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I am 5'2 I have long blond hair. I'm tan and I love the beach. I work at abercrombie and fitch in savannah georgia. I love to help people with their problems. So if you need advice just ask me!
I AM A BIG PARTY GIRL..... I love guys...well i should say my boyfriend. we have been together for six years now. and everything that comes along with that....anywho...If y'all have msn add me....I love my sports to death. I love hangin around with my friends when i have time and I love going to school. I know its weird but i dont have to do much work so its all good.

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How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please!

Keep yourself busy. You will eventually stop thinkin about him all together.

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Over the summer I was a counselor at a camp with my friends. This other guy I know also was a counselor. He goes to my school and I started liking him. Turns out he likes me to (he told my friend). He says he doesn't want me to know (too late!) and he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people out is stupid to him. His last two girlfriends were both extremely popular and deemed the 'hotties'. I'm just worried he doesn't want to go out with me because I am not popular. Now I'm not a geek, I'm pretty high up there...but not as high as his ex-girlfriends. Any advice would help.

If he likes you it shouldnt matter if your really popular or not so pretty. He should like you for who you are and if he doesnt want to be with you because you not so popular then its his lose not yours and you can do much better than him. Good Luck!!

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This is more of an opinion question than an advice thing, but I figured I'd ask anyway...never hurts, right?
If a guy asks you to marry him in the future, but doesn't give you a ring, does it count?
Lol I'm just curious to see what you guys think.

Of course it counts...A ring is just a ring it doesnt say how much you love someone and how much you want to be with them. Its just something for other ppl to know that you are in love with this man and that you do want to be with him for the rest of your life.

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I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?

Don't worry about what other ppl think. Its your choice when you have your first kiss. And they should not say anything about it. Don't be embarassed. Everyone sucks their first time. We cant really tell ya what to say but continue talkin about what you were already talking about.
Hope I helped

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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?

Well personally I don't think a guy should ask you out over the phone or on the computer. I think that he should be face to face with you to ask you out. Tell him how you feel and come up with something together. Hope I helped. Good Luck

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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him

I had the same exact problem. I didnt kiss my boyfriend untill we had been together for a month. I thought it was weird also, but it's not. It very normal. Just get to know him better so u will feel more comfortable.

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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx

wow! you have a bad problem. There is no easy way to dump a guy. Just tell him that you really just want to be friends and that maybe later yall could possibly get back together. I know i prolly didnt help much.

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hey well how do u get music in ur buddy4u pro ?
please help if ya do ill rate u !! PLEASE

Hey...I am not sure how you would do that...I tried it and it didnt work. Sorry I didnt help
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how do you make-out or french kiss?..and is there really a differnce?

A french kiss is when u kiss a guy/girl and u use ur tongue its not just lips. When u make out its when u kiss for a long time french kissing and just pecks.

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My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to girls..like its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though.

I think that u should bring it to his attention... But my boyfriend does it all the time...its not that he is tryin to act that way its just he is on vaca and havin fun with his friend....u should set a time to call him everyday....talk bout ten mins and then dont call the rest of the day.....Hope i helped....Please rate

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Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(

I dont think that there is anything wrong with it. If you like him then you like him. Age shouldn't matter unless u are younger then 18 and he his way older than 18. Hope I helped.

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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

No not really

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why is it that i always seem to fall in love then screw it up? i mean i always get hurt is there ne guys out there that i can talk to that are readin this if so plz answer this!

Well im not a guy but....Let me put it this way if you fall in love a lot i dont think that you truly are in love. As my teacher always says "your not in love your in deeply like". Just be more carefull with your relationships and what not. Sorry if I didnt help any.

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((the girl with the X bf dumped him 2ce want him back))
your advice was great i really appreciate it~ but
the only thing is he met sum girl the other night and hes lik idk if it means anything blah blah... but last night our conversation was lik he likes me still... and hes all saying how he dont lik to think about our memmories cause it makes him want it... ~ so im lik super confused... do u think this girl will wreck my chances with getting him back? *mare*

This girl could mess up the chances of y'all getting back together. umm im not to sure what to say other than just talk to him. Let him know that you dont want her to ruin anything that he has known you a lot longer and that you do love him(only if u really do.) and want to be with him. Tell him that the memories are there for a reason and if they make him want u back then thats a good thing cause it tell him how good the relationship was. I hope I helped ya again. Tell me how things go and if you want to talk you can add me to msn messenger if u have it.lover_lovesu@hotmail.com....I dont have yahoo or aol anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!

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Ok... theres a guy i dated and ... i broke up with him lik 2ce ~ only cause the first time was because i was scared to put my heart in sum1s hands again... but we got thru that and got back together... and the 2nd time was because everyone got in the way and i was really confused about everything and so i jus ended it cause i didnt kno what was going on... i finnaly realized i shouldnt let people get n the way... and that i really trusted this guy... and i kinda want him back... we both admitted we still love each other... but he dont want to get back with me yet... he said why would he wanna jump into it cause hes scared id break up with him again... and i dont kno how to prove that i wouldnt... i dont really know where me and him stand... we still talk all the time... last night we talked about some of our good times and he was lik i dont lik to think about it cause then it makes me want it ... and im lik well whats wrong with wanting something... and hes all idk... so im so confused should i wait for him?... should i just give up and say its over... cause me and him had something ive never had before... he was different from all the other guys... he gave me this feeling... idk... this advice girl needs some advice... wanna lend a helpin thought?...

Well don't give up on him. He is scared that you will hurt him and thats it. Just explain to him what you explained to us. Tell him that you really do love him but you were trying to make everyone else happy not the two of yall. If you have the same feeling that i have about my ex boyfriend then god knows try everything in ur will power to get back with him cause if you just give up and wait to long u will never have another chance. Hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!

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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?

hmmm. Well im not to sure that you can actually tell her that you dont like it without soundin like that but we can give it a shot. Just tell her that she does have a very nice body but you dont really like some of the clothes that she wears cause u feel like she doesnt care about u just about all the other guys that are lookin at her. I am sorry if i didnt help but i tried.
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My boyfriend and i were goin out for about 7 and a half months all of a sudden he breaks up with me cuz he said he loves me as a friend now and we didnt see each other that much and its not like i didnt try to see him about every weekend i called him and asked if he wanted to do sumtin but he was always busy with his friends but two days later hes goin out with this girl who i thought was my friend and sorry to say but shes a slut and he said to me im goin to stay low for a while and not go out with anyone now he doesnt talk to me anymore and its like i dont know if i should just forget about his sorry ass and his new girlfriend or just leave it a lone... thanks for the advice - Erin

Ok well first off you need to say something to your "so called friend" and he doesnt love you too much if he did what he did. Tell him how you feel. He didnt want to be with you that bad if he always went out with his friends and not you when you asked. So that wasnt a good reason to break up with you beacause it was his fault not your. He is an ass hole for what he did and I wouldnt worry about him. Find someone knew that will treat you right. After you talk to him this last time just tell him you would really like to be friends but that is up to him and that you are not going to try with him anymore. I honestly wouldnt be friends with the other girl either. Hope I helped you out if you need anything else u know what to do. Oh and if i offended u im sorry

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i like this guy named sage. He likes me. we both know we like eachother. well the other day i was out w/ a bunch of friends and he was like... do you think i am sweet? and i was like no comment. he has a gf or he would have already asked me out. he came up to me just about the time we were going to leave and was like... u turned me down. i told him i was sry but i didnt want all my friends to kno right then. i told him i was going to wait until we started going out. then he was like we might not. WHAT?!?!? he may b moving to another state. now he is mad @ me for turning him down. he didn't show up the next day when we went top go hang out w/ all our friends. so what do i do? do i call him or wat? Help Me quick! he might come to "the spot" where we hang tonight!

Well you kinda had a right to say that because he does have a girlfiend. Just tell him that you didnt want all your friends to know because u didnt want them to think that you were trying to break the two of them up. Tell him you really like him and that you dont want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. Hope I helped

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i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do?

I think that you should tell your friend that you like him, but you have a boyfriend. I think that you should tell your boyfriend what had been going on just in case he finds out from someone else and breaks up with you but you may feel different. Tell the other guy that you do want a relationship with him but after you and your boyfriend break up. Hope I helped a little.

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i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??

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Tell your friend that you like him, but he likes her. Then explain to him that you really like him but you dont think erica is his type because she likes the "BAD BOYS" and that she wouldnt be good for him. Tell him that you like his personality and that you really want to get closer to him. And maybe even have a relationship. Good Luck

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