Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed)
Firstly, use a medical device to find our whether you are pregnant or not ?
Secondly, a virgin is a person who never had sex. You had anal sex. Unfortunately, you are no more a virgin.
But that shouldn't call for any harassment until and unless you get pregnant.
Take needed measures. You won't get pregnant, if you do so.
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I (24/f) have had a few serious relationships in my life, and they have been great - for the most part. I am in one right now with an amazing guy that I can see a future with. The problem is, I am always insecure, though I've hid it well with all my relationships including this one. If I don't get a text/call for hours, I get worried or suspicious. If my current bf is out and girls will be there, I get myself all worked up, feel sick to my stomach and it's all I think about. It's driving me insane, because I've never been cheated on/betrayed (to my knowledge) and have no reason not to trust my bf. I'm terrified I won't be able to hide it much longer, and it will ruin a wonderful relationship. How can I fix this? I'm exhausted from being so insecure.
Well, I would like to give one remark here. You are acting much like an Indian girlfriend. You seem traditional when it comes down to relationships. Well, don't worry about it. The problem I see is that you have quietly turned overpossessive which is not good for a relationship. You don't need a psychiatrist or anything for that. You just need to change your viewpoint. The thing you need is a little trust in your relationship. It will take a little time. When he is out, even if there are girls around, try to relax yourself by telling yourself that he loves YOU, that's why he is in a relationship with you. Otherwise he would have had already left you if he didn't love you. So, chill and move your focus away from it. You might like to call him or text him when he is out for long but that shouldn't be an interrogation. He might not like it. Instead, it should show a little bit of care for him. Ask whether he is fine or not. How is he feeling. Is he enjoying or not. When will he be back, because you are missing him, not because you are feeling insecure. Hope that helps. And remember, since it is a relationship, it might take a little while for things to get better. Don't hasten. Don't panic. Try practicing "pranayam" or meditation. It will help in relaxing you. Good luck.
Regards.
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So I'm with this guy (let's call him Trevon), we aren't exactly dating, ut's bot official but we are a "thing" and I'm worried that he might start thinking he owns me it something. See what happened is he is going to be doing this rap battle thing soon and he doesn't want me to come because he said I'm "too innocent" (we r pretty opposite, he's more from "the hood" and I'm a "goodie two shoes") I told him that it would be fine and I can handle it but he said "no u can't go I won't let you" maybe the word "let" just slipped out but he doesn't have the right to allow me or not and if he doesn't think he owns me at all then that word shouldn't even be in his mind. I talked to one of my really good guy friends about it (he's also best friends with Trevon) and he said it might be because while they are rapping they could start rapping about eachothers girl and he might not want me to get hurt
But I don't know because just a few days ago I was talking with Trevon and he said to me "you always say the opposite of what I say" so I asked him "what am I suppose to do just agree to everything even if I don't" and all he told me was that he was tired and was going to go to bed
Are these early signs that he thinks he owns me?
I'm 16 and a female
Well according to the details that you provided, it seems that being strongheaded is his nature. If you are happy with him for some other reasons, like the way he makes you feel special by giving gifts or something like that, then you should keep on living with him. Otherwise, if there's nothing about him which can give you happiness when you are with him, then it's better that you leave him before it's too late. Being with the wrong person is totally stupid. So, if you think that you are totally not having a good time with him then leave.
Sorry for the awfully late reply. I was undergoing some pathetic circumstances, so I wasn't able to come online and check my inbox. I'm sorry. Hope you will sort out this problem fast. Good luck.
Regards
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So i asked this guy out cuz i really like him, and he likes me. He says yes and the next day, hes a ootal jerk. I was just wondering what im supposed to do, beacause i really like him. (P.s. please dont trash talk him, because hes my boyfriend)
See. This behaviour is totally normal with guys. I am also in love with a girl and we fight everyday. The best part of our fights is that after the fight we try to console the other person. We try to make each other feel well. If you love him and he loves you back, it should be known to you. Otherwise it's completely normal. You just keep hanging out with him. It's his young energetic mind that is making you worry. Don't worry.
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