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E-mail: HottKarateChic@hotmail.com
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okay ...i'm goin 2 my friend "Brad's" house and well i have a huge crush on him!! and love him with all my heart!! if anyone has any ideas of what i should do 2 make him know i'm interested lemme kno!!




xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*. (link)
try getting close to him and if you can work up the courage, try putting your hand on the inner thigh of his leg.. that should give him the hint, if that doesnt work and you need more ideas.. let me no. good luck. bye.
p.s. my email address is HottKarateChic@hotmail.com


i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel? (link)
i think you did the right thing if you think your gonna feel that way for a really long time, if its just a fling tho that mite not have been the best thing to do. and he may need time to adjust to the idea you put in his head. it will be awkward but if your really good close hell come around just give him some space and some time. good luck.


Could u plz give me some pick up lines 4 a good conversation.I mean whenever i speak 2 my bf we like dont know what to speak about.Plz advice.*Will rate if anser.* (link)
try talking about something you guys have in commom, or talk about your relationship. if you really xant think of anything.. make out. lol. i dunno maybe yu guys dont have anything to talk about becuase you guys shouldnt be together any more. good luck. let me know if there is anything else you need grom me. bye.


i have a thing for this kid that works at the cvs near me. i dont know anything about him except his name, which i got off his name tag, and that he has to be at least 18. he flirted with me one time i went in there and then i went back constantly for a couple weeks to try to start some sort of conversation but he was never there. then one day i saw a girl that works there walking to work and i asked her if he still worked there, and she said he did. that night i went to cvs and he didnt flirt at all and beyond that i didn't find him to be particularly friendly. so was he having a bad day or did she tell him that i asked about him and now hes all "eww" and is rejecting me? should i go back and try again? what should i say? im such a dork. but im a cute dork. (link)
i think you should give it one more shot, so you wont later wonder what couldve been. maybe he was having a bad day, if he acts like that again tho, 4get him. good luck. let me know if theres ever anything else you need. bye.


ok here goes...

i like this kid let say his name is steve..and i hooked up with him last year and he asked me out but i got scared because yah i liked him alot..so i made up an excuse and said some1 told me he was a player..and he got real mad and we stopped talkin then this year we started talkin again..and he told my friend that he has liked me since the day he first saw me...and he never stopped liking me...and he is soo sweet to me..but hes an asshole to everyone eles but hes soo hottt...and the other day his friend lets say bob..said to me u kno i like u right..and i didnt kno what to say cuz i love steve..and i only like bob as a friend...and 2 of my friends that kno them have diff opinions
1st friendd...go out with bob hes a good bf i kno that and steve is a jerk (juss keep in mind steve hates her)
2nd friend...steve is wicked hot but an asshole
bob is ugly but nice

then bob told me to chill with steve and see what happens between us...but i dont wanna waste my time if something doesnt happen...but i think i love steve

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if you love steve, go out with him, i know its easier sed then done but let "steve" know you like him. tell "bob" that right now you would rather be friends. good luck. if you need anything else, please, let me know. bye.


Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here. (link)
if you dont want to get back with him then dont. no matter what he does. plus it would be hurting him more if he found out you liked someone else while you were going out, hell get over it eventually and hell find someone who really, really cares for him. thats the best thing to do, let him find someone else while that way your not cheating yourself or him out of relationship you on the inside really dont want to happen.


ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks (link)
simple, if hes like that about her hes probably doing the same thing to other people about you, dump him.


ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
your fine, every one need some alone time every now and then, just get a few of your fav. cds and a headset, listen to your music and everything else you want like the world coolin it for a while. lol. will just fall into place it slike a mini vacation on vacation. thats wut i do. good luck.


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I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
3 months is pretty early to tell if its love or not and it sounds like it mite be fading.. besides i think you should DEFINATLEY go for the other guy your ex, he sound like a real keeper i would snag him b4 someone else does.


i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
i think that maybe you should talk to him. if he really likes you and vise versa and you think it could work out, then he needs to break up with her even tho hes afraid of what will happen if she loves him and she may be sad and disappointed but will be calm and rational about it if she cares for him, as long as its not in a public place. lol. good luck.


i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious? (link)
i have that same problem. lol. all i can tell you to help is, focas on something else, dont look in the mirror, look at the t.v. or the track and when you do think of the things you like about your self like for instense i only lik my eyes. thats it. but i focas on that when i am looking at myself and i smile wether i feel like it or not. every one is a little to self concious on their appearence, no worries. good luck.


K well there is this guy i like ALOT, he lives on my street and well he used to like me. he is 15 and im 13. Im moving in 3 days and everytime i ask him to hang out he doesnt want to. or he has something else. i dont know how to get his attention and i really want him to like me again. what should i do to get him to come here or him to invite me over. I know its maybe not as big of a problem as most ppls but well i never got a boy to lik me before and well this is one of my only chances.. how can i get him to like me in 3 days and to make him hang out with me today or tomorrow.?? PLEASE PLEASE HELP! (link)
i wouldnt worry about because most likely nothing major could happen in three days and if it did it would make it even harder for you to leave, but if you really want this attention... i think you are getting and dont know it, he is probably trying to talk himself out of liking you becuase your moving, like i told you to do above, he might have that realization already, ive been in that situation b4 (his) and i kept telling myself that i hated him and i told my friends i hated him, he found out i sed that and now he hates me. dont let that happen, hes probably avoiding you to help himself get over you, he obviously admires you deeply if this is the case.


awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over. (link)
ok, i think you shouldnt be looking at who should i be mad at more, but wh ydid it happen. maybe your guy was still mad and was trying to get back at you.. your giving him what he wants, and your friend i would forgive if she came out and sed it was true and apoligize, so you do have a right to be mad at them, but maybe they wont admit it becuase they feel bad and are trying to forget it happened at all them selves. try to get their side of the story. good luck.


ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!




female = 15 (link)
ok, i think that every girl including me at one point or other will feel like they dont know what to do. my advice to you is this.. do it. just have fun, who cares if you think you know how to or not the less you think about it the better off you are.




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