Dude, she probly thinks that if you guys start hangin together that gurls her age r gonna thinkshe's a skank. i'm 15 too and as far as my friends go, if i started dating an 18 year old guy, they'd think i was a slut. for her sake, i say you back off. If you really care,then you'll let her keep jer good reputation.

I had the exact same problem. I told my mom about this guy, and she instantly turned around and told my dad. My dad was dissapointed not that i was dating anyone, but that i wasn't the first to tell him. He hates hearing stuff about my life from my mother. He wanted me to tell him stuff about my life. i dont know your age, but 11 months sounds serious enough to tell your father. Besides maybe your relationship with your dad will strengthen if you show you want to share a part of your life with him. That way, when it comes time to go on a date with said boy, your dad will know about this boy and it won't sound like its some random guy you just met, and hes more likely to allow you to go. Hurry up before your mom blabs! lol
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Lonley_girl

Be gentle and honest. Tell him your not ready for a relationship, or that, really, you just don't like him that way. Say you guys make such good friends, you wouldn't want to ruin it by starting a relationship. Don't be too cliche, that will seem very condesending. Be as honest as possible without being mean or corny. If he does value your friendship, he'll probably be able to accept that. It will take time for him to heal and you should respect that. Put yourself in his shoes, if you liked a guy, what would you want to hear (aside from the obvious). I hope this works out for you.
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Lonley_girl

Sounds like your in quite the pickle. First thing first, make sure that you really don't want to be with him. Think of him being with another girl. If you could handle it, then you probably should break up with him. If you do choose to break up with this guy absolutley try to remain friends. Be aware though, that he will probably be hurt, so don't expext him to wanna go out for beers the day after. It will need some healing time for him to resolve his feelings for you. This means no emails, texts, calls, whatever for at least a couple of weeks. Also staying on his good side will be somewhat benificial in case you feel like you've made a mistake in ending it and want to talk. Do all you can do. But remember you cannot control what he does, if he is notoriously a psyco ex, then he probably won't want to be friends. Also I agree with dottie, it wouldn't be a good idea to date this other guy for at least amonth. or until you and your (soon to be) ex are friends again. Trust me, he will not want to be friends if he still has feelings and you've already moved on. You sound like a very empathetic person, and i think its great that you are considering his feelings, i wish you the best.
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lonely_girl

Love is a really complex thing, here are a few signs you may be in love
Do you check his facebook/myspace/whatever page more than once a day?
Do you fantasize about him, and are your fantasies about more than sex? (ie romantic things)
Do you check your phone/email every twenty minutes to see if hes sent you anything?
Do you spend more than an hour every day thinking about him?
Does time fly when your with him?
Do you not mind dealing with his dorky friends if it means you can be with him?
Do you feel like you guys don't need to talk? like just being in each others presence is enough?
Does the thought of him kissing another girl make you sick?
Do you feel like you don't need to impress him?
Does the thought of telling him you love him not make you feel vulnerable?
I hope this helps, keep in mind though that love for one person may not be love for another, so these are just ideas
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Lonely_girl

i know exactly how you feel hon. my boyfriend is the exact same way. he intimately hugs other irls, texts them calling them honey and sweetie. Dances with other girls, and the list goes on and on. I say you talk with him and try to find out what he thinks of your relationship. tell him how you feel. if he is your boyriend (ie he asked you out) then that is a commitment and he should honor it. trust me if you let it go on like i did, you'll get way too attached and it'll hurt more when you realize it has to end. My guy has already told me he loves me, and ive just recently realized that i deserve better. it hurts, ive spent the whole weekend crying. i wouldn't wish that kinda pain on my worst enemy.
i wish you luck, you deserve better than to date a tool.
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Lonely_girl

Well first off, if you text him and he doesn't text back, but you know hes allowed to text (ie texting other people) then that is a bad sign. Also as far as flirting goes, don't rush in to the touchy touchy stuff too soon. start with tapping his arm or light pushes when you guys are joking around. This is called breaking the touch barrier, it makes him much more comfortable with your touch. Then you can move into the next stage. this could be walking with your bodies almost touching. if he keeps trying to move away then you need to slow down. if he stays touching you then that means you can move into the next stage. this is hugging. its pretty simple just ask for a hug. be the first to move away during, and don't let it drag out for too long. A good thing i do is 1/3 times in the hallway, just gaze past him. don't look. it drives guys crazy, and makes them wonder why you aren't looking at them. its pretty likely that after that he'll start trying to catch you eye in the hallway. if you see him looking at you look over at him once at his eyes for 3 seconds, smile slightly and look away. it makes you look like you have something better to do and most of the time it will make him want you more because you seem so interesting and he wants to know what your busy with all the time.

i don't think it was that big of a give away, as long as you play a little hard to get for a while. try to seem a little more like you don't care. (without being mean, just aloof) wait 5-10 minutes before replying to one of his texts. if you see him in the hall 1/3 times, pretend you don't see him. just gaze past. wait for him to talk to you.

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My names Kass and I'm fom Edmonton, Alberta. I am a vegatarian (not cuz i like animals, but cuz i hate vegtables lol). I spend most of my spare time practicing Tae Kwon Do, playing my guitar(acoustic of course), and listening to indie rock. My favourite bands are Death Cab, Modest Mouse, Jimmy eat world, and Buckcherry. I don't really have a style but if i had to describe it i guess i would say fashon forward with a hint of boho lol. I don't take alot seriously, but I can be ver diligent if nessecary. But I'm sure you tired of hearing(reading?) about me.

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