Question Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 11:38 am
I have another question for you.
Today when I went to the bathroom I spotted blood with the discharge. Could it be that my hymen has been broken when my bf fingered me?? He fingered me last tuesday and today is thursday, could it be that or could I be pregnant?? :S
Kendra_Berri answered Thursday October 29 2009, 2:28 pm: It depends on the blood you've found in the discharge. Was there a lot or a little? Usually if your hymen has been torn, you would see blood that day, not days later. However, it's possible to tear and stretch it in all kinds of ways other than sexual encounters.
You may have experienced breakthrough bleeding. It may also be coming from your urethra. It's best to make an appointment with a doctor whenever you experience mysterious bleeding. If anything is the matter, it can be treated. If nothing's the matter, your doctor will explain to you what happened so you won't have to worry.
You cannot-- repeat-- cannot get pregnant from fingering. Sperm does not shoot out of fingertips. Sperm dies once semen is dry. So even if he ejaculated all over his hand earlier in the day and didn't wash them, you still couldn't get pregnant.
You may not be emotionally ready for physical intimacy if you're this nervous about it, you know? Having a finger inside of you cannot impregnate you. It just can't. It would be a miracle.
If your sexual education in school and your parents are not providing you with enough information, try this:
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