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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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so i had a question i went on a date with this guy and we cuddled and hold hands. but did nothing else so should i kiss him on the second date when we go and hangout at the mall? does anyone here have any stories or tips as well? thanks. :)

I usually kiss on the first date. But sometimes it just doesn't happen. I think it will happen the second one, I mean you guys already held hands, & what not. A way to get him to know you want to, when you're looking at him, look down at his lips, and back into his eyes. It's a sign, and if he's smart enough, he'll realize.

GOOD LUCK.

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Okay, you just answered one of my questions you know the guy at the pool my friend and i met? Ya well we called him and had really fun talking to each other. I found out he liked me also. He told me that he likes us but he likes one of us a lil bit more, but he doesn't want to say who because he doesn't want that person to be mad. Well i have a feeling he likes her more..but i have no clue. Hw won't tell me who yet. What should i do?

Honestly, I don't think you should worry about who he likes more. All that really matters is that he likes you back. He'll get over the fact that he likes your friend after you and him start talking, so I suggest you do the same. Not meaning this in a bad way or anything.

If you need anything else, feel free to ask me girlyy [:

Good Luck !

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Hey okay I've recently heard this, is it true that boys are okay with inexperienced girls? That they like the "innocent type"? We're talking never been kissed...

14/F

Yes, many guys do like inexpirenced girl, because many like to be the first.

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I've been with my boyfriend for about seven months but we were close friends before that. Our relationship has never been plain sailing and we have had countless problems and arguments, even briefly splitting up once or twice. Recently it's just got to the point where we're barely together. We rarely see each other, when we speak on the phone we just argue. Neither of us know what we want, we've said 'I love you' to each other but I don't feel like that anymore.

I keep thinking about my ex and how happy I was with him, we split up over a year ago but I know I'm just thinking like that because I'm not happy with my current boyfriend.

I know it sounds obvious that we should just split up, but everytime I try and do it something stops me. I've been diagnosed with Depression and I'm scared of being alone, as my boyfriend is my rock. As I said, we were very good friends before and confided in each other alot. I know it would be selfish to expect him to stay friends with me if I were to break up with him. I know he cares about and loves me and I don't want to hurt him.

I don't know what to do. I feel so selfish for not making a decision but I just can't bring myself to do it. We've tried going on breaks and things still aren't working. What should I do?

I think you should talk to him about this. You never know he may feel the same way, but you'll never know if you guys don't talk about these sorts of things. I know if you both put everything into the relationship, you guys could be good again. You just can't let little things ruin so much. The arguing can stop for a fact. Just whenever you guys do start to argue, be the bigger person & try & stop it from happening. The fighting won't get you guys anywhere. & if you really feel like you can't be with him, then don't. You can't force yourself into something that you don't want, just b/c it will effect the other person. Yes, you're probably going to hurt him, but it's better than being with him but really not even caring about the relationship.

You have two choices, either talk to him about it, and try and get back to normal. Or, just end it, even though it might not be easy for either of you..

If you need anything else, just drop it in my inbox.

Good luck.

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i'm asking both guys/girls for advice on this subject. so, my boyfriend and i have been heating things up lately, (having sex, naked makeout sessions, etc.) but i've been looking for new ways to turn him on while we're making out/laying near each other. so girls, tell me your dirty little tricks to get him horny, and guys, tell me what you like. (eg. kissing tricks, what to do with my hands?) thanks, anything will help. [:

While you guys are making out like hardcore, moan in his air. Or whisper in his ear. You have to try different things out to see what gets him, b/c all guys are different. But I know, most guys will get turned on by a moan. & when you get on top of him, like dry hump him - it'll get him hard.

Well I didn't know many thing, but I hope I helped. & Good luck !

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Im a 19 year old female and have not had sex yet. I had a boyfriend for a couple months but he we never tried to have sex. I really want to experience it before i turn 20. Is it worth it? And is it ok for it to be someone i really dont want to be with? I dont know what to do!!!

I personally think that you should wait untill you find someone you care about, & expirence it with them. Other than just anyone. But if you do choose to just do it with anyone, you'll most deffinatly regret it. I suggest you wait, and you'll thank me later (:

I hope I helpeddd

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16/f So Ive been in my relationship for 9 Months and we have Not had sex, we plan to wait for a while. So We were making out the other day and I am the one who kinda started the making out, But then when we started to make out I just stopeed and smiled and didnt continue... So He looked at me and called me a tease, now Im not positive what a tease is and is it a good thing or bad?!

A tease is the one who is trying to start the stuff.

& He probably only called you that b/c he thought you were trying to do stuff, even though you guys decided to wait.

It's neither a good/bad thing. Sometimes, you just tease a guy for fun.

*For example, if you're on your period, and you get on top of you boyfriend, & get him hard, even though you know that you guys can't do stuff b/c you're on your period.. That's a piss off tease to him, but also funny for us girls :)

Hope I helped, Jasmina

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I really need help with my best friend. See I really like him and we went out early this year. Everything bounced back from then, it actually really did. But now, things are starting to be like sad almost. Its like he use to always come up to me and start a conversation and help me out, he was my best friend after all. Now it seems like he doesn't try anymore, and I'm not sure what to do. Hes a great friend and a great guy, i just don't know how to respond to this. What should I do?

This usually does happen, when 2 best friends go out. He probably feels weird now.. But I don't think you should stress out too much about it, there is always ways to bring it all back to normal. All you have to do is sit down with him & tell him how you feel about how everything is going. If you never tell him, he won't just figure it out on his own. Guys are like that, they always make it seem like nothing is wrong, but deep down there are things that are bothing him. You have to try and his is point of view as well. Just ask him to go out to dinner, or just to hang out, and just get everything out, hopefully everything works out. Tell me how it goes.

Love , Jasmina.

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what does it meann if someone says alyx and andrew hooked up last night?

Welll there's many think it can mean,
either the two kissed, had sex, bj, hj, or even he may have fingered her, etc..
But the main thing is, they did something, meaning that some how they were together, and interacted in a way.
Many things arn't as bad, but it just depends on what they do.

Hope I helped.

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so, i wanna give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon - i get the basics, but i really actually dont know what to do :P so what do i do to give a good bj?

Okay, so if you're ready to give a blow job, then that's good. But all you realy do it go up and down with your mouth, I think you should start off with licking the tip, i've heard from many that they like it a lot. Also if you want to add a little more to it, and make it feel better, you can put his penis into the space thats between your cheeck, and your teeth, it's very tight there, and the tighter, the better. You make also lick the balls, which they also like, but I don't recomend that. Also every now and then when you get tired from having it in your mounth, just give him a hand job, and when you see that he is starting to cum, that's also when you jack him off. You have 2 choices when he does begin to come, you can either put your mouth on there again, and swallow it, or have something prepared so he can come in, or even let him cum on like your face, stomach, back, etc.. That's pretty much it, and make sure you DONT BIT ! (:

Gooood luck, and I hope I helped.
- If you need anything else, ASK.

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i really wanna kiss a boy. when i do i wanna be ready so how do you kiss a boy like make out? i dont wanna be called a prude
so instructions on kissing please
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Well there really arn't no steps to kissing, it just kind of happens. I mean when he's ready or when you'ready , MAKE THE MOVE !You won't be called prude, because there is no right or wrong in kissing. If you don't know how to make out, then wait untill he makes the move, and just go along with what he does. Don't worry, and good luck.
Hope I helped.

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i'd really like to do something nice for my boyfriend, just because. something that doesnt cost a lot but means a lot.
i've made him a cd for him before of all the songs that remind of us each other.. and for the front and back cover i custom designed it with pictures of us. he loves it.. he listens to it everytime he's in his car.

i really want to do something else like that for him because he's such a great boyfriend and i want him to know how much he really means to me.
any ideas?
thanks a bunch! :)

A calender, with a picture of you guys in every month (:

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when me and my boyfriend both have no shirts on and are making out or dry humping...what things can i do to spice it up?

17/f

Try & make-out like with more ugh into it. You know where like you go fast and you're breathing hard & stuff, Guys like that. Also touch him, and like rub your hand against his penis, it will really help for him to get hard, he'll like it trust me ;)
Hope I helped.

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my boyfriend always calls me beautiful and gorgeous and i never know what to say back except "aw" or smile... what do guys like being called by girls? i asked him and he said he didn't know...but theres gotta be something.

were both 16

Babe, or even come up with like a nickname for him.
For Example:
Cookie head, studmuffin. (:

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Okay, Me and my boyfriend are thinking about doing it in a hot tub or a bath. How does this all work? Does he put a condom before he goes inside me and then we go into the pot. Me and him both want to use protection. He doesn't want to make any risk. But what if he is inside me without a condom, and when he is about to ejaculate , he pulls it out and ejaculates into the water? What happens then? Is there a risk of getting pregnant or?

Have him put it on before he goes in the water, because if he does cum in the water, that's a big risk, because yes there is a slight chance that it might go inside you.
Good luck, :)

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What to get My boyfriend for Valentines Day. I was thinking of a personalized mug or bowl but he lives with his parents and that wont really have much of a meaning cuz it wont actually be his. I might get him boxers but What else can I get him. Something cute and small we dont want to spend too much money on each other? What do you think?

It's not really about how much the gift cost, it's more the thought that counts. Mabe a calednar for this year of like different picture of you guys for each month, I think that a very cute & creative present. If not that, then just get him boxers from like a store he likes, & cologne.
Hope I helped.

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My boyfriend and I had a talk last night about how he wants our relationship to go. Ironically, after we spoke about it, we watched That 70's Show and the episode was literally about exactly how he wants our relationship to go. He sent me some of the quotes once he got home. I don't really understand what he wants, so hopefully you can help me understand.

"See! Remember when our relationship was the most fun thing in our lives? And then we put all this pressure on it. Wish we could just...y'know just hang out and forget all about that stuff."

"Donna and I have decided we're not gonna talk about our relationship anymore!"

"It's going to be so great to be with Donna without all the talking and the decisions and labels. Y'know like am I your fiancé...y'know am I your boyfriend..."

As far as I can see, he just wants to try and have a perfect relationship, which isn't possible, but he's trying HARDER then usual. In one of the quotes I think it's saying that the minute you guys do fight, he wants the next minute to be all better because he doesn't like the fact at you two being mad at each other.
I actually think it's kind of cute how he put it.
Hope I helped.

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14/m

theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts?

I think you should ask just to see what she would say, I mean if she says yes, there's a bigger chance of her liking you. I think it's totally worth finding that out. & Plus you'll still get to see her :) that's a plus.
I hope I helped.

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okay my bf broke up with me not even a month ago. i was devastated and under the circumstances that he was telling me i shoulda said fuck you, but i stayed around and i messed around with him even though he had another gf already. bc he said he 'still loved me' B.S. right? i didnt know whether it was or not. his best friend tyler begain talking to me after he broke up with me. he told me that he has had a crush on me. i told my ex and he got really pissed (the purpose of telling him). but as i talked to tyler i learned he cheated on me 3 tiems while we were datng and he is tellling me all theis stuff about my ex that i didnt know and it pissed me off. do you think he maybe exagerateing bc he likes m e or telling me the truth. im kind of in the middle because i don't really know/.

I don't think he is lieing, sorry to say but if you ex already found a new gf & it hasn't been even a month yet, he moves pretty quick. He seems like one of those "playa" guys, from the way you describe him.
I think to get revenge back onto your ex, it'll make him very mad if you went out with that Tyler guy. Guys hate that! & I think it would just get him, you don't deseve to get hurt like that.. No gurl does.
I hope I helped, if you have any other questions, just askk (:

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I was at my friend's house last night, and we and his sister and a few friends were knocking some drinks back. By the end of the night I fell asleep in his sister's room before she got there but she slept on the bed anyways. Now I'm a 17 year old male and she's a 15 year old girl... we started having a conversation which led to a kiss, which led to other things. By the time we were finished I had eaten her out, and that's where it ended. There's obviously a lot of ackwardness and her brother/my friend doesn't know. I would appreciate anybody who could help in what to say to her about it and note that I do like this girl quite a bit I don't think she feels the same way... i just need to know what I should say to her thank you.

Well I think she must have something for you too, if you guys went that far.
I think you should just really talk to her, & tell her how you feel, I bet you'll be nervous but I mean, us girls think it's cute when a guy expresses his feelings, expecially the goood ones.

I hope everything works out well, if you need anything else, drop it in my inbox.

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