i am a depressing individual but i know alot for my age... more than i should to be honest.
Gender: Female
Location: Scotland
Occupation: Still at school
Age: 16
Member Since: October 30, 2009
Answers: 8
Last Update: October 30, 2009
Visitors: 1502
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im 18yo and my penis is about 5 3/4 inches and about 4 inces in girth, is that enough to please a girl? (link)
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is not size that matters its how you use it.
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. hes 16/m and i'm 17/f.
the only thing we have done is made out. and i dont think im even that good, at all. we haven't done it alot, but yeah. anyways, his ex girlfriend gave him a hj, and i dont feel like i NEED to give him one, but I kind of want to. but heres the thing..
1. i would feel guilty because my parents didnt bring me up that way, and i am not going to have sex until im marries or at least engaged or if i know im going to marry the person.
2. i would give him a hj if i knew how. like, the unknown scares me, even making out with him was like the scariest thing, but now its just fun.
3. my mom is always saying, "oh dont do anything like that, he'll take advantage of you." but i know he wont. hes not like that at all. hes always so patient. always.
4. ive never seen like.. a penis before hahaha. so uhm i wouldnt even know what to do. i guess the unkown aspects of it scare me.
5. i wouldnt even know how to start it or go about it, i dont even know if i turn him on. i cant tell. ahahaa. how can i tell?
6. i want like making out to get a little more heated or "hot and heavy" if you know what I mean. He's felt up my butt and stuff, but nothing else. and i dont think im ready for the whole him fingering me thing, at all.
7. i know you guys will say talk to him and all of that, but talking to guys about the stuff gets like ideas in their heads, you know? so i dont think i want to bring it up..
please help hahaa, i dont know what to do. I need some guidance, tips, personal experiences, answers.. anything and everything :] THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH. (link)
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well firstly, your 17 you arent doing anything wrong by giving him a hj its not sex, its natural.
giving a hj is pretty simple but if hes as nice as you say he is explain that you have never done it before and get him to guide you through it.
your mums just worried about you and if you trust him and hes patient thenhe probably wont just use you. penises in my oppinion are really ugly lol, so dont be surprised when you see it. he should tell you how your doingor you swill be able to tell, he might make noises or faces or something lol. if hot and heavy is what you want then tell him a good relationship is one where you can be open about everything. i get that you dont want to bring it up but if you cant talk to him about it then your not ready to do it simple as that.
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so its gttin near winter now and it get dark quite early and i like to go out wiht my friends but my parents always say i hae to be in at 5 when my friends are aloud out later nut my parents dont like me in the dark an i carnt see why. has anyone got any ideas on how i could convince them to let me saty out later. and by the way im not one of then teenagers who gets drunk an does stupid thigs like that and my parents no that i think (link)
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i have a mum who drives me crazy coz she doesnt let me out but tbh she has reason to worry because about a year ago i got raped walking home in the dark. but if you want to convince your parents to let you out you should sit down and speak to them and explain that you would like more feedom to be let out later and if you dont go out and get drunk and that then theres no reason not to trust you, also make a compromise with them and tell them you will take a mobile with you and text them regularly and they can phone you if they need you also make sure when your walking home in the dark that you have someone with you to make sure you are safe ir phone your parents.
hope you get your freedom :).
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Why Are Guys Sensitive On The Back Of Their Necks. Is That Really True? Do Guys Get Aroused By This? (link)
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well when i tug the back of my boyfriends hair on his neck he gets aroused so yeah it can be true but every guy is differnet just like us women.
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so obviously, me and my boyfriend had sex. my period isn't very regular, especially now.. because two months ago, i took plan b and it said it was make my period irregular. usually, i would've gotten my period around the last week of the month. and ever since i took plan b, i started my period on the 23rd of september. it's almost been a month now since i ended my period.
yes, me and my boyfriend used a condom.. and whenever we think something might go wrong, we changed it. we checked it in between sex and after sex. and nothing happened, is it maybe because i'm stressed about school or worried about being pregnant? or maybe the plan b?
my boyfriend told me a thousand times is that he is absolutely positive that nothing happened and that i am not pregnant, and if something did happen, he would've told me. but nothing happened.
but i'm still worried because it's the end of october.... any advice? (link)
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well i have had a few pregnancy scares because i have been stressingout thinking my pregnant, you shouldnt do that you should do something to take your mind off it so that hopefully your period comes.
i have my fingers crossed for you.
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so i'm a girl and when my boyfriend fingers me i orgasm pretty fast haha it doesn't take me long. i was just wondering if guys think thats a good thing or a bad thing? (link)
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guys usually like that you orgasm so fast because it means he may be able to give you multiple orgasms if he continues, in my experience thats how it works anyway.
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sorry this question is awkward..
Is this just a back-up plan for when using the "pull out" method, or can a guy fully ejaculate inside of the girl while using it?
thanks (link)
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i dont fully understand the question but you should always use a condom or some other form of contraception during sex, the pull out method is not effective because a guys pre-ejaculate before fully ejaculating.
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I am an eighteen year old male. My girlfriend wrote me a note this morning and it said,"I hate to tell you this but you have to know, York and Palmer kissed me today(yesterday). You have every tight to be mad but I feel horrible cuz I don't like cheating and I basically cheated on you.:( I am so sorry. I understand if you want to break up with me and never talk to me but again I am sorry. I am also sorry that this is so short but I have to go.
P.S. I understand if you don't want to but I at least still want to be friends." When I received this, I was heartbroken to no extent. I honestly think that I may have loved this girl. I have never told a woman besides my mom that I love her. A week ago we broke up because she was hanging all over one of the people listed above and we talked about it a few days later and laid out some ground rules. We have been together for three more days and on the fourth day she gave me this note. I haven't broken up with her yet, but I am pretty sure that I am. I have just put up with so much drama about her that I don't know if I can let her go. Please tell me what to do. I understand that you are going to tell me to break up with her but I need further assistance than that. Thank you in advance! (link)
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i personally dont think you should break up with her, everybody deserves a second chance and if this girl respected you enough to tell you about it then she obviously cares about you.
mayb you should talk to her and explain that you cant trust her the same but you still wan to be with her and hopefully she can gain your trust.
also these people that kissed her if they are your friends you need to speak to them, if they are not your friends i would be warnign them to stay away from your girl.
i hope she doesnt hurt you agen if you give her another chance, you sound nice and you dont deserve to be treated like rubbish.
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