My names Sam and I live in Georgia. I feel that I give good advice or I wouldn't be doing this. Sometimes I'm feeling sympathetic but a lot of the time I can be kind of blunt. That doesn't mean that I don't care, it just means that the truth isn't always what you want to hear. If it's a complicated question, about relationships and such, please IM me its a lot easier to work out that way. If you leave one in my inbox it will most likely be responded to by a question and a shot in the dark so include as much info as possible.
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ok hey i asked u a day ago about my boyfriend not talking to me after we had sex. i tried going up to him and he would walk off he still wont talk to me and im afarid that i mite b pregrent because he didtn use a condom. he told me that he didnt like using them. and so i agreed with him. but now i dont no wut to do help me (link)
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Well you have to break up with him. Are there any signs that you might be pregnant? If you think you are it wouldn't be a bad idea to take a pregnancy test at all. Always use condoms, I don't know how hard I have to stress this with people. I'm sorry about your boyfriend, but do you really want to be with an asshole like that anyways? Your probably thinking yes, but give it some time and space and you'll realize that leaving him was the best decision you ever made. I hope your not pregnant, but i still suggest taking a test especially if there are signs. If you start having any issues down there, it might not be a bad idea to go to a gyno to check for STDs either.
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me and my boyfriend had sex and now he wont talk to me anymore and he acts werid around me. dont no what i should do .... HELP ME PLEASE
UR BESTFRIEND love ya (link)
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Have you tried calling him? or just going up to him and asking him in person. Just ask one of your friends that knows him if he's going to be at a football game or something and just go up to him and be like, we need to talk. If he still wont talk to you, then you need to break up with him. Send me back a little more info and I can help more.
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okayy theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me cuz hes always like lets be partners and we do this card swap thing and hes like hey find the card that matches mine and switch with them so we can be together...ha i think he does but how do i know for sure..haha (link)
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He likes you, well, just imply that you'd like to go on a date sometime. If he asks you then it's a yes, if not, don't lose hope, maybe he's just a little shy.
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ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
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it depends on what your age is, if your really young, then no, but if your in your like say in your 20s and feel like you know and trust this guy really well, then i say go for it. I advise taking a friend with you the first time though.
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Ok well....I like this guy lets say mike* and his friends name is steven. Well i like mike* and steven is always saying that hes better then mike*and that i shouldnt like him bcuz hes a player. BUt wut im realli confused about is y is steven sayin that? does he like me? bcuz i kno mike* isnt a player. Help! i rate! (link)
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yeah, that guy likes you. He's hoping you'll take his advice and not date this other guy. He also hopes that you'll start wanting him, the guy sounds queer, i did that once, like in 4th grade.
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ok....my friend right now is suppose to help me hook up w/ this guy from our school...so far everything is good... he says im very attractive and he asked for my sn so i could talk to him some more and get to knw me. This always happens that when i finally get what i would like something goes wrong, like i get unsatisfied or he just says "i don't wanna gf right now" what can i do or say to make this time diffrent... anything i should do to catch his eye? (link)
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just flirt, act interested in hanging out with him outside of school. Talk to him yourself instead of making your friend do all the work.
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ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!! (link)
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just talk to you boyfriend. Ask him if he's worried about it, and either way tell him he has nothing to wory about because you love him and wouldnt even consider hooking up with his friend.
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ok.....ive liked this boy for awile now and i think he was starting to like me but im not sure and now this really hot new boy came to our school and im really starting to like him ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i have told my friends that ive liked this other boy for awile now and now ive told them that i really like this new kid and to make matters worse this girl that i told her i like him now"all of usudden" she loves him now and she wants to go out with him?????
wat do i do?
13 female (link)
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first decide who you like more, then tell the person. That's not a solution, but it's a step in the right direction.
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what are some things u can say when ur talkin to ur crush and u wana keep the conversation going but he stopped talkin n theres nothing to say....plz help (link)
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I'm a guy, but I think I can help. I just tried this one with a girl today, we were talking online for about an hour and then we just stopped talking for like 10 mins, then i just randomly said something, like shut up, or thats funny, she made some comment and we've been talking for the last. Damn, its almost 11:00. I gotta go to bed, school tomorrow, peace.
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here. (link)
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It's not a stupid reason, I've broken up with someone for that same reason before. There's not much you can do, hooking up with him will make him estatic, but you miserable. Better just try to be friends with him so both of you can move on.
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ok here goes...
i like this kid let say his name is steve..and i hooked up with him last year and he asked me out but i got scared because yah i liked him alot..so i made up an excuse and said some1 told me he was a player..and he got real mad and we stopped talkin then this year we started talkin again..and he told my friend that he has liked me since the day he first saw me...and he never stopped liking me...and he is soo sweet to me..but hes an asshole to everyone eles but hes soo hottt...and the other day his friend lets say bob..said to me u kno i like u right..and i didnt kno what to say cuz i love steve..and i only like bob as a friend...and 2 of my friends that kno them have diff opinions
1st friendd...go out with bob hes a good bf i kno that and steve is a jerk (juss keep in mind steve hates her)
2nd friend...steve is wicked hot but an asshole
bob is ugly but nice
then bob told me to chill with steve and see what happens between us...but i dont wanna waste my time if something doesnt happen...but i think i love steve
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"Bob" sounds a lot nicer than "Steve". Still, you should probably try to get together with Steve. If he's nice to you and you like him then that's what really matters. I say hang out with him and see how things go and if they work out then great and if not, then you will still have Bob to fall back on. Bob sounds like a nice guy, and nice guy's usually wait around for the girl to decide on who they want.
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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me (link)
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It depends, if you want her to have sex with you too, then yeah, it will probably push her away, but if your really interested in a relationship and don't want to push her, then, as long as she knows this, it shouldn't make things any harder.
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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you? (link)
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it depends on how old you are. If your older than say 14 or 15 then its not really a big deal.
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i ask u alott of ?'s,here's another one...
i still lyk my ex bf...i'm not sure if he still likes me,but he doesnt have another gf yet. i wuz gonna call him n tell him i lykd him reeal fast and say call me bak if u feel the same... but i'm not sure if thatz the way to tell him... cuz i'm kinda afraid i'll get the answer i dont want. plz help me out!!! XoXo nicole (p.s. i'm 13, and he's 15-just turned) (link)
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You don't have to just straight out tell him. Hang out with him some time and just flirt a lot, he'll get the picture. As long as he doesn't have another girlfriend he's fair game. If you do say something straight out though, say it in person and tell him that you miss the days when you and him were together. If he says that he's not interested then express that you would at least like to see him more, this will give you time to make him like you again.
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ok...u give reaally good advice so i'm asking u this...and also cuz ur a guy...but here goez,
i like cars and motorcycles and sports and stuff. i'm not a brat and i dont dress too revealing. soo many guyz have asked me out...and after that i found out they only wanted me for my body...but i'm really shy so i hang out w/ my friends and certain guy friends. how do i get a guy to notice me if i dont know how?? i hope you can help me!!! (link)
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You just want a guy to notice you? You said a lot of guys ask you out, wouldn't that imply that they do notice you? Anyways, if you want them to notice you more, then it would be a good idea to flirt, like if a guy says something funny just laugh and put your arms around him for a few seconds until the joke wears off. Most guys don't mind getting touched by an attractive girl. If you want a guy to notice you for more than your physical appearance, then I say make sure that when theres a guy your attracted to in the room and your with your friends, make it very obvious that your having a good time. I know if I see a girl really enjoying herself, I want to get in on it and usually make my way over to her after a few minutes.
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i still am lyk totally in luv w/ my ex bf...we've been broken up fer lyk 2 wks...my friend just asked if he wanted to go out w/ me again. he said probly yeah. i wanna kno how i can turn him on wen i c him..helpp!!!plz anser a.s.a.p.!
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Just make sure he's happy. Don't reject him if he tries to make a move. Make sure your breath smells good and dress nice. You have to act completely into him, flirt when your around other people, but don't miss an oppurtunity for the two of you to sneak out together.
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Hi, I asked a question before about my boyfiend + I who always break up n make up ... I'm 15 years old and HE usually breaks up with me because we either fight too much or he thinks we just need to take a break and see other people for awhile. I really love him + I dont know what to do. I can't stand when he dumps me and then begs for me back and I go running back to him. (link)
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Gosh, I hate to keep asking questions, but it would be good to know what you fight about too. If he wants to take a break and see other people it means that he has another love interest, you can't stand for this. Make absolutely sure that he knows that just because you fight, it doesn't mean that you have stopped liking him. Maybe it needs to happen just one more time, and when he comes back for you, act like your not interested and then after he begs for a while go back but act like your a little unsure. Its just playing hard to get. It sounds like when you are together he more or less is in charge of the relationship. You need to make him feel a little less in charge. Ways of doing this are going out with your friends a lot while the relationship is existing, hanging out with other guys, im not saying cheat, but do it enough to get him a little worried. Just get him to the point where he feels that he can't just dump you and pick you back up whenever he wants. Don't do it all the time though, just when it looks like things are going downhill and only if you feel like he's in charge. If you start arguing about it then you might need to lighten up a little bit with it, mostly just don't let him get to comfortable with this breaking up getting back together thing.
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i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx (link)
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The reason he told you he broke up with you unfortunately probably isn't the real reason. We always come up with something that sounds like its nobodys fault when we, or I guess just me, I break up with a girl. He has another love interest, he lost his attraction, or maybe he's just not happy with you. I can help you get him back, but not unless you IM me or leave more info about what your relationship was like while you were going out. My screen names for both MSN messenger and AOL messenger are in my column.
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i like this guy, and i think he likes me to. but my sister told me she also likes him. i really like this guy!!what should i do if i lke him and my sister does too. he acts like he likes me though. (link)
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Thats really awkward. Try to keep things outside the family. If he acts like he likes you and not your sister then I say go for it, but if he likes both of you then forget his weird ass. Leave some ages and more info in my inbox and I can help more.
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He's 20. I'm 16.
My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again? (link)
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Theres a pretty big age gap there. Things always go wrong with big age gaps. If you really want to stay with this guy then try just having fun with him, don't take the relationship so seriously. Go play pool with him or shoot hoops or something, and most of all make sure he's happy. Every now and then ask what he wants to do. Maybe make a day for him. Dress up nice, make him dinner and just make sure he's comfortable. It sounds like he doesn't relax enough when he's around you also. Maybe you should go over to his house and cuddle while you watch a movie, something like that. Leave one in the inbox and let me know how things go.
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