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i broke up w/ my bf yesterday but i want to get back together w/ him! it hurts so bad! i broke up w/ him cause i liked this other guy nd he still likes me nd i still like him but hes 2 yrs older than me. idk if hell ask me out or not. wut should i do? if i get back together w/ him i might regret it nd i dont want to go throu this agian but i want to go out w/ him while i still can. this is so confusing. i hate it! i love them both!
♥ First...you broke up with your b/f for a specific reason. You thought it was a good reason...and if you get back together with him, you might start thinking the same thing again, and will want to break up again. ♥ Second, your ex-b/f might not take you back, if you told him the reason why you broke up with him was for another guy, that prolly shattered his ego. ♥ Third, see how it goes with this other guy, he might like you too, and you 2 might hit it off, trying hanging out with him (a semi-date) good luck!
♥ Lins
Basically this guy I know is ignoring me.
He used to like me, and I mean loads, and we got on really really well. He used to call me all the time and flirt with me like hell. It took me ages to find out he fancied me (even then with a little help from mutual friends). I started to like him too, then he called me up and asked me out. I said yeah, but then I didn't see him all week...which was both our faults, but then the first day that I saw him he ignored me and then sent one of his female friends to dump me.
He's been ignoring me now for about two months, and its getting really uncomfortable. I still like him, but I haven't got a clue whether he still likes me.
And I just found out one of my not-so-close friends likes him too...and apparently he likes her.
Why is this guy ignoring me? And what should I do?
Thanks!!!
go up to him and ask him yourself why he's ignoring you. he prolly got to know this girl that week that you 2 weren't hanging out and was just too chicken to tell you (thats why he was/is ignoring you) and then he started to like her, and he was too scared to break up with you on his own too. you should tell him how you feel and what you think about everything, he kinda sounds like a jerk to me if he made one of his friends dump you for him. good luck though!
♥ Lins
Hey. My boyfriend is telling me online that he wants to run away because he thinks his parents hate him, but I know they don't. Anyway, there's not much I can do, because we live an hour apart. I'm trying to help, but nothing's working. What can I say to him? Please help, I don't want him to hurt himself.
x3 Erin
just remind him how much he means to you, and how much his family does love him. he needs someone that will tell him that nonstop, b/c he thinks his parents hate him, but you don't think they do, he needs to understand that. good luck and hope i helped!
♥ Lins
Ok my boyfriend is turning 13 and i really love him and he loves me but hes birthday is coming up and i wanna get him a good gift any ideas?
ill rate 5's
hes not really into sports or anything like that but hes not a skater
make him a cute home made card...and get a picture frame and get a cute pic. of the 2 of you together. i'm sure he'd love that! good luck!
♥ Lins
i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me?
maybe he thinks you're getting too clingy? try backing off a little bit, and take a break from each other. but if he keeps doing this more and more, he's not worth you're time, b/c he obviously doesn't want to hang out with you. good luck!
♥ Lins
I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
the best way to do this is to flirt back with him and make it direct. ask him to hang out alot with just the 2 of you. he could just be flirting for fun or be serious about it. if his friends come up and ask you questions about the 2 of you, thats obviously a major sign there. some other ways are:
*when he's talking only to you, he seems to talk a little softer
*if he actually listens when you 2 talk
*look directly into your eyes..and tries to keep contact that way
*he remembers things that you have said b4 and brings it up or asks you about it
hope that helped a bit
don't hesitate to ask me anything else, good luck!
***Lins
I have always wanted a boyfriend. But my public persona says NO. Even though I've wanted a boyf. really bad, guys (almost every, the only ones who aren't either are gay or have a girlfriend)are really mean to me because my ideas are kind of old-fashioned, I like classical music, I dress kind of old-fashioned, and I'm uncontrollable, and incredibly opinionated. I tried liking a guy once, but he just laughed in my face and told the whole grade. If I sort of let down and turn into just a regular girl, people will think i've gone soft and I won't feel like myself! Advicenators, help me!
just stay yourself, NEVER change for a guy. if they don't like you for who you are, then they don't deserve you! the right guy will come along and we love you for the person you are.
(cheesy i know! lol)
good luck!
*Lins
I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
the best way to do this is to flirt back with him and make it direct. ask him to hang out alot with just the 2 of you. he could just be flirting for fun or be serious about it. if his friends come up and ask you questions about the 2 of you, thats obviously a major sign there. some other ways are:
*when he's talking only to you, he seems to talk a little softer
*if he actually listens when you 2 talk
*look directly into your eyes..and tries to keep contact that way
*he remembers things that you have said b4 and brings it up or asks you about it
hope that helped a bit
don't hesitate to ask me anything else, good luck!
***Lins
Ok, I have these two friends that are girls, just call them a and b. well, a started going out with this guy, and through her i became friends with the guy, and we were always talking on aim and stuff. but then they broke up, and he started going out with my other friend, b, and now we're clopser, and he's like my best guy friend. but now i think i like him as more than a friend, but i know he's rly happy with my best friend, b. wat can i do?
the thing i was always told was to never let a guy come between you and you're girlfriends and to not fight over a guy. There's really nothing you can do, she's your bff, and he's you're best guy friend, if they are both happy, that's prolly all he'll ever be to you, unfortunately.
ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help!
it was the first date, let alone a blind date! you should do whatever your comfortable with. he was wrong to call you a prude b/c 1.) he doesn't even know you and what you're like and 2.) if he wanted it to go farther he could of tried to kiss you too, like you said the guy should make the first move. so don't worry about what he says, he was completely wrong and don't worry about it.
*Lins
im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever!
salad always works!
I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
my advice is to never lie about anything like this. it always turns out bad in the end. and for all you know this guy could get jealous or upset w/ you for some reason, and he could tell your b/f. you're best decision is to tell him as soon as possible, you don't want him to hear it from someone else. that would be way worse. good luck!
Is it ok to tell someone you like them cause for one they're moving to another state and you might never see them again.... but i have a boyfriend and i'm like in love with him but this other guy i like is leaving and i don't know where these emotions are coming from but i can't help it what should i do
signed,
hopeless romantic
if you're in love with your b/f it's deff. not gonna be a problem. he's one of your good friends and you're just sad he's gonna be moving to a different state. if you wanna tell him how you feel about him leaving there's not problem with that, but you just wanna keep your b/f in mind too. good luck!
"Bob" got a REALLY big smile on his face and said "Yeah" when my friend told him I liked him. I want to tell him I like him, but I also don't want to scare him away. I love our friendship, but I want it to be more. I'm not sure if he does and I'm afraid if I tell him I like him and he doesn't like me I can just say goodbye to our friendship.
Well, my advice is that if you're THAT worried about ruining your friendship, then push it. but if you wanna try it out, b/c it seems to me that he likes you by the way he reacted to your friend. so if you're willing to risk your friendship, then maybe he is too. good luck!
I've noticed in the past few years, (I'm fourteen and female) that whenever I see a picture of a girl in a swimsuit that barely covers them, I get really turned on. I don't think of doing anything with them or anything, but it's just I get turned on. Am I bi?
simple answer, no. it's normal for a girl your ago to feel like that. it deff. doesn't mean that you're bi. you're body's gonna be changing alot of the years. and it gonna be so weird stuff. but nothing to worry about here.
Hi, I'm 17 years old (I'm a girl, BTW) and I really like this guy I hang out with, "Bob". I met "Bob" through a mutual friend and then me and him started hanging out without our mutual friend. We have been haning out for weeks now, but it is always with my friends or his friends. Well, one day my friend told him I liked him, and I was so happy. It's been about a week now and he hasn't said anything. He always calls me, and we talk on the phone for hourse sometimes. We used to talk every day but when finals started we only talked every few days. We hang out all the time and he seems to be flirting with me. But does he like me? Or should I just give up on Bob?
well..first off did you find out what "Bob" said you your friend when she told him that you liked him? he might be too shy to say something to you. second don't be worried if you guys didn't talk that much during finals, he was prolly stressing/studying for them. he might just wanna be friends and he might wanna be more than that, maybe you should tell him that you luck him. he might just wanna hear it from you instead of one of your friends. don't give up on Bob until YOU tell him how you feel and vice versa. hope i helped and good luck!
What are the tell tale signs that some one is cheating on you?
*won't look you straight in the eyes
*sorta blushes in the face
*voice might change
*doesn't hang around w/ you as often
*hangs out w/ alot of girls
hope i helped
I'm 15 and going into 10th grade but the guy I like is 19 and going to be a sophmore in college. We've been hanging out alot and he said he liked me too...but my mom is way against it. she says he's too old and she 'knows what older guys want out of younger girls' but its not like that at all. How do I get her to see that he's not jus trying to get some?
have you, him, and your mom hang out alot, let her get to know him to see how nice and sweet he is, and make sure you tell her to keep an open mind about him. otherwise it will never work. good luck!
This guy likes me, and wants to go out with me, but I dont like him. He calls me like everyday and says really creepy stuff like I want to make out with you or like how he wants to sleep with me. I always tell him to leave me alone, but he's not getting the picture, how do I get rid of him?
the easiest way is to just ignore him, but that doesn't always work, unfortunately. try talking to him about it, and keep telling him flat out that you're not interested in him, and tell him to move on. i know it sounds harsh but u gotta be harsh if he's not understanding you. if hes getting kind of stalkerish, you might wanna say something to the rents too. good luck!
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Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know.
if he talks about other girls that flirt w/ him, expecially if he knows that you don't like them, it's prob. because he wants to get you jealous, so then you'll flirt with him more. also he flirts with you too? so that could maybe be a sign that he likes you too. and the whole not caring thing...thats prolly just part of him playing hard to get. good luck!