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So, I'm 15. female. I've had this boyfriend for a little over 2 months now. And like, he's kinda one of those flirty boys, the one that flirts with a lot of girls and stuff. So i just have this gut feeling hes flirting with others girls behind my back and shit. Like last night, he textes me (doesnt have anything to do with convo) "I mean, I can text you tomorrow if you want me to ;)" And I was like oh that must have been to someone else..and he was liek "no it was to you baby." and i was like "nahhh tht woulda been completely random." And then he was like "hahaha your right, it was to someone else." So he fucking lied about it. And I honestly don't know. I mean I text a lot of other guys and shit, but the thought of him flirting with other girls makes me sick. and texting other girls does too. I just have this really bad feeling in the pit of my stomach that he flirts with a million girls, while in a relationship with me. uhh? any advice on what i should do ? thanks guys :D much loove.
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i know exactly how you feel hon. my boyfriend is the exact same way. he intimately hugs other irls, texts them calling them honey and sweetie. Dances with other girls, and the list goes on and on. I say you talk with him and try to find out what he thinks of your relationship. tell him how you feel. if he is your boyriend (ie he asked you out) then that is a commitment and he should honor it. trust me if you let it go on like i did, you'll get way too attached and it'll hurt more when you realize it has to end. My guy has already told me he loves me, and ive just recently realized that i deserve better. it hurts, ive spent the whole weekend crying. i wouldn't wish that kinda pain on my worst enemy.
i wish you luck, you deserve better than to date a tool.
XXXOOO
Lonely_girl
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Ok, take a minute and calm down. .
i would talk to him about the relationship. You have to set up ground rules. If this is an exclusive relationship, then he has to be committed to you. That means you and him, can't flirt with other people and to be honest with each other. It sounds like he doesn't think you two are exclusive, just dating. That means he feels like he can go out with other girls.
If he continues to flirt with people even with the ground rules, then you need to break-up with him. You can't change people. Some guys are just flirts and there isn't anything you can do about that, but leave.
Also, don't overreact. You will look like the crazy person.
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Well first you need to confront him and tell him how you feel about it. this case honesty is the BEST policy and if he is going to beat around the bush and not tell you whats going on then you need either break it off with him or have him chase after you. He should be your guy no one elses and remind him of that because flirting with other people while in a relationship is a definite NO-NO especially if doesn't make you feel comfortable!
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