alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?
p.s. im 14 f
hey,
your not the mean one b/c you help him out, you give him advice and things like that. Hes the stupid one. You have to listen to all the girls he likes and you give him advice but when you talk about another guy he gets mad, thats not right! Good that you pushed him away......hes selfish and only thinks about himself. Look at the way he acted when you told him that the other boy asked you out and you said yes.....imagine when Jeff calls you and you are talking to Josh and you tell Jeff that you will talk to him later b/c your talking to Josh or you are going to go out with Josh....imagine all the things hes going to say to you then......granted he will ask you for forgivness and act like nothing happened.......you dont need all that drama in your life.......Hope i have helped. If you need anything else just ask me. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
Gorda1224
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I got a call from my ex-boyfriend last week and he wanted me to meet up with him at a local coffee shop. I told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go. So, I went and met him. When I got there he had a dozen roses waiting for me and as I sat down he got on his knee and told me that he loves me still and never stoped loving me. I told him that I had a boyfriend and all. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has been acting like he doesn't know me, because my ex called and asked for my answer and asked me to move in with him when my boyfriend was with me because I still haven't answered him and he's getting a new apartment. What should I do?
Hey,
You shouldn't have gone. I think tha was a trick of your boyfriend to see if youactually cared enough about him to realize that, that would be disrespectful for you to meet up with your ex-boyfriend. You'll probably rate low b/c im not givin you the answer that you want.But i dont think that yoi should of gone. But maybe you still like your ex. Do what you feel is best. if you have more feeling for ex than our former b/f juss do it. Just follow your heart. Hopei have helped and GOOD LUCK.
*Gorda*
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so im thinking of kissing a boy by the waterfalls we hang out at..any suggestions on what i can do to make the move..anything to say or anything to do?
Hey,
Well you could start flirting wit him. Make sure that he is flirting back b/c when you make your move you dont want to feel stupid if he rejects you. But juss start talkin and flirting and lookin his eyes and smile when you talk to him and when its the right moment kiss him.....Start kissin him passionatly,but only give a lil and that will make him want another kiss juss like that......afetr the kiss ask him if he liked it(look in his eyes and smile while askin him) and just kiss passionately every so often and then at the end when your about to leave give him the nice, long, tender, passionate kiss you have ever givin in your life. Hope i have helped.....GOOD LUCK! Be sure to email me if u need more help.
*Gorda*
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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her.
Hey,
I thought a relationship involed TWO people and TWO people only. Not the couple and everyone that surrounds them. Do what you want. You dont want to break up with her....(thats fine)........if you want to break up with her......(thats fine too)! Dont worry about whos ganna be mad at you and whos ganna stop bein your friend. You went out wit her b/c u wanted to, You want to break up wit her b/c you wanted to. If you want to break up wit her....juss do it. Tell her that you just want to be friend.Dont tell her that Jack likes her and that yoy think that they should go out b/c that wil make it worse. Instead go to Jack and tell him to try to Holla(talk) at/to her. Just do whats best for your life not yours and everyone else's. Well i hope i have helped.......GOOD LUCK!.
*Gorda*
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i like this boy, and me and him have a really fliry relationship. i slept with him in november while he was going out with my friend. we hang out sometimes and flirt a lot and i really think im in love. but he blows me off sometimes and hes such a jerk. he'll ditch me for a party, and he doesnt pick up his phone somtimes. lately hes been doing this more and more and i dont know what i should do because i like him so much! can somebody help me?
Hey,
Well, you need to play hard to get. Dont be on his d**k. Just dont call him, wait till he calls you. (i know it will be hard because you love him.....but just try :) ). When he calls you back and ask him what you have been doin just tell him that you have been busy, if he ask you doin wat....juss tell him that you have been worin or somethin (make somethin up). Dont call him as often. He might start gettin the picture that he might be losing you and start calling you and looking for you. Tell him you want to go out somewhere......when he goes to kiss you dont let him......play around wit him and make him work for you. Kisshim juss a lil bit and then when you see that he cant resist then give hi a long, nice,passionate kiss. When you feel that hes into the kiss..../.deeply just pull back and keephim wantin more. What ever you do DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM........AT ALL! Wait a clouple days that hes after you and then you can. Dont play to hard to get because you might push him away. Hope i have helped......xoxo.....GOOD LUCK!!
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*Gorda*
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theirs about 2 weeks left of school and i told this boy i liked tht i liked him and he just told me he liked me 2 is it too late to hook up wit him?
Hey,
It is not to late to hook up with him. You guys could alk on the phone and internet. You guys can go out to the movies or to the beach. Or you can go out to any restaurants together. And if its ok with both of your parents, if either family is going on a trip you could tag along with each others family. There arelots of things taht both of you could do together. Hope i have helped.
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*Gorda*
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Okay, there is this guy (his name is Gage Tyler) that I am like crazy for. He always tells his friends that he doesn't like me, but yet when one of my friends asks him if he does like me he doesn't answer them. Or like if I come around him, he always leaves, but sometimes comes back around me. It's really weird and all of my friends say that I am too good for him, or he isn't good enough for me. And one of my friend's thinks that he is mentally abusing me?!?!?! Well, please help!! lol.
Hey, Well he might be mentalyy abusing you.....if you notice you are crazy over him. By him ignoring you it makes you want him even more. If you say that he leaves when you come around him. It might be that he doesnt like you or that he gets really nervouse when you come near him and he doesnt want you to notice. What i suggest you do is go up to him and ask him if he likes you. If he says yes take it from there......But if he says no, just keep doin ur thing....and he wasnt worth it. Find another person and ignore him. That should piss him off. Hope i have helped.
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i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference?
Tell your parents that you understand where they are coming from and that you know that all they want to do is protect you(bonus points). Ask your parents to go somewhere and ask him to tag along ask him if he could drive, let your dad sit in the front with him that way he notices that your man is responsible and a good driver. Maybe your dad start knowing him a bit better. Hope i have helped.
*Gorda*
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I am 13 and I have never kissed anyone. I know that I want too, but I want it to be sweet and romantic. I have thought about this for a LONG time (ever since I turned 11) I want a romantic first kiss, like a walk in the park or something and then we just kiss. I need to know about 5 things though. (1) I have braces, will our lips get hung together or something? (2) I ALSO have a herpz appliance in my mouth!!! Will THAT get our lips caught together? (3) How do you kiss? I mean whats the most sweetest way to kiss without making out? (4) Where is a romantic date? I can go to the movies or somewhere like that? I don't have any parks where I live. (5) Whats a good type of clothing, earrings, etc. to where? I REALLY NEED A GIRL'S ADVICE!
hey,
Well you dont need to be stressing it to much. I understand that yu want your first kiss to be romantic (what girl doesnt). But your are only 13. I had my 1st kiss when i was 14 and it wasnt romantic.....i had snuk out of my house wit my friend and i was dared by my friend to kiss the guy i liked at that time. But guys will come and go. But you are 13 and you know what you want...
(1)i'v never had braces but i doont think your lips will get in the way.
(2)I dont know what a herpz appliance is but if your lips get stuck together then that'll be a good thing.
(3)to kiss you need to open you mouth and just flow with a rythm....open and close it. you also move your head around.
(4)a romantic date would be a the beach somewhere were its both of you together.
(5)Well for a kiss you dont need tog o all out on your dressing but on a date you will have to dress nicely. You could wear some heals that are appropiate for you, that you may walk in. You could wear a nice dress shirt with jeans or brazilian pants, or a nice skirt. try to match you r outfit.
Hope i have helped.
*Gorda*
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I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)?
Hey, its not a turn off b/c guys like the thought that they are the girls 1st. Dont let the guy feel like he could manipulate you. Let him know that you are a virgin if he has a problem with that screw him . But most guys wont have a problem with that, they will find that as a blessing. If you do want to save your self for marriage let the guy know if he has a problem with that screw him, he really didnt like you. If you would give up your virginity to a giy after going out with him for a certain amount of time and you think you are ready let the guy know if you are into a relationship and you feel the time is right and you want to give your self up you will, but that you want to be sure you are in love with the person. I hope i have helped.
*Gorda*
* Tellin the guy that you want to save your self or you want to give urself up after bein in a relationship after a certain amount of time is a real tester.
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