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any help?
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. hes 16/m and i'm 17/f.
the only thing we have done is made out. and i dont think im even that good, at all. we haven't done it alot, but yeah. anyways, his ex girlfriend gave him a hj, and i dont feel like i NEED to give him one, but I kind of want to. but heres the thing..
1. i would feel guilty because my parents didnt bring me up that way, and i am not going to have sex until im marries or at least engaged or if i know im going to marry the person.
2. i would give him a hj if i knew how. like, the unknown scares me, even making out with him was like the scariest thing, but now its just fun.
3. my mom is always saying, "oh dont do anything like that, he'll take advantage of you." but i know he wont. hes not like that at all. hes always so patient. always.
4. ive never seen like.. a penis before hahaha. so uhm i wouldnt even know what to do. i guess the unkown aspects of it scare me.
5. i wouldnt even know how to start it or go about it, i dont even know if i turn him on. i cant tell. ahahaa. how can i tell?
6. i want like making out to get a little more heated or "hot and heavy" if you know what I mean. He's felt up my butt and stuff, but nothing else. and i dont think im ready for the whole him fingering me thing, at all.
7. i know you guys will say talk to him and all of that, but talking to guys about the stuff gets like ideas in their heads, you know? so i dont think i want to bring it up..
please help hahaa, i dont know what to do. I need some guidance, tips, personal experiences, answers.. anything and everything :] THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH.
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1. you dnt have to have sex haha
2. haha mayb if you do give him a handjob itll b fun 4 you just like da making out part..
3. always trust your mooom haha she knowsss alllll
4. you'll know what to doo when it comes to dattt..
5. tease him wit your tounge n what nott..
6. when your in da car makin out n hes in da drives seat or passanger get on top of him hell enjoy datt ;)
7. it wont put noo ideas at all if you tak 2 him trust me
and he doesnt want sex until hes fully commited so i think your deff goood bab
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well firstly, your 17 you arent doing anything wrong by giving him a hj its not sex, its natural.
giving a hj is pretty simple but if hes as nice as you say he is explain that you have never done it before and get him to guide you through it.
your mums just worried about you and if you trust him and hes patient thenhe probably wont just use you. penises in my oppinion are really ugly lol, so dont be surprised when you see it. he should tell you how your doingor you swill be able to tell, he might make noises or faces or something lol. if hot and heavy is what you want then tell him a good relationship is one where you can be open about everything. i get that you dont want to bring it up but if you cant talk to him about it then your not ready to do it simple as that.
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