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hi im katie aka monique im 13. im in 8 th grade and i go to jwyms. i love romeo hes sooooo fine
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Age: 13
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ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!! (link)
if hes cheatin on u u should break up wit him
and if he lied to u just to have sex wit u yea u should break up wit him.if he makes up a lie tell him nope


i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!? (link)
he doesnt own u u can do whatever u want.u can go out with other boys or u can date him


Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..? (link)
well if he cant take anything serusoisly (how eva u spell it) then hes noy gunna be such a good boyfriend u could do better


im in love with my guy. all my friends and family members like him and they get along with him pretty well. everyone, except for my older sister. she thinks that hes no good for me and that hes using me. it makes me upset because whenever theyre face to face, she tends to be ignorant towards him.. and a lot of the times, he doesnt want to come over my place because shed be home. ive tried to make her realize that even though him and i go through stuff, that we still love each other and she just needs to accept it. but no matter how much i tell her, she never listens.. and she talks a lot of shit about him as well.. what can i do to have her accept us? (link)
theres nothing u can change her feeling deep down inside. she just trying to protect you because thats what big sisters do.ask her why she doent like u to going out then what ever she says try to fix it


My boyfriend and I haven't been going out for that long. When we're kissing and really into it, he tries to finger me and I really am not ready for that right now. How do I explain/tell him I very much enjoy kissing him, but I don't want things to go too far just yet? (link)
tell him you want to take it slow and if he doesnt wanna talk slow then u guys should break up


I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him (link)
just tell him u like him


i have a gigantic crush (not love) on this guy. but i know nothing will come out of it. i don't want to like him, but my heart is leading my head right now. how do i stop liking him? (link)
well i had the same problem the only reason y i liked him was cause he was really fine.but u can just act like he isnt thurr when u see him


Okay well at camp this year i met a guy with all good qualities and of course i began to like him. so when i knew i liked him a lot i told him and then figured out he liked me too. Well we were going to hook up but then we decided not to because i would have to ride a ferry boat and then drive 30 minutes just to visit him. and i couldnt do that every week! Well i miss him a lot and i think about him everyday and well i am afraid to hook up with anyone else because i am afraid i might think about him and then end up having to break up with the guy. What should i do? I need advice!!! BADLY!! (link)
u should go out with tyler even though u cant see him every week it could be a long distance relstionship.Worst comes to worse it might not work out.


Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please! (link)
yeah u should go with him if u like him u might not kno what happens


Ive had the same boyfriend for about a year and 6 months and lately there hasnt been much time for us to spend together. He left for a week to go to some soccer camp, then he went to an afternoon camp that ran for a week from 4:30 till 8. And now hes started varsity soccer which is gonna cut into the time we spend together. He practices 4 hours a day and his mom invites his friends over all the time which leaves me with about a day a week to see him. I dont think this is fair. And for a week i was sick with mono which he gave to me...and he didnt bother to call or send me flowers like my other friends did. I dont know what to do with him any more...any suggestions? (link)
wellif udont wanna break up wit him right away just do the same thing hes doing to u. Hang out with ur friends.Or u could just break uop with him.Or u should sit down and talk to him ask him how he feels.


okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy? (link)
well u should at leat wait 2 months so he doesnt walk all over u when he asks u


Ok well....I like this guy lets say mike* and his friends name is steven. Well i like mike* and steven is always saying that hes better then mike*and that i shouldnt like him bcuz hes a player. BUt wut im realli confused about is y is steven sayin that? does he like me? bcuz i kno mike* isnt a player. Help! i rate! (link)
steven is probl;y saying that because he likes u.
or maybe mike is a player and he just donest want u to get hurt


ok i used to go out with this guy but we didnt really do anything so we broke up and plus i dont think he liked me anymore and i didnt think i liked him but now that were back @ school everytime i see him i get really really nervous but i still like him as a friend what can i do not to act so nervous around him? (link)
welll just act like he aint thurr unless u want him to notice u then u shouild start talkin to him.
yeaah


When I first met the guy I like right now he would always tell me to call him and stuff and we'd always talk no matter where or what we were doing.Well now that school started we hardly talk but I still like hime very much.Well last Sat.when I was at his house we made out and he was holding me and stuff and when I said I was cold he would pull me closer you know he was very sweet! Well it's tues and I haven't talked to him since Sun.I like him alot and He makes me happy.But I hate calling him other then when he tells me too{{ i feel like im bugging him}} So..Should I call him?Im 13 female. (link)
if u call him like 5 times a day then that would probly bugg him but any way y not call him if u like him and he likes u.
yeah




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