Hi, im jessica and im 16 years old i currently attend Trenton Catholic ACademy in Hamilton NJ i have plenty of friends and i love them all to death, especially my boyfriend his name is Quaashie..he's a day older than me isnt that crazy...i've been through alot in my life, i've done somethings i regret like cutting myself and letting people take advantage of me. I've learned that i have a reason to be here and im in search for it, i believe i do have a person and God is going to show me one way.
E-mail: spongebobmamicita17@yahoo.com
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Location: Trenton NJ
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Age: 16
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Ok. I have this kid in my class his name is david but we all call him "Dee" anyway hes always putts me down. He always trying to inbarace me infront of my hole class. And when I say Dee shut up, and he'll say "what you going to doo about it" and I say nothing back cause hes native and that is the only reason i dont say anything about it, cause hes a punk B*tch. So I need some comebacks hes always telling me to shut up, and that I talk to much. Ill say anything I dont care about my teachers and what they have to say so I need things to throw back at him. Thanks :] (link)
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lets see...
shut ya ugly ass up
and if he asks wat u gonna do about it....say ima punch you right in ya goddamn face bitch
if he's kinda chubby just say sit ya fat ass down or something jus say anything girl..just dont get in trouble..hope i helped
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I'm biratial. My mon is black and my dad is white, and I have really curly hair naturally, but I also have a perm. I use oil in my hair so it won't be all frizzy, but it leaves my hair really greasy. I was wondering if anyone knew of any hair products that would work on curly hair to make it less frizzy that dosn't leave my hair oily. (link)
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I have really curly hair too, i usually use frizz ease or biosilk they are both good.
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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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I used to be the same way, always bored and i never knew what to do, so i relied on people, they always told me to back off, or why do you follow me so much. WHat i did, was i did back off. I just acted my regular self. You do have a life all you need to do is make use of it. Don't be afraid to go up to people and ask them how they are doing just have a regualr conversation with them. Go out, like to the movies to the mall do something fun with your friends and you'll see in return the people who said get a life will start to notice you more. All you got to do is be yourself.! i really hoped i help and if you have any questions or comments you know where to find me.
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i need help !!
ok i have green eyes and blck eyeliner doesnt look very good (it makes me look kinda goth cuz of my eyes) what color should i use that would look the best for my eyes ?? plz help !! (link)
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you could also use white eye liner it would make your eyes look beautiful to and open them up. or just a nice choclate brown
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Does anyone know any songs that say, "i want to get over you, but i can't," without saying that straight up? (link)
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Torn~by Letoya Luckett
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ok this guy likes one of my friends and he won't ask her out can someone please give me some tips to give to him? (link)
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just tell him that if he doesn't ask her out some one else will come and snatch her so he better be quick,if he's shy he's gonna have to do it sooner or later...say if he really likes her he should just try it dont be hesitant, and if she says no theres other girls
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13/f.
Warning: Very long.
In school I play it cool, when I'm by my family I'm neutral, but when I'm by myself or talking with my boyfriend I completely loose it. My entire family has a long line of deep depression for the females on my mom's side. All of my family members take anti-depressents. My mom, my aunt, grandmother, cousins, my great-grandmother used to take them before she died. She was crazier than anyone could ever imagine - she'd spent five years in a mental institution. I my self have been in one for exactly 8 days before they released me because, just like I do in school and in front of my family, I play it like nothing's wrong.
I've begun to continually cut myself. I know I need to quit. Half of me wants to quit, because I know it's what's right, but the other half loves it too much to get rid of it. It's like I've become a dependant on it - or on my boyfriend, also. When I'm constantly talking to him, I'm perfect. Happy as happy can be, but the second he has to go to deal with his own life I fall apart. I need to depend on myself to make me happy, but I can't seem to find the strength too. I don't want to. I want to depend on someone or something. But I can't; I need to find a solution.
I've been diagnosed with clinical depression and have tried just about every anti-depressent out there or all different doses - none have ever worked for me. I currently take 30 miligrams of the generic brand of Prozac, along with Adderall for my ADD and Seraquil for my acclaimed "bipolar" disorder I've also been diagnosed with - even though I don't have mood swings. The only different moods I have are mask neutral and depressed.
I've tried overdosing in an attempt to kill myself three times. I've tried shooting myself twice, and I've tried countless of times to kill myself by means of slicing any main vains - I want help, I need help, but I can't get it from the "professionals" because all they'll do is stuff me in a white jacket and into a room with squishy walls. I don't want that. I want help. Actual help, but I don't know how to get it. I'm just so overwhelmed. I want to be able to get on with my life. I want to be able to be a kid while I still have the chance, to be able to laugh with my friends and have it not be fake. I want to be able to act stupid and mess up while it still doesn't matter.
I'm not sure exactly what my question is, except for a cry for help. (link)
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life isnt going to be easy you know its going to throw some ugly things at you that you just cant handle, but you have to face them and hope that you get through it. i would really want you to e-mail me so we can do this privately and i want to tell you alot of stuff but i dnt think you'd feel comfortable talking about it. i really hope you take it into consideration, i really do want to help you. if you want e-mail me at spongebobmamicita17@yahoo.com or on myspace im known as ♥Will You Be My Valentine♥
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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you. (link)
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poeple come here because they cant tell anyone these types of things, if they feel comfortablee asking random people their advice than that is their choosing no elses. I find it unbelievable how some of these teens write, and how much their advice helped me but others as well. It may not pertain to you, but others. They are just here to ask, learn, and get some comfort. Who are you to tell them otherwise. That is how they feel, this is what they want.
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okayy i was looking for a one piece for gym class, even though i wear bikini's idk wearing one to gym isnt that comfortable. does anyone know where they sell cut out one pieces??
http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/MCY/products/9/optimized/204709_fpx.tif?bgc=255,255,255&wid=273&qlt=90,0&layer=comp&op_sharpen=0&resMode=bicub&op_usm=0.7,1.0,0.5,0&fmt=jpeg
that's an example. that one is from macys but they dont sell it anymore. do you think thats cute for a one piece?? or should i just stop being shy and stick with my 2??
thanks!! (link)
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you should stick with the two piece. You should feel comfortable with your body, so girl show it off. lol
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I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
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one thing that you need to learn, is that every man is different and they always want something from you. its important that you save it till you meet the right guy because that will be the person who will stick by your side and never will he use you for anything. you dont need to worry about him any more if he wants to treat you the way he did and use you twice dont bother with him because thats not a true friend. its not your fault that you liked him, its the fact that he had something with you and decided to push you away after that, he just doesnt know that he's gonna miss out on someone as good as you. so i say since he treated you like that you treat him like that, give him the cold shoulder and see how he likes it. i hope you can put the past in the past and move on towards the future.
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