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so..i still kinda like my ex and i kno he still likes me..but i have a bf now..nd i rele luv him alot..but im torn in half i guess between them..have any suggestions? (link)
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I went through this a few months back. I decided to stick with my new boyfriend, but ended up regretting it. I learned that my ex liked me again, and he was the one i ended up liking more, but he ended up completely forgetting me because of my new boyfriend. When me and my new guy started going out, i explained to him that I still had feelings for the first guy, which was a good thing I think. But if you aren't quite sure what one you like more, I would break up with your new boyfriend. I hate sayinig that, but it isn't fair to you or the relationship if both people in it dont love just the other person. I learned that the hard way, and stayed with the second guy and was unhappy for 2 months. However, maybe your situation is different, dont stay with the one that you can live with, wait for the one that you can't live without. Follow your heart and go for the one that you love more. I really hope that I helped! I.M. me if you need anything!!
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MY ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he said he wanted to be alone and needed to "grow up" some. I understand but he wants to be friends, he left me with this and said that he wasnt in any attempt to get my hopes up that he meant this " you are my first love and i want you to be my last" How would you interpret it? (link)
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I would take it as a major compliment! Although he may need to take his time to "grow-up" he is doing something very smart by wanting to continue your relationship, even if it is only as friends for a while. And by saying that "you are my first love and i want you to be my last" he probably means that as long as you two stay in touch, when his alone time is over, he will come back to you. This is a mature step in the relationship I think and I really hope that things work out. Hope I helped! Just keep smiling and if it is meant to be, it will happen!
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ok my step bro (hoo i reallllllllllllly like) os going to camp for two months and i will miss him so much what do i do to stop thinking about him (link)
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Well, do things to keep your mind off of him. Like normal stuff, hang out with friends, go to the movies, go to the mall, play sports, do whatever you like. But just because you will miss him, doesnt mean that you shouldn't think about him too! Ask him to write you a letter or something before he goes away and everything you miss him, read the letter and know that he wants you to be having fun, even though he isnt there. Really hope i helped!
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My friend (when i say friend im really talking about my friend not myself) but anyway she had a bf then he dumped herr and other day he likes her again and the next he hates her...shes going out with a guy that she doesnt love as much as she loves her ex...and does anyone know how to help her?
thanks and much lovee (link)
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I think that you as her friend should step up and explain to her that she shouldn't be with the one that she can live with, but the one that she can't live without. It isn't fair to eather person in their relationship if both people dont feel the same way about each other. If she likes someone more than her new boyfriend, it will tear her apart and he will end up getting attatched to someone who doesn't feel the way he does about her. So, the best thing to do is to explain this to her. I really hope i helped!
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my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
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Nope, i'm sure he's just a great guy. And if he has alot of girls as friends, he probably knows how to treat girls right. This happened at my school, and i happen to be friends with the guy. It's completly fine.
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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
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If you really love her and think that the relationship can continue I would call and let her know that you care about her and want to be there for her. Make sure she konws that you are always here to talk and do whatyou can to brighten her day. Sometimes when things go wrong girls clam up and push everyone away. And she may be afraid to love you because someone else that she was close to she lost. But If you think that things can work and you really truly like her, i would wait. Let her get settled into her family situation and just stand by her. If things are meant to be, they will happen. Hope i helped!
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hi/ i am 16 years old girl and never had a bofriend, is that a bad thing, first there was a boy and he said that he like me, but the very week we met he move out of my school, so we became talking on the phone, and he said that i was his girlfriend, but we never wet on a date or kiss, that very week he ask me out to watch movie, but my dad didnt allowed me to go, i lied to him that i have to babysit my brother, he said ok another time we could go, but he never ask me out again and we were talking, but we never saw eachother. one night he told me that we should be friends that his ex want him back, from then he never called me, he just disappear, since then no boy has ask me out or something like that, i have never been kiss or do anything sexuall in my life, am just asking is that normal or am i gay or maybe i havnt find the right person. Please i need ur help
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This is completely normal. As much as it doesnt seem true, more than half of all high schoolers have never been on a date or been kissed. It just means that the right guy hasn't come around yet. When he does, you'll know. Don't think that this is a bad thing. Hopefully the first guy was worth the wait. Just follow your heart! Hope i helped!
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ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ? (link)
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One reason you probably feel this way is because it is a scarry thing. Also, the older you get, the more you realize that you are getting closer to the time to find the one you may spend your life with. Also, it may be because you have gotten your heart broken and are afraid that it may happen again, and unfortunately, it probably will. Love is a great feeling though, so don't push it away. And as scary of a thing that it is, it is also one of the best feelings in the world. Hope i Helped!
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i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
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I was in this situation recently. He was the guy that i would have done anything to be wtih and thought that he was the one. However, he told me that i was no longer what he wanted. and i was crushed. Not to bring you down, but it took me around 5 months to fully get over him. I found that it helps alot to coninue to know that it is his loss. And if he would act this way towards you, he obviously doesn't diserve to be wtih you. Listen to encouraging songs and talk to your friends. They help so much and mine pretty much got me through the whole thing. Also, don't be afraid to date otehr guys. Be open minded about this and look at it as a way to improve life. If it is meant to be, he will realize what he lost and come back. I hope i helped!
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