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omgsh ok this summer there have been 2 guys that i reallly like...so wenever i am like alone with them they lean in for a kiss ..and omg i want to kiss them soo bad but almost everytime i become so shy about it and ill find sum exuse to either not do it (im just not feeling well) or ill be liek "i have to go to the bathroom". but i really want to kiss them! i dont have problems like wen we play spin the bottle or truth or dare , bc wen we play i just go for it and im not shy at all. but its just like wen we r alone ..or if its with sumone i really like i just get all shy. wat is my problem?!? lol xoxo
brooke*

you dont have a problem! its just nerves! dont even worry about it.. the next time a guy tries to kiss you, pretend like its spend the bottle. or just forget your nerves and go for it!

Hope i helped you!
♥ KELSEY

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heyy .. ok soo im totally in love with my best friends boyfriend ... n i no he likes me too ... n me n my best friend havent really been gettin along lately n shes kinda annoying me ... soo should i make a move on hiim or just leave it alone ?

leave it alone. obviously you cant have him if your so-called "best friend" already has him..and if yall both like the same person.. just leave it alone. hope i helped!

♥ KELSEY

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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?


hey. dont even worry about it! ive got braces too but its not that big of a deal./ plus if he really likes u he wont care if u have braces or not. chances are hes probably already kissed a girl w/ braces.. if not theres always time for a first! just dont worry about it and have fun!

Hope i helped ..
♥ KELSEY

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okay i'm only 13 but i have a lot of problems. this guy asked me out like an hour ago. i kind of know him..but not that well...but he seems really nice and caring and he really likes me a lot. the problem is that i feel weird. i kind of like him, but theres some other people i kind of like too. he seems to care about a lot and really like me. should i give him a chance? i feel really guilty..but should i keep going out with him for awhile and give him a chance?


give him a chance! he sounds like a nice guy neway. you'll never know unless u try.. hope i helped you

XO0X -- KELSEY

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There is this guy. omg hes like so perfect for me. hes sweet, funny, adorable. but he doesnt notice me. ive likedeven loved him for 10 months! my friends keep saying to get over him but i dont know if i can. ive tried to like someone else but when i hear a song or when he comes online i start to like him again! its so hard and i dont know what to do to get over him or for him to like me. i really need help! should i get over him.. but then i dont know how. or should i try to make him like me.. also i dont know how. PLEASE HELP ME


try to make him like you. you have to make him notice you first tho. do something seriously drastic.. if nothing like that works just start talking to him a lot. tell him you like him. if none of that works you'll have to get over him. find someone new.. hope that helps!

XO0X -- KELSEY

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do i deserve another chance if i got advice and relized my problems?


definitely. try talking more and more with your girl.. hope that helps you


XO0X -- KELSEY

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i'M A 14 YR OLD GiRL AND i WENT OUT WiTH THiS ONE KiD NAMED JUSTiN FOR 2 MONTHS AND i TOLD HiM A LOT OF STUFF THAT i'VE NEVER TOLD ANYONE ELSE (( NOT EVEN MY BEST FRiEND )) ... i AM iN LOVE WiTH THiS KiD BUT HE DOESNT WANT ANYTHiNG TO DO WiTH ME ANYMORE AND i CANT SEEM TO EXCEPT THAT FACT ! i CANT GET OVER HOW MUCH i LiKE HiM - EVERY SONG,EVERYTHiNG SOMEONE SAYS AND JUST FLAT OUT EVERYTHiNG THAT REMiNDS ME OF HiM MAKES ME CRY... THiS KiD MEANT SO MUCH TO ME AND i DONT KNOW HOW TO LET HiM GO NOW AND iTS BEEN ALMOST 3 MONTHS SiNCE WE BROKE UP... PLEASE HELP


well im not really sure what you want me to tell you.. but just keep trying to talk to him. make him realize the impact he had on you and maybe that will help. sorry if this doesnt help much but in the mean time you could take your mind off him by hanging out with friends adn other stuff. hope i helped you!


XO0X -- KELSEY

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well.. you see theres these two guys. they both like me and i like both of them but one of them always rushes me in to things im not ready for ..the other is i guess perfect .. but i still like the first one!! idk wut to do! pick the one that treats me best? or the one that doesnt? HELP!

take the one that treats you rite definately! dont even waste your time on someone you feel uncomfortable with. if he rushes you so much he might do that to other people too so i say go for the one that you can trust. if it doesnt work out you could always try again with the aggressive one... hope everything works out foryou! keep me posted XO0X -- Kelsey

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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...but on the other hand he asked me to do something with him in the holidays..so that means he asked me out..but i still think that im a rebound girl for some reason...help!!! =(

this gud sounds like hes using you to get back at your friend. she might have told him about your crush on him so now hes using it against both of yall. i say forget about him. move on .... XO0X -- Kelsey

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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks.

u jjust have to confidence in yourself. let loose and show them that your not that same shy girl they all know. tell yourself to shut up and do what you KNOW you want. just dont think .. Hope i helped!! XO0X -- Kelsey

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OMG!! I think that i am in love with myself and I don't know what to do Because I want a boyfriend but I can't help but love myself!! I have sex with myself everyday and masterbate whenevr I can !! I need your help to not love myself anymore and to get a boyfriend!! PLEASE HELP!!

yeah hun u need help.. geez thats pretty sick atleast try to experiment with girls instead of yourself .. or find a guy .. or just go bi. hmm many possibillities but dont keep doing yourself. just keep trying other ways. ull eventually get over your little "problem" -- Kelsey

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Yesterday, one of my guy friends kept bugging me to know who I liked. I finally told him the one person and after a while told him he was the other person. He said he knew that I liked him or something like that. Now I don't know what to do because I like won't act the same around him. What can I do?

just tell him that you dont want to feel wierd around him. talking can help with just about everything. if he likes you too.. why not date? most good relationships come from best friends as is. so give it a try ..... hope i helped you out! Keep me posted ...... XO0X -- Kelsey

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To start out, I'll tell you this. I'm only 15, but regardless of my age I think I could be in love. I've liked this guy for almost three years and he's pretty much all I think about. Every song I hear relates, in some way, to him. But that isn't the problem. He recently told me he liked me. And a few days later said he thought we would eventually go out. well, I don't think that's going to happen. I heard from a friend that he hasn't liked anyone since this one girl he liked a few months ago. Which would mean, he didn't like me. I asked him and he said I'm great and all, but he didn't like me any more than a friend. That kind of made me give up, you know? I felt like I failed or something? I don't know. I'm not really the jealous type, until it comes to him. So recently I've been talking to this other guy, he really likes me and I really like him. But the way I like him doesn't compare to how much I like the other guy. so, this guy is supposed to ask me out when we hang out this weekend, so I've heard. If he does, I'm scared to ruin the chance with the other guy i REALLY like. Although, I can't wait forever. But I need help soon. I have to decide. I'm really thinking to go for this guy that really likes me. What do you think?

just go for the one who does like you . obviously the other one who you like more isnt feeling the same way for you so its really just a waste of time. go for the possitive.... if he doesnt ask you out that weekend, maybe he will eventually, you never know what could happen. but just try the guy with real feelings. he sounds like a better catch neway .. hope i helped xo0x -- kelsey

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Ok My Newest Question Is This: I liked 2 boys. They are both younger than me and me and the one started dating. Too many people had stuff to say about it and I got scared because I felt something different for him than I had anyone in a long time. So I broke it off. We continued to like kiss and stuff and the whole time I could feel it. Well this other one started to call me and stuff and then he asked me out one night and i said yeah because i thought i liked him more. the next night he said he was really tired and he liked me but he didn't think it was enough to go out with me so that ended. and then i sat and thought about it and realized how stupid i was for dumping the other kid because i realized i loved him. so i went and told him and we started going back out and then like later on when i was talking to him he told me that he didn't feel the same way for me anymore and broke up with me...Right now i feel like shit x100 tell me what i should do. THere's another boy that likes me...but Idk if i should do anything about it or not.

ok if the guy you love doesnt feel the same way about you enmore, id just say screw it and move on. give the other guy who really does like you a chance. he might be worth more than your ex so give it a shot .. XO0X -- Kelsey

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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else

plz help/ill rate

1st you should tell him how you feel. Explain to him the situation but make him listen to you. thats the only way nething can happen. maybe he'll get the point and yall will start talking more or maybe he feels the same way. if talking doesnt help, i say just move on. you dont have to have a boyfriend all the time. Sometimes its better not to have one neway.So just find a time when both of you can talk....... Xoo -- Kelsey

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It has been awhile since me and my ex broke up, but im still madly in love w/ him and i want to talk to him desperatly. Sadly he has a girlfriend who i happen to be friends w/. Im really scared to call ... any advice?

THANX

hey! ok.. i think u should swallow all that fear and just talk to him. What do you have to lose? Just tell him you still want to stay friends with him and maybe things will work their way back to the way they used to be BEFORE yall broke up. If nothing comes out of the friendship that u specifically want, its just not meant to be. your just going to have to move on.. focus on something else. but for now.... just try the friends thing. i say just screw that "friend".. yall obviously wernt too good of friends from the start if shes dating your ex..just work it out your way, dont worry about other people

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