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Q: This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥
First of all me and my boyfriend do this ALL the time. If he is in a bad mood he ALWAYS takes it out on me and usually I just try to ignore it or like not talk to him until he is in a better mood. If i were you I would just tell him that when he is in a bad mood you dont want to talk to him because you dont want to make things worse I'm sure he will understand. Hope I helped.

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Q: Even tho u asked me .... i lied it is me now you know. I d K what to do n e more but just tlk to me later okay?

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Why did you lie to me? It would of just been easier to talk to me about it. I will call you whenever I can. Because I dont know what to do either. All I'm going to tell you is...follow your heart I guess. Love ya to.

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Q: Yes it is you.
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Q: ok so i have this friend and she is reallly close to me. we always tlk on the fone and hang out if we can and things that best friends do. She is tkane and i belive that i am starting to fall in love with her. I think she kind of knows but i dont think she knows how much i love her. she thinks i just like her and thats not true. i love her and she is to good of a friend. what do i doe i mean she is taken and a good firned....do i tell her??? please help me this is very important to me
Ok well I would keep being friends with her because usually friends turn into more then friends if you know what I mean. Just be there for her and dont let her down. I would definetly tell her how you feel because that can only help you. Hope I helped. Write back if you need anymore advice.

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Q: okay i really like this guy like Alot and we were talking durin the summer but kinda stopped cause we go to differnt schools and all so it wasnt working and now i still have feelings for him and all but we agreed to atleast wait till we can drive which is in a month or so but how will i know if he still likes me or wants to still make it work? i dont want to come out and be like do you still like me cause im not that forward with people but what are some ways i could tell him with out making it obvious
Just hint around and ask him stuff like so who are you liking these days and things like that. And if that doesn't work then your going to have to be forward with him. I'm sure if he really liked you hes not going to loose his feelings for you in a month. Hope I helped.

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Q: So here's the facts thus far:

1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.

2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.

3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.

4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.

5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).

So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation?
I think that you should just kind of back off a little bit until she breaks up with him because honestly you dont want to have to live with the guilt of breaking up a good relationship. I mean I think you should be there for her through this tough time and that will make her like you more but dont pressure her into breaking up with him. Hope I helped.

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Q: hey ok well here's the deal...my mom will let me go out with friends no problem. but whenever i m going w/ just a guy FRIEND she like makes sure a million times we are JUST FRIENDS. and we are. so no problem right?? but heres the Problem; she'll let me have boyfriends but she won't let me go out anywhere with them! whats the point of having a b/f if i can't go anywhere with them? how can i get her to lighten up and let me go out with a guy who is a little more than a friend????????? HELP!!! -and please dont say sneak around her i'd feel really guilty!-
My parents DONT let me date at all and they dont let me talk to guys either. I have to constantly sneak around and for you that would be a problem. So I would say that the best thing you can do is have a talk with your mom and tell her that you can be trusted and that she should trust you to go places with your boyfriend. If that doesnt work then try compromizing with her. Hope I helped.


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Q: ok. i was going out w/ this guy for about 2 months. we realy liked each other, and everything, but then i realized that i still liked this other guy, and id nevr gotten over. so i dumped him, cuz i thought it wouldnt b fair to go out w/ him wen i liked another guy. well, i immediately regretted it, and i still like him, but he wont talk to me and he says he really hates me. i apologized a million times and tried to talk him into going back out w/ me. he said he still liked me, but he cant trust me, bcuz i dumped him for another guy, and he doesn't want his heart broken again. so wat should i do? i rly rly like him, and i wanna go back out w/ him, but he just dosnt trust me.
OK this has happened to me a million times. In time he will trust you again you just have to give him time. You have to prove to him that you can be trusted and show him that you really care. He might not go back out with you but at least he will trust you again and it's better then nothing. Hope I helped.

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Q: ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets call him kyle well he was 15 like me. and i dont know. but he talked about peverted things and i was ok with it. i talked it back and stuff. and i dont know but i didnt feel as uncomfortable with him and talking about it. and now with matt, he is talking to me again and im trying soo hard to like be comfortable with him and all the things he says. but i just dont seem like i can. so i really dont know what my question is. but i just need some advice about the whole situation.anything helps. definate 5's for any advice.
I think that you feel weird around Matt because he is older then you. I have been in this position before to I once dated a guy three years older then me and he did that same thing but It didn't make me feel uncomfortable. People are different and It must be different for you. Maybe you should try talking to him about it and see what happens. Maybe you are better off with someone your own age. And its not your fault that you feel uncomfortable things just happen. Hope I helped.

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Q: Hello, I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 8 months. And now we have broken up again. I love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me to, he just gets really confused with what he wants. He says he just wants to be alone, but then a couple of days later, he realizes that isn't what he wants. and now I know he is just going to do this again. What should I do?
Ok i go through this ALL the time. I mean you really love him but some times you need a break. I mean breaks aren't always a bad thing it helps you to sort stuff out. So when you break up dont worry about it because things will be ok again. But if you dont want to keep doing this then talk to him. Or else break up for good and find someone else. Hope I helped

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Q: I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, but it's been a bit complicated - a week after we started dating, he found out he had cancer. He's had surgery and is on the road to recovery now, but I am worried that now he will only continue dating me because he feels obliged to as I was there when he needed me, rather than that he has an actual desire to be with me. I really like this guy but how can I figure out what is going on without offending him?? I'd rather have a broken heart sooner than later, so I'm keen to deal with this!
Ok well first of all just talk to him. Dont make it sound like you dont trust him just tell him that you were happy that you helped him through his problem and he doesn't have to stay with you if he doesnt want to. Talk to him. Thats all I can say and If you word it right its NOT going to offend him. Hope I helped

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