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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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ok i've been goin out with this guy for about three weeks now. but i swear to god i am the shyest person ever. basically, i rarely talk to him and he doest really talk to me either.i really do like him and he does me but i just cant seem to talk to him my friends got him to come over by me at a track meet and we talked a little but mainly i was lookin at my friend.so idk what to do. any advice at all will be greatly appreciated!!! thankx

yeah a lot of people have that problem when they first start to go out. I think you just shouldnt be afraid to talk to your own boyfriend. I know it might be hard but you just gatta do it! lol it will take some time, but eventually you will get the hang of it! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

P.S. just talk to him about some sports that he likes, or what he is doing this weekend and see if you guys can hang out so you will have more things to talk about!

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i just broke up with my bf because i noticed i really did like him anymore and i liked this other guy alot more. but then i thought i got over my bf from last year but then he all of a sudden he came on last night and we talked for 2 hours, and it seems like he still likes me. but i get the same feeling inside whenever i talk to or see either of them, you know when your stomach drops and you cant stop thinking about them. So i dont know what to do! can i like both guys? should i say anything to either one of them? have my friends hint to both of them i like them?!!? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! please help. thanx in advance

I think that you feel in a way guilty for dumping the guy, and that you like the bf from last year, and feel bad about it. I think that you shouldnt get mad at yourself over liking him because you cant help your feelings for a guy. [I know the feeling I like someone too right now :=)] I think that your friends should definitly give him a hint that you like him, because he might have the same feeling in his stomach as you do for him. I hope I helped! ♥ Andie

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~13/g~ok i really like this kid at my school and I wanna go out with him and stuff but idk if he likes me back?! he flirts with me and stuff and always smiles at me and purposely bumps into me during class and in the hallway and stuff! I really like him but i dont know what to do!?

I think he likes you or just likes to be a big flirt, FLIRT BACK WOMEN! lol maybe within the next couple of days/week he might ask you out! you never know! ask some of his closer friends to see if he likes you! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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I really like this one kid. But sometimes he acts like a total ass and doesnt even act like he likes me. And then other times he tells me he loves me, and i have been waiting for him to ask me out, but he hasnt. Why is he being like this?

One basic fact: Guys are just going to be guys. Dont worry about him so much let him take time to think about when he will ask you out dont worry about it so much. ♥Andie

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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out

Lucy

I think you should talk to him about it. If you aren't comfortable with it then you should tell him the truth. ♥Andie

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ok so i went on holiday to ireland last summer (i was 12, now 13) i met this boy he was really funny and i think he liked me to, he kept coming up to me and talking to me. the only thing is that he was 16 but it was as if it didn't matter. when i was leaving i was saying goodbye to my family and he said that he thinks he'll be coming back nxt summer. i dont no what he actually thought of me but all i no is that i couldnt stop thinking of him. what should i do?

I think that if you go next summer you should go too! you could see him again! age doesnt mater as long as it isnt illigel or if he isnt too old! lol If he is a nice guy see if you can contact him again while your there! I hope I helped! good luck! ♥Andie

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Hi, I have this really good friend and her and her boyfriend broke up. her ex now likes me and I really like him too, and i don't watn to hurt her! I would want to go out iwth him but idk what to do plesase help!!!

I think you should talk to her about it. Your best friend might still have feelings for him and she just hasnt told you yet, or anyone. If she says that you can then GO FOR IT!! lol I hope things turn out great! ♥Andie

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m\12:::hi i have a friend named patricia and me and her r really good friends and stuff and have been for about a 1/2 yr.and now i think i like like her...she nos and has rejected me and i cant stop thinking about her! its annoying and irratating!so if you have ne ideas of what kinda of things girls think r romantic...i would appreciate it! i r8 hi!!!

Well I think that if if she has said no numerous of times I think that you should ask her out again because most likly she is ganna keep saying no. But if you want to keep asking her I think you should just go to a movie with her "just as friends" nothing more and take her out for ice cream or something. I think that you should have something creative though like send roses to her house(this might sound stupid..) and have them put one fake rose in it and have it say "I Will Love You Till The Last Rose Dies.." or something like that. I hope I helped and good luck! =) ♥Andie

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Hey guys, our Sadie Hawkin's dance is coming up, and I want a creative way to ask my guy. We're dating, and I don't really have to ask him, I just kinda want to. Lol. Some ideas have been:
Balloons
Puzzle
Cake (but that won't work because I can't bake...)
Um...I think that's all my friends have thought of. If you guys think one of these ideas is great, tell me, and lemme know if you have any other ideas! Thanks =)

I think that you should get a balloon full of confetti and put on a piece of paper "will you go to the dance with me?" and put it by his locker and put a peiec of paper on it saying "POP IT!" and ya! I think that would be cute! I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Hi andie...
im in love with my best friend (CALL HER BETSY) and i have asked betsy out twice...both times she said "no we are only friends" but today i asked her if she thought it was a good idea if i went on one knee and gave her a gift...in this case a necklace...and she said ya i told her i dont know if i wanna becus if she says no, it will be embarasing but she was like JUST DO IT! and idk cus she mite still be mad at me from a cpl of days ago and is saying she isnt! idk if i should take the risk of that much embarassement over a girl even tho i love her more than the world!

Thx Andie! your awesome
You Nieghbor lol

Neighbor,
I dont think that it is really a good thing for you to ask her out again. I have learned from experience. If you ask someone out more than once they will get annoyed and will always say no to you. [sorry to break it to ya]Also they might think it is a nice gester to give them a gift but, if you really love then you would let them go and stop asking them out. Maybe they said no becase they dont want to ruin a friendship that you guys have. I hope I helped! *please rate* =) ♥Andie

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Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx

It depends. If you wash your hair before you go to work/school each morning that is okay. But then if you come home and then you take another shower before bed everyday it could possibly run your hair. So you can wash your hair 2 times a day if you want to but i wouldnt reccomend washing it 2 times a day everyday. I hope I helped! ♥

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i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out?

What you should do is ask one of his friends and try to find more stuff about him to see if you guys have anything in common. So then you should just randomly start a converstation and you guys will have something to talk about! Then once you guys start to get "comfortable" talking with each other then ask him out, or he might ask you! =) I hope I helped! ♥ Andie

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ok im a boy...lol...i am totally in love with this one girl...we are really good friends but she said that it is awesome that i am in love with her and its sweet to no some1 cares and loves her so much but she didnt want to break my heart in the end and she doesnt want to ruin the friendship...what should i do? i really love her...but she always says that! and idk..i wish she could love me back.

Well first of all you cant make someone love you, ever. [sorry to say that]and that is kool that she thinks its nice for her to think that you care for her soo much! Maybe that is all she needs right now. Maybe she doesnt want a relationship with anyone? It is also a good thing for her to care about your friendship so much that she doesnwant to jeperdize it and never be loved the way she is now. I think that you should wait a little longer untill you can maybe see that she might have some feelings for you!. If you want to show her that you care you should take her to a dance or just slow dance "as friends" so that she knows you wouldnt want to make a move on her. *plz rate!* I hope I helped! If you ever need anything else I'm here for ya! =) ♥Andie

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My friend is coming home.. she is up for adoption and her and her bf want to hang out w/me but i already have plans w/my boyfriend and i dont want to cancle them how do i work around them

You guys could go on a double date! yup! that would be fun! Go bowling! or see a movie and then go to someones house afterwards and watch a *make-out* movie lol! =) ♥Andie

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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED

DONT GO! I personaly dont know why you would want to go...and NEVER NEVER give out your add. on the internet they can be completely differnt from what they say they are so dont go at all!!
I hope you make the right choice
♥Andie

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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

he likes you..its obvious hun! Loe ya! ♥Andie

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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?

Yes! lol I have that alot about guys! lol Love ya! ♥Andrea

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I dont know waht do do if i like my best guy friend. We have talked about this many times and i always, he does too, denies that we like each other. Idk if i should wait till he asks he out, or just ask him out.

I think that you should make sure that he likes you so then if you feel that you want to ask him out then you will no his answer. ask one of his friends to ask him, Or you could ask him yourself. Then if you find out that he likes you wait til he asks you out. But then if you know that he lieks you and it takes him tooo long then go for it! Hope I helped!! ♥ Andie

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I just got dumped. Boyz are so stupid! dont you agree?

YES!!!!! boys are jacka§§e§!! they only care about how big there dick is!! :) :)
LOVE xoxo- ♥Andie

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I have this boyfriend. And we have been going out for like a couple days, and he hasnt said "i love you" but he asked me if i would make out with him. Idk if that is weird, but i think so. He loved his past girlfriend so much, so i feel like he will never like me as much as he loved her. I duno, can you help me. I will rate you. I love you andie!x0x0x

You guys have only been going out for not even a week and he hasnt said I Love you...that is totally okay! lol maybe he doesnt like to use those words unless he actually means it! But then again..if he asked you to makeout with I think that he is just trying to get something [if you know what I mean] and he is just using you. I would tell him that you dont makeout with guys untill you go out with them for a while, unless you do. Yes, I totally agree with you that it is a little strange for him to say that. Dont worry about what his previous girlfriends were like, just focus on you guys witch is the more important thing. I hope I helped! I'm here if you ever need anything about this or just anything else! lol I love you too! ♥Andie

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