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you answer my question about my boyfriend n me .....
Hi, I asked a question before about my boyfiend + I who always break up n make up ... I'm 15 years old and HE usually breaks up with me because we either fight too much or he thinks we just need to take a break and see other people for awhile. I really love him + I dont know what to do. I can't stand when he dumps me and then begs for me back and I go running back to him.
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Gosh, I hate to keep asking questions, but it would be good to know what you fight about too. If he wants to take a break and see other people it means that he has another love interest, you can't stand for this. Make absolutely sure that he knows that just because you fight, it doesn't mean that you have stopped liking him. Maybe it needs to happen just one more time, and when he comes back for you, act like your not interested and then after he begs for a while go back but act like your a little unsure. Its just playing hard to get. It sounds like when you are together he more or less is in charge of the relationship. You need to make him feel a little less in charge. Ways of doing this are going out with your friends a lot while the relationship is existing, hanging out with other guys, im not saying cheat, but do it enough to get him a little worried. Just get him to the point where he feels that he can't just dump you and pick you back up whenever he wants. Don't do it all the time though, just when it looks like things are going downhill and only if you feel like he's in charge. If you start arguing about it then you might need to lighten up a little bit with it, mostly just don't let him get to comfortable with this breaking up getting back together thing.
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