Hey! My friends call me Bee! I like to be myself and do things because I want to, not because everyone else is. I like to hang out with my friends and family, and I'd like to be a film actress someday. I've been giving advice to my friends and family for a while now, and thought I could give others some as well. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm not too quick to judge and am very open-minded!
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Location: Indiana
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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 3, 2005
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ok. im not sure if my friend (brad) likes me or not. i mean i kind of like him. but when hes online we always talk and argue and then sometimes during the summer he would call me and we would talk for almost 2 hours every night. then when i had a sleep over i called him and we were talking and he got mad at me cuz i hadnt called him in a week. his brother is always askin m if i like him and his brother told me one day that brad loved me, then he goes just kidding, then he said but he really does.. now i no he doesnt love me but i think he might like me.. can anyone tell me what they think? and if you think he likes me, what should i do to maybe turn this relationship into something more? (link)
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Now, I'm not psychic, but that sounds like he likes you. He may be trying not to be too obvious in case you don't feel the same. You need to ask him somehow to know for sure. You could approach the topic casually, like mentioning what his brother said. Then ask him where on earth his brother could have gotten that idea. From the way you've described him, I doubt he'll come forward very easily, so tell him that that got you thinking about the two of you maybe being more than friends. Make sure he knows you're open to the idea, but don't want to rush anything or pursue anything he's not ok with. Tell him that no matter what, you were friends first and will always be, even if you start to date. Hopefully that will get him talking about how he really feels. Don't push him though. He'll tell you when and what he wants to. And of course there is always the possibilty that he doesn't feel for you that way, but remind yourself that's his loss.
Hope that helps and things turn out ok!
~Bee~
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i sometimes look at girls and think they are really pretty and fit. But i dont thik of going out with them i just think they are really nice and am really close to them. Am i bisexual? coz i think they are fit? Sometimes i even think strangers are really nice and pretty and think about them,, im confused (link)
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It's alright to think other girls are pretty. Honestly, every girl can notice that (unless they are blind or REALLY self absorbed LOL). You could be bisexual if you have feelings for them. If you want to kiss them, or think about them a lot, or just feel strongly about them in a way you wouldn't a friend. If you seriously just notice that they are good looking, your most likely straight, and completely normal.
Hope that helped you!
~Bee~
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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do? (link)
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You need to find out if he really hates you first of all. Ask him or one of his friends, or if your shy have a friend of yours do the digging. If you find out that he really does hate you, CHANGE HIS MIND! Show him what a great person you are. If you need any more advice, feel free to ask. I hope things go well!
~Bee~
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I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??
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You should tell your friend what's going on and ask her how she feels about it. Make sure you let her know that you didn't want to hurt her and will put your friendship first no matter what. If she gives you her blessing, keep dating the guy. If she doesn't you should dump him, but make sure he knows he didn't do anything wrong and that you still think he's a great guy and all.
Hope that helps! Good luck!
~Bee~
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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it? (link)
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You like your boyfriend, so it's natural to be a little worried and jealous. But if your boyfriend says he wouldn't cheat on you and he hasn't given you any reason to assume otherwise, you should trust him.
Hope that helped you some!
~Bee~
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I was at this workshop thingy today. There was this one girl who's about my age and i really wanted to talk to her. She's cute and seemed nice when i met her. But i'll only get to see her for a couple more days. I don't think i'm gay so don't mention that..i'm a young/f by the way. What's the point of even getting to know her if i wont see her???? Any ideas??? (link)
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Who's to say you won't see her again? This is a small world sister! Anyway, ask her for her phone number, SN, e-addy, or regular address. You two could correspond that way and get to know each other. And as for liking her as more than friends, that's perfectly ok. You could be curious or something more. If you're questioning, think it over some more. There's nothing wrong with being who you are! Don't forget that! And get to know her some now before the workshop's over, people are always different in person than behind a comp or phone. And also, it's never a waste of time to get to know someone new. You can never have too many friends! Hope all goes well and you have fun at your workshop!
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im not concited. but i am well liked at my school. everyone thinks im...
exsperienced such in the kissing section. well ... im not... when you come from my elementry u are like a goodie good. not that i am but what ever. so anyways i havnt had my first kiss cause im not a hoe and im saving it.
is that soo wrong. and if i do kiss someone. would it all just come soo much more naturally? (link)
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Kissing someone doesn't make you a slut or a hoe, but not kissing someone doesn't make you a prude either. Save your kisses for someone who means something to you, not any old guy who comes at you. A kiss is something intimate, and if the moment and person is right, it will come naturally.
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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?
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I'm 15 and haven't seriously dated. I have friends who have, and some have had totally breathtaking experiences, others have had their hearts ripped out. I think that you should date when you feel ready, whatever your age. You shouldn't cave to the pressures though. Find a guy you can see yourself being friends with. A good relationship always stems from friendship. If you can't be friends with the person you're dating, there's no future there.
Hope that helped!
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