i try to be as real as i can be. i'll be honest with you and if i can, i will answer as many questions as possible. i won't tell you to do the easiest thing or the most convenient. i care about doing the right thing, but i can list the possibilities. it's your decision, so please don't blame me if you feel like you've made a mistake. i just pointed out what you can do.
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Ok this guy we went out and he broke up with me like 2 days after that..
And everytime i see him now he has like 15 girls surrounding around him!!!
And i still love him!!!
And i tell him i dont and he always stares at me and he talks about me to his friends and i dont know if he likes me but if he did why did he brake up with me???
I mean this is going through my head alot and it happened 2 weeks ago..
And i need good advice to tell him something!!
PLEASE!!
im only 11
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give him another chance, but be careful about what you do with him. he might end up hurting you again, but these signs do tell a person that they have feelings for another.
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17/f.
ive been really good friends with this guy for a couple years. he's always liked me and i liked him a while ago. one night he completely flipped out and thought a lot of things happened which didnt. it was kinda hard for me cause i liked him and everything. well i guess he is a schizophrenic. its been almost a year since that happened and he's on medication and he seems better. im beginning to like him again, and that isnt really a problem, cause i know he likes me too. i just dont want him to flip out on me again, what should i do? (link)
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schizophrenic people are dellusional. they either see things that aern't there or hear things that normal people wouldn't hear. it actually is just something a person't born with and there's no known cure for it, only that you can take litheum to surpress it, or if the person's will power is strong enough, they can surpress it. there's actually nothing you can do to prevent this from happening, but it can lessen, maybe by changing the enviornment around him. maybe by making it seem more trusting
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He has a girlfriend, but i really like him. And me and him talk a little bit. And at one point i thought he liked me, but then he dropped the sentence that he had a girlfriend to one of his friends. I was just wondering, (im not going to steal him from her. Im not that kinda girl) but i was wondering how do i get him to notice me? and i mean like really notice me? I know the flirting and crap. But i just want to know how i can get him to see me and not see me as invisable if you know what im saying. Thanks
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just be yourself. i know it sounds cliche, but it does work. don't over do it like with flirting and changing your whole self. he will eventually see the change and will change his feelings about you. your clothes can also make a differance. if you usually wear clothes that are baggy, you can wear clothes that hug your body a little more. i'm not talking about revealing clothes, but (i guess it's what people call these days) decent clothes.
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this question is probably asked a lot..but what are some ideas for a valentines day gift for my boyfriend..something no more than 40-50 dollars. weve been going out for almost a month. thanks in advance!!! (link)
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you can either make him lunch or dinner or order something from a restraunt and serve it to him in a romantic setting like in your kitchen or dining room decorated with something nice.
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Hello EVERYONE! This is my first Valentine's Day that I really cared/loved the person that was my valentine. My boyfriend is sooo sweet and I want to do something totally different. He has to work on Valentine's Day, so what i have come up with so far, is placing a cd that i've made for him with all the songs that remind me of him in the cd player, so he'll be listening to it on his way to my house, i've brought him a shirt, he jus recently got a new car, so i took a pic with him today on the car, and i have the prettiest frame that describes him with that picture in it. Now I am stuck. what else can i get him? Please help, do you think my idea is cute and different, I would really like your input, thank you! (link)
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well, since he has to work, you can either do something nice like bring him lunch or dinner or soemthing to eat whenever he has to work at, well, where he works. you can either order a meal and bring it there, cook the meal and present it to him, or just pack him something to eat with something to remind him of you like a love note or something.
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Ok, last week I was going to confess to my crush
that I liked him....but...I chickened out....I just have no idea what to say to him....
Also I'm the same girl who posted up a question saying that some girl walked up to him and asked my crush that if he liked me((cause she and another girl who is my friend were trying to hook me up with my crush))
Anyways when the girl,Lucy((or whatever name I put up in that question)) asked my crush if he liked me he said no,that he supposedly dident like me in that sort of way...
And I had second thoughts that maybe just maybe he lied.I mean who would tell some random person that they like this guy,or this girl((even if you know thier names but you hardly talk to))besides he gave all the signs saying 'Yea.I like you too.'
anyways I asked him if Lucy said anyrthing about me to him.He said no,that not from what he remembers...so I said thank you...But one of my friends was there((she was faraway from us))Risa
told me that maybe he lied so he wouldent have to confess...or something like that((I cant remember it all happened so fast))
but yea...now i dont know if I should confess or not...I do think its better if I confess...I have people telling me I should ignore him and forget about him and others saying I should become better friends with him and see what happens....
I dont want to ignore him cause he is a somewhat a friend of mine as I am to him and I dont think its right to ignore him just cause he did'ent like me back...
this may sound very cheesy but I think its better if I listen to my heart which is telling me I should confess((usally I dont listen to my heart))
so should I confess???
And if i should what should I tell him??? (link)
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well, if a guy is friendly with you, it can mean that he is just friendly with you and he can see only friendship in you. just because it's the opposite gender doesn't necessarily mean that it has to be anything more, even though it may seem like it in your eyes.
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okay my name is michaela nad i am a tough girl usually but when it comes to my boyfriend i feel older yet like i dont have to stand up for some things because he is there..... so a while back i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me because some gurl said she loved my guy!! well i think that she just has a crush on him. but well we have gone out three times. four and a half mounths was the longest but i have know him for a year and a half. well today we were walking and i called him retarded as a joke because he was being stupid. and after that i accidentally said "i love you." it just slipped. i wasnt even ready to tell him that and i dont think he was ready to hear it. but he said it back at least but really really quiet. i am kinda freaked out and i dont know how i am going to react around him. i think i should just act normal but i seriously i dont think i can now. what should i do?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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well, there is one of three things you can do.
1) you can act like nothing happened and go on with your life
2) you can talk to him about the situation, such as asking him if he really likes you
3) you can keep on running away from your problems and break his heart
i would do the second one, but it is your choice for you to make.
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I have been best friends with a guy named Dan for over five years. We get along so well, and we kind of flirt with eachother. Now, I've begun to realize that I like him, more than just a friend. It's the classic situation: I want to tell him how I feel but I'm so scared that it'll ruin the friendship (if he doesn't like me, that is). Right now we're really close, but we flirt, so it's not like that weird, brother and sister relationship. What should I do? I'm running out of time because a lot of girls like him and I don't think he'll be single for too long. Thanks (link)
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i had a relationship like this and i told him. i also knew his best friend liked him and she is also one of my friends. if you really like him, or even love, then i say go for it. i don't have any regrets about telling him, so i think it would be better if you tell him now, while the situation is more simple than when it turns your life into a soap opera. it's better than wonering 'what if.'
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how do you tell if a 13-14 year old boy likes you? im in 8th grade and there are some guys im not too sure about.. like what hints would they be? thanks :) 14/f (link)
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one common thing is if he asks you this "cheating" question: if i ask you out, would you go out with me? but this almost never happens except in a game of truth or dare. i'm not exactly sure, but i can ask some of my boy friends (no, i don't date multiple guys, they're just boys who are friends) and i can give you a better description.
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16/f with my first bf (he's 15, five months younger than me)
well, he's really REALLY experienced...I mean, this guy's been in relationships for like 10 years lol
well, I'm not into hookups. I'm into a really...passionate relationship. like, very loving.
we've been going out for 23 days.
and he's already grabbing at my crotch and feeling me up.
i mean, i like it and all. it's like fine...whatever.
but when he does sexual things like that, i feel really embarrassed. and he even QUESTIONS me after...like....why did you yell, you didn't like it?
sometimes he slowly forces things on me. like, he went up my shirt and onto my bra, and started touching me there. it's not that it feels uncomfortable..im just afraid he thinks I'm easy and he's using advantage of me. I'm a really shy/sensitive girl...and i'm also nice. so I don't want him to think I'm easy..
we're already makiing out, and I just feel like its too soon to be doing it. and he tells me he loves me ...
and he always tells me that he'd love to make love to me one day, and that he has dreams about giving me oral sex. I feel so awkward. He expects me to promise sexual things in the future..towards him.
I'm scared, really.
But I like him a lot. Its just that I'm not experienced so I don't know how to tell 'bad' guys from good.
Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. I don't want to end up being raped :( (link)
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well, from what you've told me, i'd say he's a player. if he really loved you, he wouldn't be rushing you, especially when you guys are only about 15 and 16 and you've only been going out for 23 days. don't do something you'll regret in the future. what if he carries a disease? if someone's been sexually active, there's a one in four chance that he has at least one and if he doesn't use a condom, the more the likely that you can get it from him.
also, condoms work only about 90% of the time. if i were you, i wouldn't risk it.
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at my shool there is no boys that will talk to me or say hey to me.especially the cute ones which there is rarly any there and all the gys i know are too immature to ask out. so what do i do?? (link)
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well, it's natural for people to think that nobody likes them. it could be your appearance, and most people are too shallow to see that appearance is not the most important thing in the world. i wouldn't worry about it too much, because there's bound to be someone who will eventually like you back.
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okay so theres this guy who used to have a thing with my best friend. but now there just really good friends. then i met him threw her. me and him flirted a lot. talked online for like 5 hours straight almost everyday. just talking about everything. i love talking to him. he kind of has a girlfriend. well they broke up and now there sort of together but they dont call eachother boyfirned & girlfriend. so hes still single. but they have a kind of thing. & hes told me a few times he likes me more then her. if thats true why do you still like her? ugh so confusing. so i went to a party with my best friend that is friends with the boy i like. nd me nd her were jokin and telling everyone we hooked up with a ton of guys. so she told him that and he was mad. for some reason mad? then he told me he was jealous and sad too. i dont understand why he is if he lieks the other girl? ahh im so confused. should i tell him i like him? should i forget it happend? hellp!!! (link)
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i think you should tell him. a boy wouldn't be angry and jealous like that unless if it was a really over-protective brother.
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my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there in a couple months or w/e but i dont know if that would make it go away. that was his first kiss, first gf, and first time going to 2nd! it makes me so angry. he has dated other girls i totally dont care about but she was the one he went to 2nd with and it bothers me sooo much!!!
can anyone please help me? i want to know why i feel this way before i try to get over it. i dont feel inferior and my bf tells me he loves me and what he has done with me means way more than what he did with her. but he liked it-he has that memory with her and always will. i can just picture them making out and him going to 2nd with her and it upsets me so much!!! i am the first one he said i love you to and i know he cares but even when he tells me she didnt mean anything it doesnt matter to me because i am still upset.
he thinks its because i feel like she has something on me and when he and i get there i wont care anymore but i dont know if that will make me feel better or not. for some reason this means a lot to me with our relationship yet he doesnt understand why. he knows im jealous and he knows it was a mistake but i still am upset.
can anyone please help me? just tell me what you think could be it because i am trying to find out myself and i cant figure out why i am so upset and dont want to let go and feel like i cant get past this. thanks soo much!!! :]
oh and he doesnt like her and doesnt talk to her-hes seen her a couple times and told her he just doesnt want to talk to her or anything and hes the one who dumped her (link)
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jealousy is a natural human emotion. even though we may not like it, it's natural. some people are jealous over things like these because they're afraid of the other person going back to their ex because it was their first time and they may have mistaken that for love. you could have a fear of losing him.
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Hey. :]
I'm currently 16 and in the eleventh grade, and Adam is in the same grade as I am, but he's a year older. Both of us are single, as we have been for awhile. I have never liked anyone as much as I like him.
He's perfect. He has a 4.2 GPA, he's gorgeous (and the envy of lots of other girls), he is in the top choir at our school, and he plays varsity baseball. He's the perfect height for me, and our senses of humor mesh so well. We definitely make each other laugh and have a lot of fun together.
On and off, I've liked him since the sixth grade. However, there was like a 3-year block when I didn't even think about him.
He has been sending me mixed signals. For example, when I asked him if he was busy at sunset (I was doing a photo shoot and I wanted him to swing by so I could take some pictures of him.), his response was, "Sadly, yes. :(( What are you doing?" We're talking more and more each day, and I compliment him a lot. He initiates conversation pretty much as much as I do.
His friends aren't my biggest fans, but I am friends with a lot of them. We share some of the same friends.
I don't want to put our friendship on the line by telling him how I feel, but I do kind of want to test the waters.
I just can't differentiate between friend feelings and girlfriend feelings.
Thank you. :]
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he may either be teasing you or he really likes you. but from this, i really don't know. boys can be diffilcult, especially when it comes from things like these. i liked my friend also, but i told him. our friendship didn't change at all, so we remained the same. i don't regret telling him at all, but here's the infameous line: "follow your heart"
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i like my best friend i have for so long. he used to like me. we didnt wana do anything to loose our friendship. but it pretty much is gone. we had a very rough time for a while. but we stuck threw that. if we could stay in a relationship and make it work the breakup wouldnt hurt that bad if were still that close i just am not sure at all what to do... HELP ME PWEEEEEEEESE (link)
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in a relationship, there will be tears, joy, flames of passion burning, a beginning, and endings. when the flame burns out, it may rekindle, but not necessarily in the same way it was once before. if you're willing to make an effort, then try it. love does hurt, but knowing it hurts makes you human.
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i guess i kinda like this girl. im 13 in 7th grade shes 14 in 8th. were in catholic school. im very mature im just the kind of guy she would like but why doesnt she? same music same style. shes so hott she thinks shes ugly. she dresses all gothic and emo. shes the funnest girl youd ever meet but then she ends up so depressed and mad. ive been to great skate and kinda stayed with her once she thinks im hott but she dont like me she likes a dork. shes just soooo cute. she doesnt try and follow everyone like everyother girl at my school. she trys to stand out she tells the robots as she calls them to just fuck off. she does what she wants and it works. she says she only likes this one guy who at the moments i hate to much but i dont even know him they are always with eachother their like their best friends. she loves the same music i like and more. she plays electric guitar. loves photography and is so good as im told. she sings so good. her favorite bands are marilyn manson and evanescence. she loves partying. i doubt she even knows i know all this about her. i doubt she knows my name. she says im a player tho. i have a girlfriend but i still like her and she said she never wasted her time. shes just the girl of my dreams but this years almost over and she might move shes goin to highschool maybe down to mexico. i just dont know what to do!!! just please help me!
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well, this is a common thing for people to get into. i'd say tell her before you regret it. if you don't tell her, then you might end up spending the rest of your life wondering "what if?" i can tell you something that happened to a romantic couple i know, but i don't want to bore you. to be frank, tell her and you won't have regrets. if it works out, i say congradulations to you
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