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Hi, fifteen, female. There is this boy and he has been my best friend since third grade, he's the best. When I'm down, he knows and he asks me to tell him about it and everything or he'll play his guitar for me because he knows I like when he does. My mom is absolutely in love with him, she thinks we are going to grow up and get married, like most best friends do. I'm totally honest when I say I don't know my feelings for him, I thought he was just my friend but I kinda can see him as a boyfriend now. He holds open doors for me and all the gentleman-esque things. But, I look at other girls he has liked in the past and I am NOTHING like them. In class we were talking about a leader of Germany and my teacher said that the leader reminded him of Regina from mean girls. My friend mumbled something to himself but the person he sits next to heard him and asked if he liked her, he answered her and they started laughing then he turned around and quick looked at me. Everybody in my school always makes fun of us because apparently we're in "love" and we need to get together ASAP. I ask my friends why they think he likes me and they said the way he looks at me, it isn't like how he looks at other girls and how he smiles when we talk but I just looked at that as 7 years of friendship. His brother, in collage, makes fun of us too. My friend is a great guy and I trust him with my life. Both of us play instruments and one day I gave him food because he was hungry and he loved what I gave him to eat so now he asks me for them all the time, just something we share, between me and him, ya know. I guess my question is -> do you think my best friend likes me as more than his friend and if so how do I approach this situation without messing up an amazing friendship?
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It sounds like you guys have a great relationship together, and if I'm right, if the friendship is strong enough, you guys will be able to survive through everything. Including, revealing your secret to him. Just pull him aside one day and talk to him about it...I'm sure he feels the same:) Good luck and you guys can survive through everything, just remember that. And also remember that if you secide to keep it from him, you're going to regret it so much later in your life when you realize that you ahd your chance, but you lost it. If yuo do ask him,a and even if he doesn't feel the same at least you'll know that you tried which is all you can do. So instead of regretting it later on in life for never knowing if he felt the same way, and wanting to die of anxiety becasue you never even asked or got an answer, you should just go up and ask him, face to face!
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hey,
this guy i really like has told me he likes me to my face but then he goes and tells his friends he doesnt..but they think he does. so my xboyfriend always tells him bad things about me and after a while hes starting to believe him. so i got very fed up with this and i just asked the kid out for myself and he said he had to think about it, hes been thinking about it for like 4 days now and everyday i ask him are u done thinking? n hes like i promise ill tell u tomorrow but he never does, i just dont know what to do...
-sincerely,
confused (link)
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So it's obviously that he has been falling for you a lot if he actually admittd it. He might be shy for a certain reason so maybe that's why he wants to keep it a secret. If he's still thinking about it, that might mean he's unsure about the rumors he heard from your ex still, deciding if they're true or not. So maybe pull him aside one day, and talk to him about the whole situation, and how they aren't true. If he still is unsure or doesn't believe you then he isn't worth your time or just simply you. That must mean you deserve better if he doesn't have trust in you, always remember that, because every guy who doesn't trust one of us, a girl, then why give them a chance, because we're all special in different ways.
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ok. well there is this one *boy*. i really like him. i know he doesnt like me near as much as i do to him. we had a fling but it soon ended. but since then i CANNOT get over him. no matter what i do. everytime i think im over him, i somehow find a way to fall madly in love with him again. all it takes is me hearing his name or seeing him. but liking him consumes so much of me, and its beginning to become draining. he actually at times is mean to me, but i brush it off and like him still. but sometimes he acts like hes into me again, and im on cloud nine. but then were back to normal, which is him not giving me the time of day. i know that i need to get over him, but i need extreme help and tips on how to do this. not normal "get over him" but something that will rid of the boy that consumes so much of my life. (link)
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Simply avoid him at all costs, delete his phone number, and try to find another sweet guy. After all of that, if you still can't get your mind off of him then that must mean you really are into him. So if this continues, maybe pull him aside and talk to him about it. Or if you don't want to try that, which I wouldn't recommend, then try watching comedies or revenge movies with your friends, maybe with some ice cream, but only if you feel totally heartbroken. I honestly wouldn't want you to reach to that though so if you're serious about forgetting about him then do our first steps we gave out.
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THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.
He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.
This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.
The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.
And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon
He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.
Please help, I'm so scared right now. (link)
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I see that this is a serious problem and you're scared to death! No matter how scared you are, you HAVE to tell someone. This guy has taken everything from you, but don't don't let him take your courage,self confidence, and self esteem down with him. You MUST be a very strong person to have made it this far, and I know you're strong enough to step up to the plate, and tell someone. That's a must, so you can finally be just you again, and not have him int he back of your mind every single second of yoour life, afraid that he's going to do something crazy!!!
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would it be weird if i dated one of my taekwondo instructors? he is 18 im 16, were both interested in eachother he even called me beautiful last class (link)
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We honestly think that that is no where near weird. You guys are only 2 years apart frome each other, and if you're falling for him just as much as he's fallin for you than it must be written in the stars for you guys have had to met each other. Just follow your heart,and you'll never go wrong.
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