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So I've been talking to this guy for over a month now and he's sending me mixed signals. He keeps asking me to send him "pics" and I tell him that I don't send them to anyone else I'm in a relationship with them. But we flirt and everything. I just can't figure out if we have a thing going or if he's just a normal guy being a friend. (link)
I think you should ask him.
LOL sorry it was a short answer but i think its most subtle and good.
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Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm really giddy and excited because I just started dating this (named Kyle) who I've liked for a while. I texted him asking him out and he replied with "sure". Here's where my worries start: He can't say no to anyone. He dated a girl that he didn't like for three weeks (because she asked him out) until she got bored and dumped him. He's just a really really nice person with a fear of hurting anyone. So what if he doesn't like me and just said yes to spare my feelings? We joke around and talk a lot but he's like that to a lot of girls. Not flirty, just friendly to all. So is there anyway to know for sure if he likes me???? I'm not very pretty either, a little overweight and stuff. Thanks in advance!!!! (link)
Hi, I'm MadameFrappe and I am be completely honest and try to help the best that i can.


What is your opinion with online dating ? Do you think you can start talking to someone online and just feel inside you that this is it. You have so many of the same interest feelings and views especially with family and parenting life. You have been threw a lot of the same things and know those are things you don't want to go threw again. (link)
Hi, I'm MadameFrappe, and I'm gonna be honest with you. i think online dating can be a good or bad thing. 50/50... for three reasons.
1.) You could possibly find the love of your life, or some 58 year old hobo. (YIKES!)
2.) You might also meet someone who will love to be apart of your kids lives as well as yours, or he/she may hate kids. *Remember that anyone who doesn't want to be apart of your kids lives apart from yours is probably not the person you want to be with.
and 3.) Once you meet someone who you think may be the one, don't give your hopes up. Just because it seems like you have everything in common doesn't mean you actually do. there are some liars out there who will do and say just about anything to get to you. Or, maybe you do really have lots in common. This is a decision your gonna have to make for yourself. :)
Hope this helps.
Love, MadameFrappe. Ask me anything else you might need!


I am single,and am a christian. However,I this guy makes me soooo happy,and comfortable,he totally gets me and we can have the most random discussions with each other,he says he likes me,he told me and also my friends,I wud definetly date him but he's 15!!,and am 18 ppl wud talk,my family wud judge,and u know iht wud be ockward, but I like him so much,he makes me happy,and we have innocent fun together.. What should I do?? (link)
Your an adult now, and he is just a teenager. everybody has the right to be happy, but maybe you should just wait until he is of age to be with you. you don't want to be considered a petifile.
Hope this helps and you don't think I'm just being a jerk.


18/f

okay so I met this guy a few weeks ago and we talked ALL the time and we ended up messing around a bit but we didn't have sex, and weve done that about 3 times now and he tells me he likes me but whenever I message him about 50% of the time it takes him FOREVER to read them or open them, but like the last time we hungout he wanted me to take a picture with him to snapschat his mom so im soooooooooo confused!! I really like this guy and I just don't want to get hurt again,......

Thanks! (link)
Hi I'm MadameFrappe and I'm going to answer your question in an honest, empathetic way.

I totally get what you're going thru girl! I was afraid to get hurt by a guynp that I really liked too. Like you, we would talk, hang out and all that. But sometimes I felt like he was leading me on. I felt like somedays he seemed like he really likes me... and other days I feel like he just wants to be friends.
Here are 3 things you can try:

1.) ask him if he really likes you. For real. Tell him he's been giving you mixed signals and you don't want to get hurt.

2.) Pay attention to that way he acts around you. If he acts all sweet and funny and nice to you in a way he doesn't act around other girls... maybe he really does like you. :)

3.) Just act normal. Hang out and be YOURSELF! :) NEVER ACT LIKE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT TO IMPRESS A GUY.
Hope this helps!!! Please ask me anything else you might need and I will SURELY be more than happy to help you.

Love, MadameFrappe


I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but I still feel like he doesn't trust me. He asks me the same question again and again as if I had lied.

He was previously engaged and she cheated on him multiple times, I just don't think he trusts me all because of her.

He's great, but he also yells so easily and he doesn't trust me. I just, i'm so torn.

Oh, and on top of that-- We live 4-5 hours away from each other.

THanks (link)
Hi, I'm MadameFrappe and I am going to give you the best, truthful and thoughtful answer I can give to you.
If your boyfriend doesn't trust you and you've been together for almost two years maybe you two should talk about the concerns your having in your relationship. Tell him that you know his previous girlfriend cheated on him and you know he probably has some trust issues... tell him that he CAN trust you,and that you would NEVER do anything to hurt or sadden him. Make sure that he knows you love and care for him.
Living far away from someone you love can be really challenging. Make a plan for times you could meet each other halfway and hang out. Or, if the two of you are thinking about tying the knot (getting married) maybe you could talk about finding a good house for the two of you.
I hope this helps you! :) please ask me if there is anything else you ever need. I may be a stranger...but I am always looking for ways to help people. So in a way... I can be like your best friend who can give you the advice you need.

Love, MadameFrappe




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