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*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
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I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 16, 2004
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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out?? (link)
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Personally i think Trojan is the safest. It wont break as long as he puts it on properly. But if it does break, stop immediately. Get on the pill as backup if you're scared the condom is going to break. If you dont want your parents knowing, schedule an appointment with Planned Parenthood. Everything is confedential and your parents will never know you're on it. just dont get involoved or rush into something neither of you are ready for!
*Make sure he knows what hes doing*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch me?
Thanx to everyone thats gonna help me,
*BaByItSYoU*
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Just because your friends do it doesn't mean that should too. If your not comfortable letting him touch you in certain places then let your boyfriend know. Your not being prude just protective over your body. But now that your in High School alot of relationships you get involved in might come to the same situation your in now! Its really actually normall believe it or not its just up to you at what time your ready to move to that level.... don't rush yourself because i wish i was into my religion like you! just don't do anything you might end up reggretting later on in the future!!!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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SORRY THAT THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!I really, really, really like this guy(i know him really well), all my friends say we would be perfect together. We are both waiting till we get married to have sex, we both are christians and we both like the same things. The only problem is that he is 16 and my brothers friend and I am 13 and I think if me and Seth ever were to go out my brother would get mad and stop hanging out with him just so I wouldn't see him but my brother knows I like him and I think he knows that he likes me too. I just don't know what to do please help me I am so confused!
Signed,
Confused ;/
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If yall REALLY like each other like you say then you wouldn't let what anyone else thinks or say affect the feelings yall have toward each other. Eventually your brother will understand your felings toward his friend and he can't stay mad at yall forever. If you see a connection between yall then try and c wut happens
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Hey okay i am 14 f... a lil over weight, okay actually pretty big n all! but neways i like this guy.. we will call him "Teddy" neways, I like him sooo much, and were friends n all but i have like a big attitude n stuff but yeah neways... he likes one of my best friends n she likes him.. i dont wanna interfear but i liked him first.. he says im not fat n im not ugly, but i know i am!! but also i mean i liked him first and it really makes me jealous! does anyone have anyways i can get into shape loose weight n look good.. so he likes me even more i am currently 5'7 and almost 250 lbs.. i know about but still help me out here!! maybe making a big change n my life will help.. i mean my life is a lil messed up with family n all at the moment so yeah! please help me out here i'm really confused .. thanks soo much! *K* (link)
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Dont' Change yourself for a boy or anybody else but yourself! If it will make you happy and boost your self confidence the try exerciseing and dieting....but don't starve yourself. Tell your friend how you feel ad let her know what your thinkng so she can be aware that your feelin him or wuteva.
best of luck kisses
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
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Don't stress yourself out over little things like that. Talk to him in person adn straighten things out. Rumors come and go...I'm use to them Don't get your self stressed over a relationship that isn't working.....it takes two!
*good Luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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4 yrs is a LONG time! If he didn't think you were beuatiful then he wouldn't be marrying you! Love is stronger than anything else....even beauty! You are TOO protective, you have a man not a lil boy....of course he'll look when he sees a pretty female, you can't say you don't check out other guys?!? you have to be realistic....regardeless where he goes there are going to be females ALL around him! You have to trust your man and you relationship other wise...thats NOT love! Its not entirely your fault though, he should know his limits and regulations about looking at females but you really just need to trust him and untill you can I dont suggest marrige.
*good luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!! (link)
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Having kids is a BIG responsibility and i don't think your boyfriend relizes that. He has to realize that if you have a child you are generating someone who will be totally dependant on you both and it will change your life forever. Don't have kids if your not ready ready for the responsibility that comes with them. 3 yrs is a long time and I think he'll understand where your coming from.
*Hope I Helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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im moving from houston tx to boston MA and i really like this girl. i dont know wat to do, and i know we cant get to together but i really like her. help?!?! (link)
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Don't let location affect your feelings...if you think that you can trust her and that you 2 have a chance of having a relationship then ask her for her # and keep in touch!!! but if things don't work out then there's always the girls up in Boston!!!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
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Long distance relationships are tricky... he may be cheating on you and his friends are trying to help you out by warning you OR they may be jealous of yallz relationship and are trying to brake you 2 apart....i say don't take any chances with your boyfriend because there are plenty other bee's in hive!! But if yall are that serious ask him about it again and than base your decision on his reply!!!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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ok i dont think i am a picky person when i go out with soembody cuz before i go out i wanna be friends with them for a while so i noe how there like and i noe there personality and who they are all around but i wanna make sure he will treat me rite adn hes funny and sweet adn i want him to have space from em as i want space to him and i dotn want us to be alone all the tiem u noe cuz hanging out with ur bf and freidsn is cool to becoem comftorable then i will work my way up but i dotn go to fast and i will go pretty far if i like the guy but am i jsut waiting for a perfect guy thats not gonna cvome or shood i go for otehr guys even if there not all that i want? (i am 13) (link)
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You're not picky your just being carefull and playing it safe untill you find the rite guy. It may be a while befor you find the guy of your dreams so just explore your options and have fun...you've got your whole life ahead of you!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out? (link)
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i say go boy scouting! Find someone who you can share your interests with and talk about with your friends... that way you wont feel left out. but on the bright side, look at it as being independent!!!!
*hope i helped & good luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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hey its me again ull probally reconize me comparing to all of my questions. well anyways anthony now likes me and im so0oo frikin HAPPY! he started to like me yesterday. but turns out his grandfather passed awa too. he didnt tell me my friends brotha did. But the problem is i took your advice b4 and i went for it and asked him out. And i kno hes gonna say yes but he hasnt yet. and i dunn wanna rush him or anythin cuz he still pretty sad about his grandpas death. and i juss wanted to kno how longs should i wait to bring it up its already to been about 3days since i mention about askin him out. Ps. he still dont know that i kno bout his grandpa hoo passed away yesterda y sadly.
luv awlays-confused girl (link)
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Tell him that your aware of his grandfathers desceasness and your sad to hear about it. Just be there for him cuz im sure he needs someone at a time like this. I say...if you REALLY care/like him you'll wait untill he's ready.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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okay, im a bit confused at the moment. see there's this girl that i am in love with, i swear it was "love at first site" no joke, b/c i didnt even know her name and i fell in love. IDK i just got the right kind of vibe from her.Immediatly i was attracted, but see Im the shy kind of type, and like i go speechless and my heart pumps so hard when she is near me or says hi...i cant say anything back. Im so freakin in love with her but she doesnt know.
PS:Im a girl too, she's straight, and idk what i am, b/c shes the only girl i actually feel this way about, if i think about any other girl im totally grossed out...im just confused. (link)
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Well i wouldn't say your a lesbian because you dont like other girls just this one....but you might be in the process of turning bi-sexual. It's really not a bad thing anymore because its very common now a days. But you'll never know how someone will feel until you ask them.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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i have been talkin to this gurl on aim and everything was goin great until she sent me her pic and my dads friend said she was hott. he told me to tell her so i did n she got mad at me bc he said that! now she cant stand me and i didnt do anything to her for her to hate me! what should i do? (link)
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You might have offended her by saying that because the guy is obviously a grown man, since he's your fathers friend and all. The next time she gets on just apologize and tell her you didn't mean to scare or freak her out.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
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Talk about the things he likes.... that way he can get more comfortable and relaxed.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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well heres the deal...theres this guy...well just say his name is bob...so i really really like bob...and i think he likes me too...my stepbro and my friends all tell me he likes me n thinks im hot n other stuff like that...and when we are together we are like really flirty w/ eachother and all that and ive liked him for almost a year now and he knows i like him and we text message eachother almost all day everyday and i cant figure him out...what is the best way to ask him about it...b/c i think he likes me b/c of the way he acts around me like at partys he always gets me drinks n drives me around n were really good friends but i want to be more than that so what do you think would be the best way for me to find out what goes on in his head???
{im 15} (link)
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ASk him if he likes you and tell him you wan tan honest answer. Since yall are so close then it shouldn't be that bad.
*good Luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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well i have/had this friend we grew apart and i noticed now that she had been lieing to me about certain things but i just forget about them since im not her close friend anymore. and with my previous b/f, whenever she would find out something about MY relationship with MY b/f @ tha time she told EVERYONE and it wasnt n e of her business. sumtymes i miss her then other tymes i just hate her and wish she would leave me alone. she talks to my boyfriend a lot because her soon-to-be boyfriend is my boyfriend's friend. everytime my boyfriend and her start talking i feel really pissed and i dont know that to do. i mean he can be her friend its just that i always get a bad feeling considering she was my bestfriend and now she thinks she can "flirt" with my boyfriend that i have now that and she did with my pervious boyfriend. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Comfront this so called 'friend" and let her know wuts happenin. Forget about what happened between yall and move on. What happens in the past stays in the past. i dont mean forget it literally, but dont worry cuz your boyfriend is with you not her.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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okay so i was at this socca turny and i met this boy he really wasnt soo cute but he was really really sweet and he spoke spanish so i really didn't have much to say to him but he was all putting his arm around me and all his freinds thought that i was like his gf but really i wasn't and then when he had to leave he was all like can i get a kiss so i was just gonna peck him on the cheek but when i went in he like turnd his face and went for my lips and then he like all pulled me closer and all and then he opend his mouth to french me and all and i wanted to make out with some one but not really him so for a second i was into it and then a sec later i pushed him away and now my friend is all making fun of me cuz i made out with some guy i didn;t even like! and i think that she is totally right! i mean i just met him and all and now i can't stop thinking about it! and i totally regret it! idk wut to do. he prolly thinks im his gf now so if i c him he'll prolly wanna talk to me and kiss me again when really i don't wanna talk to him again.
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Well if you don't want to talk to this boy then don't! he seems like hes kinda aggresive and likes to be incontrol of things so watch out for him. The kiss obviously ment something to you, otherwise you would have pushed him away sooner! But making out with someone you don't know isn't bad but its not good either....i did b4! If you do see him again then tell him how you felt and let him now there's nothin between yall. You shouldn't regret things because everything happens for a reason, just learn from your mistakes and move on!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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i used to like this guy ever since 6th grade n then i didnt really like him anymore in 7th grade. i juss sorta gave up on him...then over the summer i met this totally great guy hoos head over heals for me n i lyk him a whole lot too! but he livs 3 hrs away from me n wen i go bak 2 skool, im afraid im goin 2 lik the guy i used to lyk at skool instead. i want to get that guy outta my head n be with the sweet one i met over the summer. the one in my skool never expressed any emotions that he liked me so i moved on. i wanna forge about him n date the other guy hoo lyks me bak. i lyk him bak...but can i be stuck between?
Charlize (link)
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Well obviously you can't move on because theres something your trying to rush out of. if you and this guy you met over the summer are ment to be then it will happen but dont ignore your feeling about this boy from school because i dont think your over him yet. Not all guys show their emotions toward a girl in the open but figure out which one makes you feel special and go with him!
*Hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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|Gurl| 13 | Hey ive liked this kid for like 3months now, he knows i like/liked him but things never worked out between us, we never actually went out though. We started out as friends, then one day i told his friend i liked him n he was still in tha room n saw it. His friend told me he said tha other day he felt tha same way bout me. So then the nxt day wen he was home i told him i liked him, then he told me his friend told him already. But I kinda ruined things wen i madeout with sum kid wen i wasnt going out with dat kind n still liked him(as in tha kid i liked for a while). I dont think i like him to much anymore, cuz he barley shows any intrest in me anymore n we barley talk. N 1 of my friends i think likes him now, which was really rong of her to do to me, even tho i tell everyone im over him and i pretty much am. Im just kind of jealous and mad cuz we're not even really friends anymore! Wat should i do?!
Thanksz! (link)
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I think you should tell your friend how she is making you feel. And apologiz and let this boy know that your sorry for cheatin on him and tell him you still kinda have feelings for him. But if things don't turn out rite its nothe end of the world! there are plenty more bee's in da hive!
~*~ KiSsEs~*~
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