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See here goes I wanna ask out this guy lets call him benjamin. For safety sake. I really really like him but we have an amazing friendship I know he likes me but is afraid I dont like him back. I am afraid if we break up it will ruin this friendship. But i believe I am in love with him. Could you tell me how I can ask him out. And if I should do it. Thank you so much. (link)
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He really should ask you out. I'm a guy, and I hate that, but it's true. So give him hints. Touch his shoulder when he makes you laugh. Let him catch you looking at you (DON'T STARE).Laugh at things he says that aren't really as funny as he thinks they are. Really try to let him know how you feel. This will not be easy. Men are idiots. If he's as dumb as me, you could be throwing yourself at him and he won't know. So after that start hinting at a date. Ask him what he's doing this weekend, tell him you're not doing anything. If he still doesn't get it, smack him on the head. With a kiss. Or just ask him if he likes you.
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Okay so im 15/f, my boyfriend is 16/m. We just started dating and well he hasn't done anything besdies makeout. Ive been fingered and gave hj/bj. He knows that too and wants to do more with me. I think its going to be weird like we makeout alot but do i like have to tell him what to do, im pretty shure he has no idea what hes doing. any way to make this less akward? or shouold i tell him what to do?
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If you think it's going to be awkward, that just means you guys aren't comfortable enough with each other do that stuff yet. Just give it time. Don't do anything that he's not comfortable with, and don't let him do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Don't worry about him having no idea; everyone starts like that. Most importantly, have fun!!!
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she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they even signed her and they both gave her their numbers. they were so comfortable always flirting or hugging or talking way to close. when i was with her and i tried doin that stuff to her the first time she pushed me away then the second time she cursed me out, she has sat on my lap tho, shes only hugged me goodbye once. shes not a slut or whore she never even really does that to anyone. shes always with guys but just doesnt usually do that. Shes never had a boyfriend either. me and her always talk over myspace. she has gotten mad at me over the phone but we never even talked in school. Shes into all the gothic things, she likes to dye hair she is going to dye mine with purple streaks over thee summer. Im not sure if I really want that but im going over to her house just me and her and I hope we could flirt and cuddle and everything. what could i do? does she like me, she says ima a jerk? how can i be iv had many girlfriends? what do i do? (link)
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She's just a regular teenage girl. They all act like that. First decide if you want to date her or not. If the answer is no, the back off. She's only going to get you in trouble ;). If you decide you do want to date her, tell her how you feel and ask her out. It's that simple. And the longer you draw it out, the less chance she'll say yes.
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hello, i now know this amazing girl, and i dont know if she likes me and i already gave her a kiss on the cheek but she doesnt seem to understand that i love her... so i was thinking of trying to do it on the mouth, but how do u start on something like that? (link)
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It's pretty easy if you let it come naturally. Get close to her face, then slowly move in closer. If it seems like she doesn't want to kiss you on the lips (moves her head too far back, screams, etc.), stop. Otherwise, just close your eyes and do it. It'd be beter if you were somewhere private. Are you dating her? If not ask her out on a date. Go to a movie or something and do it there.
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i have recently having sex whit my gf from 15 ( i am 13 ) but she has some problems whit my penis, because when i got a boner its going like right to my face and it kinda hurts 4 me , is this normal on my age that your penis aims at ur face??? i dont think so please answer my question!! (link)
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They can point in any direction. If it hurts every time you have sex with her, that a bit unusual. If that keeps happening, see a doctor.
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so there is this boy i have been talkn to that is great freidns with my best frends boyfriend and the boyfrend told him (dylan) that i am into him which i am and he responded like oh thats cool and hes kinda a shy guy he txts me or ims me every so often to often and at school he will chit chat very little i cant tell if he is into me or not..becasue he is shy and all i like him and i want him to be all cuddlly and flirtyy with out looking like an idiot...how do i get more flirty with him and is he into me
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If he likes to talk to you, he likes you. And if you like him, ask him out. Just do it. "I like you and I like hanging out with you and I want to be your girlfriend." Or, if you're to shy to say that, ask him if he likes you. Then, when he says yes, you can tell him you like him. Cute, huh?
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i have never kissed a guy at all before. please give me the 411 no websites. like what do you do and hooking up what do you do. what do you say and where do you put ur hands.help me
xoxox
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Slow down, don't worry so much. If you're with the right person, it will all come naturally. How do you think the first people figured it out, a website? Just take your time, and if you're with a good guy, he won't care if you start doing it wrong, and you can figure it out together.
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ok so i have this friend who likes my boyfriend and shes trying her hardest to take him from me..ive tried talking to her and ive even talked to him about it. he doesnt like her..he likes me and only me.what should i do?
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Some friend. You've made sure your boyfriend is aware of the situation, that's good. Now just sit your friend down and tell her he's your boyfriend and you're happy together, and it's really upsetting you that she's doing this. If she keeps doing it, then you'l have to decide between them. If you think she's more important to you (although I don't know why you'd want friends like this), then you'll have to break up with your boyfriend. If you decide he's more important to you, then you'll have to stop being friends with her.
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okay so my brother austin said he was friends with this dude named tyler and they were tight and homies. Well i started to get interested in tyler and vice versa...well then austin said i know why he cant give you his number and i said why and he said because he has a gf and i said so and he said well he was playing you and i said he was flirtin no big deal and he said he is two timing his gf right now and i said and you know this because and he said because he told me and everyone knows but me apparently. and i said well and he said are you mad or sad and i said no it aint like we was dating and he was like oh well we aint that good of friends and he kept going lower on the friend deal and then i was like well friends with benefits for the summer for three weeks...hes in a different state. But i dont know i mean yeah. austin just might not want me dating his friends you know?? what do you think
and tyler is my cousins half brother on her dads side and i am NOT related to her dad --so am i related bc if i am i will kiss it goodbye!
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Your cousin's half brother... no, technically you're not related.
Um... if your brother doesn't feel comfortable with you dating his friend, then you have to decide what's more important to you. A family member, who will be your family member forever, or a guy who will be a guy for what, maybe a year if it works out at all? Your brother is more important to you, isn't he? Unless he's a complete jerk. Then go out with the guy to just piss him off. No, not really. Think about your brother first and boys second.
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in fca he was there for like the first time EVER and when i walked in he stared at me and then i sat down and he smiled and i smiled back, then he kept on looking at me and then after like 5 times he talked to his friend Fitz and Fitz looked at me then turn around and patted cj on the back... he also brushed against me on the way out of the room...
now when i had class with cj he flirted with me BIG TIME but he had a gf..
well they broke up because she didnt want a relationship and now they are dating again?!?!
so whats going on??
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Maybe he's just some sort of unfaithful jerk. Stay away from guys that flirt when they have girlfriends, they could be trouble. If he has a girlfriend, you should get as far away as possible.
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15/f ok so i really like this guy and i think he likes me back but he's just too complicated for me. we've never really talked before but just eyecontact and my friends tell me he always looks at me etc. and i used to date his best friend so i know him just a little bit but only talked once or twice. anyway im pretty sure he started liking me and i like him back. this is going on for over a year now. he's never had a gf and ive never had a bf. but he always makes me sad by his behaviour. i mean sometimes he notices me but then he just ignores me and makes me feel like shit. and i know hes doing it cos he wants to be cool but still. and basicly i know he's not that great and deffinetly not the best guy for me but i cant help liking him. im trying to get over him but i always think: what if it could be something AFTER ALL and im throwing it all away. you know what i mean? and i have my eyes on a nother guy who actually makes me smile a lot but i just dont seem to like him in that way. i dont get it, because i KNOW that if i like the other guy i'd be happy but i cant help liking HIM. i always seem to choose the guys who make me feel bad about myself and who are hard to get, and never like the sweet and kind ones :/
heeeelp
and please dont say that i dont really know him cos we've never talked. trust me we DO no eachother but i dont wanna spell it all out cos it'd be long. just trust me on this :) (link)
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Right. Going back to the guys that always hurt you, that's called low self esteem. You don't need to take that. Spend more time with the guy whose nice to you. In time, he'll grow on you, and you'll forget about the mean one as the nice one makes you feel better about yourself. Seriously.
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okay well. basically i likED this guy. i might still i'm not really sure. but he's liked me on and off for like 2 YEARS. yes years. and i feel like that's a reallly long time. but anyways i finally started liking him a few weeks ago. but i'm not really sure if that's because i actually liked him or just because there was no one else to really like. see this is my problem i constantly feel like i have to like someone because it just keeps me occupied. i don't know. like before that i had a thing with this other guy and we got in a fight so i just went back to the guy that i know will always like me. it's bad i know. but see this guy is like one of my best friends and i can talk to him about anything and trust him with anything but it just frusterates me that i can't talk to him without him liking me getting in the way. because no matter what he always ends up liking me. so anyways we have been hanging out for a few weeks. we haven't hooked up or anything but i told him i would. he said he wanted to but he was like too scared to try. he thought it would ruin our friendship or something. anyways. im kinda changing my mind about liking him. but i don't really know how to let him down gently. help? (link)
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Hey, listen. It sounds like you're not really sure what you want. And it would be really bad if you kept pulling this kid back and forth on a string. "I like you," "I don't like you." If he likes you and you keep doing that, you'll destroy his self esteem. You are looking for a boyfriend, this guy seems like he's really into you. Why don't you try to start slow with him and go out with him on one or two dates? If it's awkward, you'll have a good excuse to say it's not working, and you should go back to being friends. And if you actually like it, well that would be great, wouldn't it?
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So it happened on a Sunday when my friend called me and he is in the army. i was talking to him cause me and my boyfriend were fighting. i started to talk to his roommate and he was a good talker and talked me into sending him pictures of me that werent right for me to do. my boyfriend found out and we are broken up now but i live him so much and i know i made such a huge mistake but i want to fix things with him and i want to make him happy again. We both still really love each other but he wont get back with me. how can i get him to belive me when i say im sorry and i want to make things better? (link)
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There's nothing that can hurt a relationship between two people more than mistrust. He needs time to pull himself together, and then once he has, if he loves you like you say he does, he will come to you and sort things out. If he sees too much of you while he is still in pain, it will make him feel worse about you. Give him space, but don't do anything like this with anybody during that time. Stay faithful.
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I'm really in a huge trouble.
A week ago I just found myself falling in love with an 11 or 12 year-old boy(he won't tell me his age)
I'm 14.
I've been against having younger bf.
I donno what I should do.
How to deal with the situation.
We are quite close. his class is right next to mine.
And I really wanna know if he likes me too.
How do I do that?
I would really appreciate all your advises. (link)
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Don't think about your age difference. Just think about this: Do you like him? It seems like the answer is yes, so you have to go for it. What's most important is how you feel, not what anybody else feels or thinks. So, if you decide you like him, you should tell him. You don't want to swallow your feelings. If you open up to him, it'll will be a lot easier for him to open up to you. If he does like you, he'll tell you, and that will probably end well. If he doesn't like you, at least you got it out, and you'll be able to get over him. And if anyone makes fun of you, it'll be because they're jealous that you had the courage to bear your soul to another human being. Trust me.
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so im not the prettiest apple on the tree. But I think I have a really good personality (corny, i know)
I'm really into theater. Obsessed with Broadway.
Yeah, are guys into that stuff and wouldn't mind my looks. Or am I a helpless case destined to be a nun??
14/f
I've never had a bf or someone to like me.
so what should I do?
guys answers very welcome! (link)
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I'm a guy. Trust me, there's someone out there for everyone. I'm not a catch at all, and I've had girls. Just make sure to grab him when you see him, or you will regret it. Not literally grab, of course.
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What type of things to guys like in girls?
turn offs and ons? i know everyones answer will be different. kay thanks. :] (im not sure if this is the right category. so sorry.) (link)
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Turn ons:
I like a girl who laughs a lot, especially at things I say. I like a girl with pretty eyes. I like a girl who doesn't take anything too seriously.
Turn offs:
Girls doing confuing things. In other words, guys are idiots. Don't flirt with us one minute and ignore us the next. And don't be a tease if you really like the guy.
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