I feel empty. I want to be happy and I want to live my life like I always have, to the fullest extent. But now it seems like every reward is meaningless. And I hate to say this, but it is because of a guy. When I let guys control my life, I dont know. But it happened. I can not stop thinking about this one guy. I dated him for 7 months but then I was the one to break up with him. I mostly was just scared hed fall for someone else and eventually dump me. But I cant stop thinking about him and my heart hurts everyday from thinking about him. I feel lonely constantly even if i am around all my friends. I hate using that cliche about putting on a fake smile but its true. And I am even more depressed because thats never been true. Not only that but the guy I like is also liked by my really good friend. We have been friends just this year and she doesnt know I dated him. I dont want to tell her and I am determined that if they just date then I can get over it. I have cut myself over this. I dont do it to kill myself I do it because I want to hurt myself. This has been my freshmen year and one of the worst. I know I must sound annoying with all this teenage drama crap. But it just hurts so bad. And I dont want to hurt like this. I dont want to keep crying myself to sleep praying that this will soon be over. I know I am being melodramatic and I know im being whiny but I cant help it anymore. I have these thoughts of him constantly of when we would kiss and when we would cuddle. And it kills me. Ive told him I like him and he says he likes me too but he also likes another girl. And that kills me even more. I just want this to stop. I cant take this anymore. Please someone tell me what to do. Im 15, sick and tired.
I know exactly how you feel, I was 15 when i went through it. I loved him with all that i had and i dropped EVERYTHING for him. I even lost 20lbs and i was way underwieght because of him..I was very depressed and didn't have friends anymore because of him. But we broke up and it was the hardest time of my life, But I made it through my friends and i hang out ALL the time and that helps ALOT. I still talk alot about him and we've been broke up for 7 months, I still love him and probly always will. Sometimes it's just best to let go..If it was ment to be he'll come back. If you need to talk to me about it feel free to IM me.. Vllybllprin6..Hope i helped. :)
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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!
Yes it's fine for a girl to ask a guy..specially if you really like him. :)
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okay-- the guy i like knows i like him and he keeps tellin me hes thinkin about me and he told me he could see me as a potential girlfriend... so how long do you think it would take for him to fainnaly ask me out?? ive already been waiting like 3 weeks (and im just a lil bit curious!!) thanks!!
It might take awhile. Being good friends for awhile is really good. It makes your relationship really strong. Just remember waiting it's not bad to wait along time for him to ask you out maybe he just wants it to be good.
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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5
Firts of all make sure you are completely ready to go to 3rd base..if your not sure DONT do it. If he loves you as well he'll wait. I know you love him and all, but make sure your a 100% ready because it can also ruin your reputation.
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!
Most likely you should pay, because it is his birthday and he probly already asumes you'll pay.
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?
If worse comes to worse find a way and show up to where he lives. He needs to take full responsiblity. In the mean time keep trying to call and send him letters or what not.
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hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird?
You can go out and have fun with friends..Thats what usually takes my mind off heartbreaks and things. Or you could try to move on and find someone else as well. Theres no easy way to stop liking someone..It just happens you can't make yourself stop.
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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
Theres nothing wrong with you at all. Maybe your just waiting for that "special" person to come along. I know tons of people 15 or 16 who hasn't even had there first kiss yet. It's no big deal.
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When waz ur first kiss?
Mine was when I was 12. Lots and Lots of memories.:)
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On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :(
Well I would talk to him about it. If it's not normal for him to do something like that, then there has to be something up. Just sit down and ask him whats going on and stuff. Let him know how you feel.
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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this?
It's probly because your not to fat or ugly. For one your first Kiss should be with someone very special to you..it's something kinda important. Maybe your just not ready for a boyfriend yet. I have friends that are 16 and they are really pretty and haven't even had a boyfriend yet. Just spend your time with your friends, because there way more important then a guy anyways.
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