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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
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Well, there's this thing about college. She's probably going through the same thing my mom is now that my brother's going to college. She cries like he's going to die. It's losing you that she's worried about. She probably likes being close to you (probably convinient for you both, right?) so the new distance probably sounds frightening. You're right though - you're going to have to work because distance is probably one of the biggest killers of relationships.
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I dated a guy for a few months last year. Things moved way to fast and I found out that I really didn’t like who he was, he was lazy and sports obsessed and treated me like a child. The last straw was a very racist comment he made. I broke up with him almost 6 months ago.
The problem is he still calls me, sends me text messages and insists he wants to talk to me for ‘closure’ and to ‘explain himself’ or just to hear the sound of voice agian. I don’t even like the guy, he kinda creeps me out and have no desire to speak to him ever again. Do I owe him this? Or is okay to just keep saying that I don’t want to talk to him and want him to leave me alone?
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I suggest listening to him as a last favor, just to show him that you're the better person at least. Just make sure he understands that you want him to leave you alone though.
I had the same kind of problem. Just talk to him and eventually he'll get the idea and back off... if he doesn't and it gets serious then I suggest telling somebody else.
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Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..
love maddie (link)
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I like your subject title because it's the truth about high school. High school is a completely fresh start. Most of the people there won't know you. Make friends with the people that don't know you. That way, when the kids you knew from your old school try to pick on you, they'll realize there isn't much of a reason to because other people love ya! That's probably the handiest tip I can give to you. Find people who have things in common with you. In high school, contrary to belief, there aren't many of those stereotypical "scenes".
As for boyfriends, kind of try the same thing. Try getting a guy that has something in common with you. If you're comfortable talking with him, then you'll have a better chance of keeping the relationship.
Hope that helps ya! Good luck in high school!
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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...but on the other hand he asked me to do something with him in the holidays..so that means he asked me out..but i still think that im a rebound girl for some reason...help!!! =(
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Hey chill! Maybe he's just nervous. Not everybody can come out and say "I love you". It's something deep and personal. Look at it this way; he might not want to say it if he doesn't mean it yet. That's actually a good sign because that means he cares about your feelings. He could just be looking for a little bit of recovery room now, so he wants his space. If he was that quick to get with you though, I doubt he's not interested in you. Keep your chin up! Try asking him what's wrong. Being straight forward works best sometimes.
Hope that helps ya!
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
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You're probably shy because they're just not your type. If the guys in your classes don't seem interested in you, or if you just aren't interested in them, try looking at guys in other classes. Sometimes that's good because then they're friends won't know you and you can make a first impression with them too. You shouldn't have a problem with shyness if you're around a guy you like. You'd be surprised. Just try to find somebody with something in common with you, that way you can always find something to talk about. Talking is always the first step. Good communication means a good relationship!
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It has been awhile since me and my ex broke up, but im still madly in love w/ him and i want to talk to him desperatly. Sadly he has a girlfriend who i happen to be friends w/. Im really scared to call ... any advice?
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If you guys broke up and he's already moved on, the chances are that he just doesn't want to get back with you. He probably doesn't feel the same way you do because he's with somebody else already. I mean, if you want to talk to him in that "hey, we're friends" sort of way, then go ahead and call him. I don't really see a problem. Just tell him "you know, I still have feelings for you," or something, and see what he says if you still want to try getting back with him. If he implies that he doesn't really care, then let it go. The relationship's gone. You won't find out anything until you call him, I guess.
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I used to be really close to this guy, but then we went through this misunderstanding where he thought i had said something that i didnt, and now he hates me. i tried making things right with him, and i even had a friend ask him what was going on. he said that he was sorry for making me feel bad but didnt want to be friends with me or aquainted with me at all. what should i do?
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Try calling him. That'll assure you that he can't just walk away from the conversation... unless he hangs up and then you know it's bad. Just tell him you really didn't say what he thought you did and say that you're sorry if you offended him. Ask him if there's another reason for why he's acting like that. There probably is because it's stupid to break up a friendship just because of "something you said".
I had something just like that happen to me recently. Just be nice to the guy and see what happens. If you really want to keep the friendship, tell him that. Don't lose the opportunity to keep his friendship or it'll be gone for good.
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ok i am i guess still dating this guy named david that lives in the uk but i live in the states way way far away and i kinda cheated on him with this girl that lives here should i dump him or not and if i dump him he haz wasted alot of time and EFFORT on me he even told hiz friends there that he was gay just sooo he could be with me i would appreciate it if u give me good answers and i also rate high for them soooo thank you lots P.S. and if u couldent tell i am a bi guy that lives in okla that (link)
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Well, it all comes down to love. Cheating on somebody is never right and you'll have to realise that. The only way that'll work out for you is if you really like/love the girl you were cheating on him with. The guy sounds really great though. If he's willing to put some of his personal life aside for you, then I just wouldn't take that for granted. It sounds like you'd break his heart if he made that much of an effort. You seem concerned, so it sounds to me like you're still interested in him. You hardly talked about that girl.
If you appreciate what he's done for you, and you'd still be willing, give him a longer chance and see if you're still digging him more than that chick.
Hope that helps ya a bit.
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