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Hi im nick. Im a pyro but that doesnt mean i cant give advice. I know a lot about baseball if u have a sports question. I have had friends come up to me and ask me if i can help them with relationship problems adn other things bothering them. I am experianced at givng advice adn will help the best i can. Pyros can give advice 2.

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ok..so this guy rele loves me, but i dont love him, what should i do? He really hurts me when he tells me that he's sad that i dont like him and that i like someone else..i hate to make him unhappy. should i ignore him....go out with him even tho i dont want to, or just act normal? i dont know what to do. its crushing me. i feel the need to just block him and get on with my life,but i can't do that to him..can i? well..tell me if you can help..cuz i need it

this is happening to me right now execpt im the boy. I love a girl but she doesn't love me. Dont just just ignore him it hurts way to much. Just tell him that you don't love. Just tell him that you could just be friends. (if you do want to be friends). You just have to tell him that you can only be friends. Tell him that it hurts you when he tells you that hes sad. If he realy does love you he wont want to make you sad. If you tell him that he should stop if he realy loves you. If he realy loves you he will do anything to make you happy. If you block him it will just crush him. And if you just go out with him then your not happy. So just tell him you want to just be friends (if you do want to be friends) and tell him that it hurts you when he says hes sad.

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I have a little sister..and she thinks she's in love. Everytime she gets a new crush, she goes "goo-goo-ga-ga" over him..and then he breaks her heart, and she goes crying to me. She then states how much she loves him even though she only went out with him for a week! She cries and she cries about how much she loves this boy..until she finds another crush another week later! She then states that she is in love with this new boy! She's not just saying it..She actually means it. She really thinks she's in love..and she's only 11!!! It's so frustrating and annoying because when I tell her she's not in love---she gets soo mad. What should I do? This act is getting annoying..she's not in love.
PS she once "loved" a guy she never met over the internet.

tell her that if your 11 you dont no wat love is. Tell her that she cant love 13 people. Tell her theres a difference between a crush and being in love. Tell her to listen just once then u wont bother her any more. and she should grow out of it in time. But i understand how annoynig it can be.

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so i am dating this guy and he just got out of rehab and we dated a month in the summer then broke up and thats when he want to rehab well hes back and me and him have hooked up again well he was doing good and not using drugs but last wednesday he relapsed which means he went back to using...well he had a bad trip and had to go to the hosiptal and then he was put on house arrest well monday he had court to see if he had to go back to rehab or juvie..well i called and his dad said he won't be home until next monday which means he is rehab or juvie...and i dont know if i should stay with him? alot happend this summer with me and him i got pregant with his kid but i miscarried and we've been through alot together so should i stay with him? PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP! thanks * aleah*

the answer it if u rele love him or not. if he stays off drugs stay with him. But if he starts up again then there is no reason to stay with him. I think you should stay with him for a while and then see how it works out.

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I'm in sixth grade and I have a boyfriend. All of my freinds have held their boyfriends hands and I haven't! I haven't had a boyfriend since 4th grade and I'm scared 2 hold his hand! Should I just do it or wait for him 2 hold my hand or neither?

first of all this is your first bf ever. You see 4th grade isnt a bf its a boy you have a crush on. Next crab his hand. and wat the hell are all this kids in 6th grade having bf and gf. again grab his hand your bf and gf just grab it. Or else its not a real relationship.

Aim, PyroManiac788

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i am 14 i really like this boy and i think he likes me too. Yet he has a girlfreind .i think he really likes me though we always make eye contacts and he treats me like a boy who really likes a gurl sometimes i wonder that maybe he went out with the gurl so he can get rid of all the gurls who are all up on him and save the best for last. But i see him but he never answers my emails i'm to nervouse to call him . Now his brother also seems like he likes me as well . What do you think what can i do.

he wants u to be jealous. Thats what use boys do. Go for it and how old is his brother. but thats not the important part. Talk to him. He likes u. dont think he likes this girl more. Its just a way to get you to talk to him.

AIM Linuz12 adn PyroManiac788

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ive been "talking" with a kid for 6 months now.
Talking is when your not going out but your "about to" and you both like eachother & know it
well im still liek nervous around him and idk were so different but i think thats what makes it good uk...well i guess what im wondering is should i wait around for him? dont tell me "if i think its worth the wait" because i wouldnt be here if that was the case idk hes 17 im 15 and yeah. leave your AIM sn so we can talk more and i can give details if you want.

ask him just go for it don just jump into asking him out but just more a conversation itno the topic. dont wait. My friend did and she was taken in a second. So he could be taken fast also. Tell him how much u like him.

AIM Linuz12 and PyroManiac788

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okay so ive liked this guy for a loooong time, and well his friends always joke and say "stop flirting with your girlfriend" and "okay we're here to play basketball not flirt with brittany!" and i want to know if they are just teasing or theres some truth beneath all that.. how can i get him to honestly tell me if he likes me without throwing myself out there and seeming all desperate? please help

there just joking if he looks embarassed than he likes you. just ask him casually if he realy likes you. thats what i would want my gf to do.

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you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend

me being dumped before (like 3 times by the same person) i think that that is a good way to break up im friends with my ex.

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I've been dating this guy on and off since I've known him.We're best friends and spend all of our time together.

I love him ver much. He loves me too, and cares about me just as much as I care about him.

He lost his job in December because of a car wreck. Since then, I've been going out of my way to help him with just about everything. I buy him cigarettes,gas, beer and food. I've taken him to concerts, free of charge. I'm going to give him my drum set because he likes to play it and wants to really get good at the drums. I make him mixed cds. I e-mail him when he's down to help him cheer up. I buy him awesome Christmas and birthday presents. And actually, I really don't mind doing this for him. I love him and I want him to be happy.

The problem: He says "Thank you", but that's it. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. And I just found out that he sent a girl that he used to date an E-card because he hasn't talked to her in a long time. Okay, so maybe that shouldn't really matter, but it does because all I want is to know that I matter to him. That's all. He'll go out of his way to do something for her and he hasn't seen her in about a year. I want him to appreciate me and want me around. He usually doesn't even call; I call him.

Should I talk to him about it?
Should I just stop being upset and forget it?
How can I make him see all that I do for him and make him appreciate me?

Please help me. I'll rate high.

Talk to him and tell him that you did all this because you care about him and you want to no why he wont do anything more than thank you. Also i think he is talking to his ex becasue hes sad. He wants a lot of comfort.

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Ok well somedays ago i went to this party.....my best friend was there but his g/f wasnt......so he was flirting and doin all that shit with this other girl.....his g/f found out and they broke up.....so we started talkin and she said she was likin me more and more everyday and would consider goin out with me sometime.....well a minute later her "boyfriend" called and siad he wants to get back together with her and he lied to her just so they could get back together.....so she pretty much abandoned me. but she did say "I really do like you maybe as just a friend but you mean a lot to me" I need help!!! (will rate 5's for any)

This has happened to my friend before he broke up but she came back. Theve broken up adn come back a lot. But your friend is probably like mine he stills "loves" her but he also realy likes another girl the thing is love is a little more important. First u should tell her that he lied. I would im i had a gf that didn't no some1 lied. Also he will break her heart if he's just like u said he was be her crying shoulder when he does. Be there for her. And just be a good close friend till then.

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I'm breaking up with my boyfriend. This is seriously going to be so hard for me to do because I completely adore this boy, but I can't see our relationship going anywhere because now I realize I can only see him as a friend. He's just not boyfriend material which sounds shallow but I don't think he's right for me or I'm right for him. I've been going out wiht him for a month an a half and he's been so sweet. Like, treating me like a princess but I just don't feel attracted to him anymore and I've given it time but everytime I see him, I wish he was just my friend and not my boyfriend. I'm going to break up with him soon. What should I say? What should I avoid saying?

im taking a risk saying this my ex-gf sadi the same thing to me so i was in your bf's position i took it well but were still good friends i want to kill some 1 (not literally but kick his ass) but were still friends. Just say we dont fit together as bf & gf and tell him u still want to be friends

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ok welllll....do guys findd it weird when girls play video games? or is it cool? and do guys like it when girls are girly but still "boyey"?

P.S. boyey is not a real word..i just made it up...fyi

It depends how much u play is it alot or wat. But i say also is it a boy that likes video games or outdoor games. If i had a gf that played video games way to much thats to weird i like baseball to much adn i wuld break up but just a little than its fine i also like baseball on ps2 and foot ball.

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hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks

Well i say a little ways is good a litttle more than a little way is ok for 14 do wat u feel comfortable with. I made out when i was 13, 14 cant be to young. If you get a bf your realy comfortable with than go until your not comfortable. Its your choice hope i helped

Pyro Maniac

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