Hey everyone! My names Nikki and I'm 14. I made this site to help everyone with there problems because i've been known to give good advice at my school! I wanna be a psychiatrist when im older to help people with there problems so hopefully this can be the 1st step to accomplish that!
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Location: Clearwater, FL
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months and we have never had a fight. my friend say this is a bad thing. should i be worried? (link)
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Well 1st off im going to tell you congrats! Thats a really good thing because that mean you have a healthy relationship! Do you guys ever do things to bother each other though? if so then you should talk it over but otherwise that show you guys have a good relationship :]
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Okay.
So me and this guy, we'll call him john.
me and john dated on and off for almost 3 full years.
i actually felt that i loved him, and i felt love FROM him. to make things short, he cheated on me, i took him back, like and idiot, and things just didnt work out.
we're still friends, but no matter how hard i try, i can't let go of the feelings i have for him. like i just can't stop loving him.
he has hurt me , yeah, but more times than not, he was an amazing boyfriend.
i can't get over him, and i want to, desperately, and i know i need to.
any suggestions on how i can without being depressed about it?
thanks (link)
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Okay no iffense to the one below me but i was in the same situation at one time so i went for another guy and that made things worse! because then i was all protective and scared he was gonna cheat on me and he did the whole you can trust me thing and ended up cheating on me! So what I suggest you to do is lay low and be single for awhile and hangout with your friends to get your mind off things. the more your not doing stuff the more you'll think about him! But dont stop being his friend of course!
Nikki :]
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In English yesterday, everyone was walking around talking because it was the last day of school before break. I jokingly told one of my friends I'd like to go give him a hug, and, long story short, before too long all the girls in the class were in on this. Everyone told me 'do it, do it' so I finally walked up and asked 'hey, could I get a hug?' He said yes, to my surprise, and gave me a really nice hug. =)
My question is, what can I do from here? I'm sure he probably picked up somewhere that I like him, but I'm not positive. Should I ask him to hang out over break? He lives right by me, and I see him around sometimes. So what can I do? (link)
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yeah i say deff hangout with him! If he gave you a nice hug than maybe he's interested in you alittle! I would try to get to know him and if he's interested i would go for it! good luck!
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Alright... so my boyfriend and I have been have been having intercourse for like 4 months now. I was his first ever. The first time we did it, he didn't come. Isn't that unusual for a first time guy?! And lately when we do it, he is hard when he goes in, and then he gets soft inside of me and he cant get it back up. And I feel nothing really... no pleasure at all. What does that mean? Another thing that is bugging me is when I want to please him (orally) because i want to please him, he usually stops me and says that he is happy just being with me and he says he doesn't need for me to finish him. Honestly, what guy would not want that?! He is always giving and not receiving (even though i want to give). I was just asking if there are any really good tips you know that would arouse him, or make him have greater interest in doing it. Both of my issues that I am having are confusing and I have no idea what the problem is! Please help!! (link)
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Well I'm still a vigin but one of my good friends is a sex machine so I may have a few tips for you..okay well 1st of if he doesnt let you give him oral..try making him hard in a different way..maybe like kissing his neck and all those little things and then when he's inside of you try to keep turing him on so he stays hard and then he might see how its pleasuing him..so yah i'm not an expert but that just might work..and if it doesnt than maybe talk to him because maybe he's not comfortable. Good luck!
-Nikki
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OK... so I just decided to be bi. And me and my best firend( who is straight) always make out. And i think i might have a crush on her but i dont know what to do because shes straight. (link)
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Yeah I def know what you mean because I've been in that situation to...My best friend is bi and sometimes I feel like I have different feeling for her than just friends but I dont know and dont mention it to her because I dont know what to say...but maybe just talk to her or see how things go because maybe shes bi to?
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see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not (link)
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Woah this is alittle wierd..and i'm glad you dont wanna be with his dad! Just maybe hang out with your ex and his dad and show your ex how you enjoy some of the stuff his dad does and maybe he'll start doing some of those things..also try telling your ex the things you dont like about him that bother the shit out of you! that will change some stuff :] good luck!
-Nikki
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(sorry,not sure if this is right catagory!)
Me and my bf have been going out since December 5th, but we are planning on making it last. I want to give him something special that he'll actually like and not like shove in his closet.
(I am in addition baking him choc. chip cookies)
I'm 14 and he's 15 if it helps
Does anyone have any good present ideas?
Money doesnt matter, but i want it to be reasonable. (link)
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Well think of things he likes..does he like music? get him a cute cd with maybe a bear saying I love you or Merry Christmas on it..or how about a watch because guys love watches! lol or you could always take him shopping and see what he likes and get it when he's not around because thats what i did with my bf so good luck!
-Nikki
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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Well I definantly say give it a shot! But the only thing is you need to learn to say no. First off make sure you let him know that you dont do that stuff and if he cant accept you for not doing them than he's not worth it. if he doesnt care than thats good! and that means that he probably wont pressure you into doing the things but if he does MAKE SURE YOU SAY NO and if he cant accept you for saying no than i'd break it off. oh and make sure you dont tell your parents he does that think because then things get bad. lol good luck!
-Nikki
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hey well i have known this guy all my life. we were really good friends untill we got defferint classes. i prob havent talked to him in about 2 year. Are school is small only about 100 in high & middle 2gether.Both of are parents work at the school so i see him alot. How do i get him to notice me and how do i know if he likes me.
p.s. he use to like me (link)
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Well he probably still doesnt like you as much since its been 2 years since you guys have talked BUT dont get your hopes up! if you see each other all the time why dont you talk to him? SO WHAT YOU DONT HAVE ANY CLASSES TOGETHER! you should still talk and what not. GOOD LUCK!
-Nikki
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Hi. I got this lil problem i can’t stop thinking about. one nite I was at this party. I hooked up with this girl I went back to her place and I said to her this is my first time with a girl she goes that’s all right. But me or she did not have a condom lol so we did not have sex. so I stayed over her house for the nite her lil sis came in the room and saw us so I snuck out of the house and I heard a lil story around town saying I got chased form her dad but thats all shit.. now its my brothers 21st party in 2weeks and my family is going to be there and if I see her lil sis at the party I no she will say ha ha you got chased form my dad and I do not no what to do......and I do not no what to do if I see that girl I hooked up with (link)
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Well 1st of all its your brothers 21st birthday! dont let something like that make the party ruined for you! and if you did see her little sister and she says something to you be like so? and walk away! shes a girl what do you expect? lol and if you see the girl and you still like her go talk to her i mean it may be akward at 1st but who cares what other people think! good luck!
-Nikki
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Ok I've liked this guy for quite some time now maybe 3 months or something like that since the beggining of the school year. Hes my twin brothers friend so thats how I met him. Well I didnt think he even noticed me at all intell today. Ok so the principle called me and my friend up to the office before school started and i was standing right next to him and my friend and the principle said my name wrong and he was like um no isnt it pronounced and then he said my name right. and i didnt even know he knew my name what does this mean? and what should i do anything will help thanx! (link)
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Well I think you should personally talk to your brother about it and see how the guy is/what he likes. If he likes sports i would go up to him and talk about that or just simply flirt with him. Make sure you start out slow because you dont want to freak him out. But i could be wrong and he could already like you! Just see how things go. Also is you name hard to pronounce?
-Nikki
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