if you even understand this sinse it's kind of confusing. Can someone out there please give me advice on what to do?


Ps- Don't tell me to forget about him-because I think about him all the time.
I've already thought about this for a long time and I still don't know what to do.
13/f
Sorry this is long but I will rate!!

Thanks
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Q: the guy i like was at this party with me and my other friends the other day and we were all hanging out cuz hes my reelly good friend and my friend had never met him before but she knew i liked him and all, but she now likes him and ive known for alot longer than she has. so today he was all "its too soon" and so that made me reelly happpy, but then i felt bad b/c shes my friend and all and i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.Any ideas about what i should do?
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Q: my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do?
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Q: okay so i went to a dance on firday and i ment this guy we used tog o to school together and i found out her likes me and so i dance with him and i like him ...but the only problem is that i ahve a boyfiend and i love hima lot and i dont want to hurt him but i wanna get to kno the ohter guy better and he likes me alot and asked me out but i told him i ahd a b/f and i really odn kno whats going on i told himt hat if me and my b/f ever brake up that i would go out wiht him do u think thats right idk just give me some sort of advice ill rate 4 and 5'ss
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Q: what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!


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Q: ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i
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Q: I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(
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Q: ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f
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Q: ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
14/m
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Q: Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!!

really dont stress too much about it TONS of people go through the same thing.. i would say go for it, just let him know that you like him but tell him that you arent sure if you want to have a relationship with him because you dont want to ruin what you have together. having a relationship with a best guy friend has its up's and down's.. first off, he must know you pretty well since you two are friends which would help alot in an actual relationship.. but if you ever DID go out and then broke up, it could ruin the friendship you used to have.. im not saying that will happen but it very well could.. i think that true friendship can handle anything though.. :o) hope it works out!!

Q: theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices

of course she will be upset when you tell her you dont like her.. who wouldnt be? but there are ways to make it less hurtfull.. all you really have to tell her is that you have a girlfriend that you care alot about and you think it would be better if the two of you just started out as friends.. if it progresses into more then maybe you could give it a try


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