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Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do? (link)
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It all depends on who you have stronger feelings for and what your looking for in a guy, and if you dont know then maybe that's the best place to start; but you shouldn't get back together with the guy you met at camp just because you have history together. If you really like the guy you met at school it would probably be easier and less stressful to have a relationship with him. Maybe all you need with the guy you met at camp is closure.
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my girl-friend seems to be insecure, or at least not trust me enough. if she doesn't trust me or maybe even her-self enuff, would ther be anything i should or could do? would asking her be a bad idea or iz that what im supposed to do (link)
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Some people have a hard time trusting people because of previous relationships or family problems. Just show her that your there for her anyway you can and tell her that if she ever needs to talk to someone your there and eventually she'll lay her trust in you and open up. And maybe she's just afraid of getting hurt.
Does she have any ex - boyfriends that have hurt her before? But whatever you do DON'T ask her because it might make her more insecure if thats the case.
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ok i have been dating this guy for awhile now and i care for him alot but i dont think a relationship is what i want from him anymore.hes to CLINGY and SENSITIVE.he always wants to just talk to me or just hang out with me alone.he never wants to talk with me and my friends we always have to be alone.i noticed i never have time for my friends anymore and im always going to be late.i have already tried to break up with him twice but he just cried and i felt guilty so i took him back now ive had it and we got into a fight about my friends a couple days ago and now im just avoiding him because i know when i do talk to him hell cry...help me what do i do?!?!?1 (link)
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You can't just stay with a guy because your afraid of a bad break-up, just ask to talk to him alone, then tell him how you feel and that you don't think you should see eachother anymore he may cry but you will have to take that chance especially since the only reason your staying with him is because your afraid to break up with him.
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Ok, so theres this guy, let's call him Cameron. I've been literally in love with him for over 2 and a half years. He's liked me that long too, but the problem is, one of his best girl friends (who is also my best friend) says that he likes five girls. Two of which are halfway across the country. Then there's me, and two other girls that must go to my school. On a scale of 1-10 he rated me a 9, and a girl in another state a 10. I'm getting really jealous and I'm not sure how to react to all this. He says he really likes me, and he even gave me flowers on Valentine's Day, but I'm just not sure what to do. Should I still keep my hopes up for him, or try to give him up since he likes 5 different girls? Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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You should not be jelous he may rate a girl in another state a ten and you a nine, but he sees you almost every day and problably never sees her so his rating of you can change any time for the better and for the worse, but how long do you think he will like a girl he never sees?
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ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me! (link)
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You should ask him to hang out with you and a bunch of friends, then maybe he'll ask you out their once he gets used to hanging out with you more.
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13/m sorry its so long
there is this girl danielle that i really like and have liked for a while i thought i was over her for a few months then some kids at school said some guy hit her and i got so mad that i faugt him but its more then that i faught him got arrested broke a cars mirror of and dented the car getting sued to fix the car got a 2 day out of school suspendion broke my knuckle and other stuff and i dont know if she relizes everything i did for her and i dont know if she does but doesnt wanna talk about it or just is to shy to tell me if she likes me i think she might but i dont know for sure if anyone knows how i can tell if she likes me let me know
thanks
mike (link)
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Have you tried talking to her?
If you want her to know what you did for her was for her than be honest tell her and ask her out then you will finally know if she likes you, and if she dosn't you can still be good friends.
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ok i was going out with a girl for 9 months....then she broke up with me...and i found out she still loves me but she doesnt want 2 but she does and i love her 2 i asked her out but she said no.....and like everyday she loves me a little more...but i want her 2 love me a lot so she will go out with me so ladies if u were the girl here wut would a guy like me have 2 do....buy a flowers and chocolates? write a peom...find a poem ill do anything for her....so wut should i do? (link)
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She's probally scared of having a relationship or what her friends will think or somrthing might be going on in her life outside of school. Talk to her, say I know you love me but why wont you go out with me, chances are she wants to go out with you but something else is bothering her.
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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together? (link)
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If you love himthen you should stay with him and just find a date where you guys can get together and just spend the whole day together until school starts
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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her? (link)
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Take her somewhere special let her know how much you love her that's about the only thing you can do.
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i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused (link)
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Maybe he's going through somthing hard in is life and just needs time to think, but you really need to talk to him about whats bothering him, maybe you can help.
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well me and this guy were together.. but i never kissed him bc i didnt think i was ready.. now i just found out that he was playin with my head the whole time and that he has a gf... i wanna forget about him but he just stays in my head! all the things he told me and everything is stayin in my mind! i cant stop thinkin about him even though hes a scumbag! wat do i do??
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If he wont dump his GF for you you then you should try transferring out of the classes you have with him, get rid of everything you have of his or things that he gave you or things that remind you of him, and try dating again and just avoid him.
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Ok so I Am only 13 but could I be in love do you think you cAn truley be in love at 13? or do think it is just puppy love? I rAte 5's
~MD_GIRL101~ (link)
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You can be in love at any age but there's a few quizzes you could take at www.myjellybean.com
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14/f -- my friends in I call ourselfs "the crew". Mainly, it's me & my boyfriend, his best friend & his girlfriend [my best friend], and occasionally a few others. We all have open relationships were we tell each other everything. Except we don't tell our b/f&g/fs everything so we kinda share secrets and give advice and such. The other day my bf's best friend [he just happens to be my ex] told me that he still has feelings for me and thinks about me more than his girl. now, he keeps talking to me about this and trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend with him.. i'm not gonna, but what should i say to him to make him back off?? (link)
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Tell him that it's over and that he needs to move on and that you allready have unless you like him than you should break up with your current bf just dont cheat on anyone and you'll be fine
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ok i really like this guy. (well call him P) well today we are having a 1rst of july party. i didnt have a clue who my dad was inviting but i was really hoping that he invited his family. but it turns out that its just basically a work party, even though he said its a 'get together'. but i havent seen P in 3 weeks. I really miss him and i think might even love him. what could i do to see him again? besides calling him and feeling like a stalker or IMing him.. any ideas? o and also, my parents dont know i like him. (link)
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It's not being a stalker to call him, if you really love tell him that's the only way you're gonna know if he likes you. If he does then yah, if he dosn't there's plenty of guy's out there.
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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...but on the other hand he asked me to do something with him in the holidays..so that means he asked me out..but i still think that im a rebound girl for some reason...help!!! =(
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I think the guy is just dating you to get back together with your friend I would dump him before he has a chance to hurt you
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
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The only guy your gonna find acting like a slut is the kind of guy that will never respect you just be yourself and one day you'll find the perfect guy
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there is this guy who went to one of the local schools in my town. he is black and really fine.. he moved to tx w/ his mom and now he is back for the summer... i really do like him and he seems like he likes me.. well im sortof in a lil thing w/ this other guy like we dated and then he got sent off and came back and wanted to get back together w/ me but hasnt yet. ok well i love him and am in love w/ him... but now that this other guy is back in town i find my self wondering if i should just break things off with him totally.... but the guy that is back in town for the summer is leaving when school starts again in august.. i tink its possible that i may want to pursue things w/ him though..what do u all think? the 2 guys know each other and may even be cousins--but didtant.... help.... (link)
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You've just got to decide wich guy you like better and wich one can you relate to more, but if one guys only here for the summer and you want a serious relationship you should go with the other one or find a new guy
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I like some one allot but he told me the other day he doesnt believe in God. He believes in Jesus just doesnt think he is his son. I told him stuff that can prove he is real. I also told him that, If I believe he is real and he isnt I am not missing out on anything but if he is real and I believe in him I am doing right. but I still dont know what to tell him to make him believe in him. I mean I would really fill good about my self if I can turn some one into the right track. his family believes in him just not him I dont understand. pleaze help (link)
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If your religion is very important to you and if this guy dosn't believe in him he may not be worth it your gonna have to decide between this guy and your religion
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