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there's this boy i like but im shy and he's shy so wat to do? (link)
Start by saying "Hi insertnamehere" when you pass him slowly in the halls in a friendly way and see if you can take it to casual chat.


I fall asleep and i dream of the most hotties men, you could imagin of what i do with them :D
But i wake up and think of my best friend who is a women. Why?
i want to have sex with a man, i want them to hold me, i want to make out with men and i love it when men look at me.
But why do i worry about my friend June? I care about her, want to hold her, and when she leans on me i want to cuddle with her.
I know i became bi
but she is the only women that i only has eyes for.i dont look at other women in a sexual way, i compear myself with them.
i dont get it?
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so you're bi. sometimes it just takes a certain person. some people will stand out to you, just like with guys.

make sure you're not forcing anything on her, though. try talking about related issues and seeing how she reacts.


okay i was just wondering are two people with the same sign not meant to be together or is it more likely for them to be together? (link)
que ser-a ser-a. what will be will be.

zodiac is a GUIDE and not concrete. it's not about fate, it's about how it works out.


Few things actually.

1) Do you think it's possible to find true love online?
2) Do you think its a good thing, or a bad thing?

ANYWAYS:
I met this guy (online) and we became really close, he became really passionate about me and I to him. But over the past week those feelings began to fade for me and I told him. I feel really bad, he's amazing and he has a heart of gold but I think he deserves someone he can be with physically. I know he's hurt, and I feel really really bad. What should I do? (link)
online = serious lack of intimacy that you get irl. you can think you know all about a person but know nothing. when you talk irl it provides time/quick conversations in which you can learn a lot of different things.

I do not believe in true love online at all.

eharmony and match.com are just artificial. Nothing beats reality.


Hello Everyone. I apologize if it may seem a little long but can someone PLEASE help me. Okay.

My boyfriend and I have been talking for a long time and we finally made it official this week. Our feelings for each other grew and grew but I parcrastinated because I wanted to see what was going to happen. He's EVERYTHING that I want and need. He calls me his princess. Last night we shared a few hours together and they were wonderful. As he was holding me, he started to cry, saying that I have really changed him for the good( I have). He said how he thanked God for me(this boy never talked about religion). He just was broken down that I am giving him a chance. He really means a lot to me and I know that it maybe to early to tell, but I think that I love him. He's always there for me, even when I have to wake up 5 in the morning, when I need something, he'll get it. He does everything to keep me happy. I appreciate him and I'm known for being a bit of a flirt but I have truly calmed down for his sake. Can It really be love? (link)
Love is in the eye of the beholder. It sounds very legitimate to me if you can rely on eachother. Just see how it goes. oh, and make sure he's not trying to purely get into your pants. it doesn't seem like he is, but it's always a nice precaution.


Is it sad that I am 16 and never had a boyfriend? I feel stupid walking through the halls seeing all the couples and knowing that I have yet to experience that. Please let me know if I'm pathetic. (link)
NO! NO! You aren't. It's completely normal. Look harder- there ARE OTHER SINGLES OUT THERE! Just let things happen as they come along- don't look too hard.

I had the same problem for a while. Really, it's ok.


My story is pretty confusing and sad for me.
Well i would like to say alot of the guys at my school hate me, I dont know why but they do.
One of them, I had sex with.
He sure acted like he didnt hate me back then and then school started and he became an asshole again.
I still liked him, no matter how much of an ass he was to me.
Then after a while, he started randomly being nice to me and talking to me a little bit.
That lasted a whole week, and then he went back to being mean.
Again he tried being nice and then went back to making fun of me and calling me ugly,fat,,bitch,gross,etc.
It made me so sad because i like him so much.
Then his best friend told me , he actually likes me but he wants me to think he hates me and he tries to act mean to me , to be like everyone else.
His friend said not to believe anything he says,just know he likes me and his girlfriend [he has a girlfriend ] alot.
I want to get over him so bad, but at the same time how do I know if his best friend is telling the truth?
I believe it , Because he wouldnt lie.
But if he liked me, how can he be so mean to me?
Lately Ive been noticing hes being twice as mean as he was.
This just makes me so sad,I cant get over him because ive liked him for so long.
What exactly should i do?
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If he's nice, he's probably just trying to get in your pants. All you can really do is try to get over this freak.


can anyone tell me any good makeout songs for lesbian couples? pref by female artists?

10 q

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WOOT.

Kiss Me by Sixpence None The Richer..

There's A Girl - The Ditty Bops

can't think of any others


i really want to do more then just kiss my girl friend but im 15 so i dont think its right but kissing it getting boring! help please. (link)
Don't do more. You're 15, for crissakes! Don't leave her with emotional problems to deal with because she had sex at 15. Just WAIT!


hey i was wondering
do guys like girls who are loud, or quiet?

Girls who are girly, or tomboyish?

Who wear clothes from abercrombie, or sporty stuff?

Girls who have blue, green or brown eyes?

and girls that have red, blond or brown hair?

oh and do guys think that freckles are cute? or ugly????

thanks in advance!!!!!! (link)
it all varies on the kind of guy you want. who are you aiming to get? remember to be yourself, though. there's a fine, fine line between personality dialysis and trying to hook in a guy.

Just as girls are into all kinds of different guys, guys are into all kinds of different girls.


Ok, my boyfriend and I dont live close to each other, and we dont go to the same school, so we can only hang out, for the most part, on weekends. He is 15, and I am 14, and of course our parents wont let us go anywhere out just the two of us. And he doenst want to go to teh mall and the movies, because that is all we have done so far. And we usually go out with two other people, but we need ideas on things we can do, if the 'group' part, cant make it. SO I guess my question is: what are things we can do? His mom approved me coming over his house, but thats in te afternoon, and we are not sure what we should do. And I really want to spend time with him. HeLP!!! I need lots of Ideas....please respond (link)
anything but sex. because you're way too young.

I like taking people out on hikes or walks. You can stop in places spontaneously and you don't have any goals.


so my boyfriends bday is next week. he'll be 17 and weve been together for about 7 months yay. anyway i was wonderin if besides his present if i also got a thank you card n gave it to his mom and inside where it says thank you or whatever put "for having such a wonderful son" or something along those lines. would that be cute or just weird lol? (link)
I think that's sorta weird because it's not a holiday for his mom, but not overly weird.


22/f

Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
Does he know how old you are? A good guy, if you look young, will ask you for your age. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't care.

That can mean that he's a creep... be VERY careful and VERY skeptical.




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