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heyy bailey ♥

i really like this guy, and he's in my french class and we always talk and apparently he likes someone in our french class. my friend told him that i like him, and on friday (the day he found out), he kept walking next to me and bumping into me in the hallway. i don't know if he likes me or not because he doesn't look at anyone else during french (i'm always looking at him), and he laughed when he found out i like him! i see him tomorrow.. what should i do?

thankss ♥

Aww that sounds so cute!

It sounds like he may just have a "thing" for you!

I think you should start off by talking with him a lot...get to know him if you dont already...

And, maybe now that he knows that you like him he might ask you out.

If it doesnt seem like anything is going on right away dont flip out...just give it some time.

Or you could ask him out...

But, just dont be shy around him, be yourself,and be open!

Just have fun with him, and act yourself...that is the best advice i can give you!

So, I wish you the best of luck!
And, if you need anything else just send it to my inbox!

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Hi my name is Mia i am 13 I had a boyfriend but he cheated on me and then went out with my best friend but when she wasnt around he would flirt with me do u think he still likes me? Sinceraly, Mia

I really think that it does not matter if he likes youa or not...He cheated on you, and went out with your best friend...

I think you should just forget about him...he sounds like a COMPLETE jerk to me!

I hope everything goes well!

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what are some good tips for making out.

i know all about the good breath stuff so don't gimme that, i mean when ur ACTUALLY making out or the moment right before, or how to start it..


anything will help, im clueless.

thanks in advance.

It just happens...

Making out isn's soemthing that you have to find the percise time or anything, it just happens.

No one here can tell you when the right moment is, or anything like that.

You and the person you are kissing just kind of have to figure it out for yourselves...

The first time I made out, I just went with it...and it turned out fine!

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female, 15, 10th grade
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okay, so I've been on and off with this guy Jake for about 8 months now.. so we had broken up in the spring and eventually got back toegether.. but lately, he's become very clingy.. and with school starting back up theres a lot of new guys I want to meet. We never became official after the spring break-up.. so I've been trying to enforce the "just friends" fact. and he'll be like yeah thats fine, but then be all lovey dovey. but lately, i've started to form a crush on this other guy, Tim. Me and him are starting to talk all the time, and he's really cool and fun to be around.. and I'm trying to get away from Jake, yet I still have feelings for him.. like everytime we've broken up or been close to it.. we always end up getting back together.. we're kind of like one of those couples that will always be a couple.. but I just dont know what to do with the whole Tim thing cause I want to get to know him.. and I hate guys that are clingy, sort of the way Jakes starting to be..sorry this is so long haha

It really sound like you want to try things out with Tim.

I think you need to really explain to Jake that you do not think the 2 of you are "officially" going out, and that you want to try seeing new people.

Tell him that it does not necessarily mean that you will never go out with Jake again, just say that you want to try other people.

I know that sounds a little cliche, but it sounds like that is what you want more.

I mean you are only a sophomore in high school...you have soo much ahead of you, so just live life how YOU want to...experiment around a little bit, have fun!

Well, I wish you good luck with everything...and if you need anything else, just send it to my inbox!

Good luck!

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I am the type of girl you would probably classify as a "player". It's not that I cheat on my boyfriend (well sometimes but only a peck with another guy but I tell them) it's just that I always get bored of them and dump them and then move on. I'm in high school now though, and I'm looking for something more serious. I've been so rude to all these boys and basically I feel like I've just used them because I wanted a boyfriend. But my ex boyfriend, who I dumped about a month ago because we never talked and I heard he was cheating on me, well his brother just died. And I feel like this is the perfect opportunity for us to get back toghether. I'm not using "oh my gosh i'm sorry your brother died" as an excuse to get him back, but I miss him and I feel like an idiot. How do I talk to him about his brother and about us maybe trying things again without seeming like it's all about what I want??? Please help me! Thanks!!! Also I just want to atleast talk to him and atleast be friends, because since we broke up we havent talked at all =[

I would give it some time...

Let him grieve over his brother...dont jump in right away and start flirting or anything...

Just tell him that you are there for him if he ever needs someone...

and maybe later you can date him...but first give him some time.

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hi im a 15 year old guy and i like this frosh girl..im a sophmore...i told her the other day how i feel but theres 1 problem she has a boyfriend...i told her and she said she really cared for her boyfriend and that since we just met this year and we dont really know each other that well she never really thought about it and just sees us as friends...this was wednesday night..we havent talked at all in geometry ebcause i thought itd be best to let her come to me not about the situation just to talk in general...so my question is should i talk to her on monday in school or this weekend online if i intiate the conversation or let her initiate the conversation when shes ready? thanks so much in advance

Ok, whatever you do, do not ask her about her boyfriend, or mention about when you told her you liked her.

But, dont let this ruin your friendship. I think you should talk to her, because she is probably feeling very awkward around you...

I also think you should wait to talk to her online, because I just never think talking online can get a point across and it is not intimate at all!

So save it for Monday and i hope everything goes well!

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hey i'm having a problem withmy friend. and like he has a girlfriend and me and him are really close! and we kinda love eachother. and he even admitted it to me! but i don't really think it's fair that we love eachother and he has a girlfriend! and like everytime we chat, he says i make him forget his girlfriend even more! i know it's not right but i really like this guy and he really likes me! what should i do? tell him that i can't like him anymore while he has a girlfriend? or should i just stop talking to him? i really want to know! it's so confusing! and i hate it!

Hey,
To me it sounds like you guys really like eachother, and have the potential to make a really good relationship out of it.

So I would deffinately sit him down and talk to him about it. And say that you don't think it is fair he has a girlfriend, and he says how much he loves you.

So deffinately confront him about it. But, I don't think you should stop talking to him altogether, I think you guys should deffinately continue your friendship.

Well, I hope everything works out for you!

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how to ask her

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks. he wanted me to help him with his myspace so he gave me the password and everything and i read his messages and he sent them to this girl jessica. and the other day we were having sex and he was like.. "i should call jessica and say, 'im having sex with kendall'" so now i think he was thinking about her the whole time. and i dont know what to do!
does this mean he wants to be with other girls?

Well, I don't think that it necessarily means he likes the girl.

But, the part about him saying that while you were having sex is very strange.

I think you should bring this up with him, and just talk to him about it.

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13/F

Ok so my cousin who by the way is 2years younger than me said he liked me. He is on my step-dad's side so he isn't blood related or anything but do you think it gay? I don't like him he's just my fave cousin.

First of all do not refer to things as "gay".

And no, this is not gay, because gay is when someone is attracted to the same sex.

So I think it is just a kid thin, I mean you are probably his favorite cousin, so he will grow out of it.

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14/male

So, it's me again with another question about B, the girl I love. So, as you might know, I like her, but she's got a boyfriend. I gave B, like, three letters from "Your Secret Admirer." But here's the problem. Her boyfriend smokes, but kinda in secret, but he always wears this No Smoking sweatshirt. I think she knows that he smokes, but should I mention something to her boyfriend about how he's got an ironic sweatshirt? Or should mention something to B about it?

Thanks,

-Fyce

Hey,

I think that if you say anything to B then she might just be pissed that you were getting into her relationship.

I think it is best to just not say anything to either of them.


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my bestfriend is a girl & we used to be together but my gf now gets mad cuz i put my bestfriend first. my bestfriend will always come first, before any1. any girl. i told this to my gf & she wasnt happy. she said it feels like shes "sharing" me with my bestfriend. ive had to cancel with my gf a couple times for my bestfriend but i dunno wat to do. my gf is gettin rly mad & hurt but i don wanna lose her. i rly care bout her but i also wanna hang with my bestfriend. how do i split my time with them? to make em both happy

Ok I am sorry, but your girlfriend has every right to be upset about you choosing your bestfriend over her.

Seriously, what is wrong with you? If my boyfriend put his bestfriend in from of me, I would be sooo incrediball hurt...especially if it was a girl.

I think you really need to consider what you are doing, and if you don't want to lose your girlfriend, then act like SHE is the most important thing in your life, not your bestfriend.

So I think you should tell your bestfriend, that you have a girlfriend and she is more important...

You really need to think this over.

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Okay so i'm dating this guy named Brett.. and all he ever does is talk about himself and i cant stand it. like i was upset one night about me missing my dad(( he passed away 2 months ago and we were close)) and hes like your life isent bad... and im like yeah okay.. and he was like what im like i miss my dad and hes like well i miss my dad too who knows where he is((he moved to a diff. state)) im sure my life is worse than yours. im like yeah thanks. w/e... and all i ever hear about is himself and it drives me insane i mean cant one thing be about me ..

Ok, no offense but it really sounds like your boyfriend is a big jerk. He has no right to say who's life is worse, in fact it doesn't even matter he should just try to comfort you, not argue with you about which of you has a worse life.

I think your only options are to either confront him about it (he will probably deny it), or you can just leave him. And I would recommend leaving him, because you do not need to deal with a guy like that.

Well I hope everything goes well.
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Well, there's this guy in like three of my classes. and we're pretty close because he sits next to me a lot in all of the classes and stuff. Well I kinda like him a lot. And I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I want to tell him, so how can I do that without ruining it?


like, this is why I KIND OF think he likes me (deep down I know he doesn't.)--

everyday we fake fight about the funniest stuff and I give him an evil look and he goes "im sorry" and puts his hands up defensively. and then today i was like talking about something and hes like, here give me a high five and i like laughed and im like, no... and he's like, UGH let me make it up to you. it was kinda weird, and i dont know what it meant.

I think you should maybe try flirting with him, and if he kind of like flirts back, maybe you can tell him you like him.

But, I would not just come out and say it...kind of lead him on...

Well Good Luck!

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So I was searching around a site similar to Myspace when I saw this guy's pictures. He was in a place I absolutely love to vacation at, so I sent him a message. It turns out he goes to my old school.

We've been talking for a while, only on the computer. He keeps bringing up how we flirt, and wanting to date me, and wanting to meet me. He says it in a certain way, as if he wants to know how I feel before he asks me, but he is so obvious. I know for sure he isn't some creepy old guy, but I really don't like him that way. I guess I just can't develop feelings for a person I've met only through the internet.

He's a nice person, and I think he really likes me, so how can I tell him I don't feel the same, and I don't want to meet him?

Hey,

This won't be too hard, because it is not like you are going to be seeing him everyday...

I think you should just come out and tell him straight forward. That you just do not feel the same way about him. You think he is a good friend, but you just do not like him like he likes you.

I don't think meeting him would be a good idea either. Like if you were still planning on meeting him, I think you should reconsider that. I mean especially with all of things that happen to people who meet over the internet.

Well I hope all goes well...

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14/f.
I first noticed this boy at school a few months ago. He's in 2 of my classes and he is new this year. Nobody ever picks me for gym, because I'm not really athletic. This guy, when he was team captain, picked me first for his team. After that I began to look at him in English class. He stares at me a lot. Over the months I began to fall for him. My friends were bored so they asked him if he thought I was cute over AIM. He didn't reply. I didn't know if that was good or bad. Well a few weeks ago his Myspace headline said "I wish I could tell you" I'm not saying it's definitely about me, I'm just saying it could be. Friday I finally got the courage to IM him. He didn't say much but I knows he talks a lot to his other friends. He left this comment on his friend's Myspace that said he thinks girls should come to guys. I don't know what to do now.. he makes me really friggin nervous.

I agree with the person below me...you really should build a friendship with him, and then ask him out.

You also need to have confidence, and don't be shy or anything...

When you have a somewhat good friendship, get a bunch of your friends together, and invite him and some of his friends to go somewhere. You should invite other people at first because you don't want him to think it is a date, but it is a chance for you to hang out with him other than at school.

Well, I really hope things go good with him...
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Good Luck!

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My boyfriend (PJ) and I have been together since 6th grade. And know its freshmen year. Hes 15 and Im 14 1/2. We both love eachother alot. We have made-out&kissed&and all that other good stuff, but he wants to take it a little bit farther. well so do i but i dont want to take it so far that i'll be know as "Arrowhead #1 Slut"! and alot of my best friends have taken it pretty far. i just dont know what to do! please help!

First of all if you do end up doing this, don't tell anyone, and you will not be a slut....And only having sex with one guy is not slutty...

But, people here cannot really answer this question for you...You need to really think about this and decide if that is what you want to do...

I think that you should really consider that you are young, and that there are a lot of risks that come along with sex.

But, really think about it a lot...I lost my virginity when i was 13 1/2...and I regret it every day...so just think about it a lot...

If you need anything drop it in my inbox...

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me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do?

I don't think that you should get back together with your ex...

I think you should give your current boyfriend and you some time....and you need to let your ex go..

I mean if he treated you badly you do not need to go back to that...

So stay with your current boyfriend, and forget about your ex...and just allow your boyfriend to be the only guy you have feelings for, and that feeling will come..

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Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did?

I think it would be a very bad idea to get back with him...

I mean if he is confused, that is not a good sign. And he broke up with you for another girl...what if that happens again?

I just really think you should move on.

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I don`t know why but every time I see a guy that I`m interested in I flirt but nothing seems to happen. I also think I dont want to like let them know I like them because it seems silly because almost every boy that i like I barely talk to or theres always some reason. I really want to be able to have them like me in return and show them that I like them but how without saying it?

What do you thinks my problem?
what should i do?

I think you should try and get to know the guys you like...so then you can build a friendship with them, and possibly more will come out of it...

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