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I am a 14 year old girl, with lots of expectation from life, I am in Love with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, I am not into the dating thing, i was in it and got my heart broken and now, Jesus and i are "dating" i guess you could say ..I've been on a spritutal high ever since .. I refer to biblical stand points to all of my advice, i am a servant to all that asks, I love to talk and sing and i am trying to figure this think out called Life and see what my purpose is on this earth .. l0l


Promise me Women of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and the wild deer, not to awaken my love until it is ready.. Song of Solomon 2:7

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My 24 year old daughter became a christian about 10 years ago. Not been keeping up with church etc. WEnt to college on east coast and has informed us she has a "girlfriend". She is questioning what the Bible says about homosexuality due to others who question it. If she is sinning in this way, will she still go to heaven? Been praying for her a lot. Not sure exactly how to pray about it.
Joyce

My heart completely goes out to your daughter! I had a friend that once battled real hard against homosexuality. In the new testament it talks a lot about the sexual immpurities that we should stay far from. As well in the old testament the cities of Sodom & Gomorrah were burnt down for their sexual sins. But I am not to judge who will and will not go to heaven, but my advice is to keep praying, fasting, interceeding for your daughter. I to will also.


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I've like guyz since like the 1st grade. I've never ever let them find out. I'm an admirer. I don't ask people out, I dont tell people i like em. How can I tell them without seeming "out of character" or embarass myslef.

Please don't be negative I rate high!!

i know EXACTLY how you feel !!! Just get to know him, start talking to him frequently .. Be friends with him first then after a while start talking about the subject ..

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I'm 14 female. I've never been in a serious relationship. I dated one guy for 3weeks. But that's a long n hairy story. And a girl for 2weeks. I really want a bf or gf, but the one guy i really like doesn't like me(he's the hairy story lol) and the girl i like is taken. Frankly, I'm not the prettiest thing. The only thing i got going for me is big boobs. most my guys friends comment on these daily but i o dont think any of them mean it. i know of one guy who likes me but he's one of my best friends, and i couldnt date him comfortably. i have sorta bad acne and my clothes are very stlyish because of two fat horses who eat our money. how can i make myself more attractive to at least myself. (i run every day at least a mile n do crunches and other ab workouts to loose weight already)

Well just be your self .. If you find someone that you like then go after them ..

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Ok, Im in love with this girl Renee. She is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went away with her for a weekend and I was really happy... she was really happy.. We kissed and stuff. We fell asleep in each others arms. The next day when we were heading home she was kind of distant. I noticed it and asked her if she was having second thoughts. she said she didnt like me as much as I like her and that the feelings the felt that night had gone away.. I still love her, deeply, I think about her all the time, and we still talk, but I dont want to love her but I cant help it and its killing me, I'm afraid if I stop loving her, I'll stop liking her all together, and I really dont want that to happen.. Im not entirely convinced that her feelings for me are gone, I think she is just hiding them, not wanting to be hurt... but I'd never hurt her!

What can I do? Should I just keep trying to get over her? Should I persist? Could my theorys be true that she is just hiding her true feelings? HELP!!

17/m

Keep going after her !! If she is hiding her feelings then she'll know that your true and you really do love her and your not just playing the "dating game" ..

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Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.

I COMPLETLY know what your talkin about !! I am the same way with this one guy !! um .. Just say hi first , i conversation will start up .. Talk about anything !!
Good luck !!

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Hey I saw your advice and my friend told him what I felt. Do you think if I told him he do something about him and his girlfriend. I mean I have tried to get him out of my head and I can't. I'm going crazy. If your good with words tell me what to say to him. Thanks.

Well .. There's only one way to find out ..
Tell him how you feel .. I know how you feel, it's hard to get em out of your head ..

Just go up and talk to him in a normal conversation and get into the subject .. Just say , I have to tell you something or it will bother me, and tell him how you feel ..
He'll understand ..
Good Luck !!

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Hey.
i met this guy @ my youth group and i like him SO much. He likes me too but i dont want to rust into anything because i'm still not over the other guy i dated. I still LOVE him. what do i do?

Go for it !! I think that before you go out with the other guy that you till the guy that you "love" that you still have feelings for him .. If he doesn't have feelings for you then go out with the other guy ..
Good Luck !!

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Hey what's up? Listen I had a love at first sight problem. I fell for this guy the first time I saw him and can't get him out of my head. But thats not the problem. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. i have tried to get over him but I can't. What should I do. I really really want to go out with him. help me out. I am 16 years old by the way.

Well .. That sounds like me !! LoL
Um .. My advice is that you tell him how you feel .. (Thats the hard part) You can either wait till untill him and his girlfriend brake up or tell him now ... That parts up to you .. The sooner you tell him the better ..
Hope I helped !!

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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks

ashley

Well, I'd tell him what you just said .. be truthful with him .. obsessive boyfriends do get on your nerves though ( or they do mine ) LoL .. Just tell him what you think .. Being truthful is the best way to go ..

** HoPe I HeLpEd **

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

Well, some guys are shy about being open about who they like , b/c they are afraid they'll get turned down .. Just ask him plain out while your talking to him on the computer .. Just tell him that you'r confused about all of it .. And if he likes you then he'll come out and tell you .. ( I've had that kind of a problem too ) =)

** HoPe I HeLpEd **

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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

If I was you I'd tell her how I felt about her .. Girls like that kind of stuff .. ;)

** HoPe I HeLpEd **

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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?!

Personally, I wouln't go out with the guy in the lower grade b/c guys are already immature and to go out with a guy younger than you he'll be REALLY immature ... But that's just my advice ..

** HoPe I HeLpEd **

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girls say they love you, but they dont show it why is that?

How do you expect them to show it ?? Some girls don't know how to show it .. Then some girls do know how to show it but there afraid you might run off .. It just depends what the girls personality is ..

** Hope I Helped **

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ive been goin out with mi b/f 4 2 months almost 3 and i was wondering for valentines day if i culd get hm a cute card maybe a teddy bear that says i love you ? wuld guys hate if they get a teddybear ? wats relle sweet and cute to get them?

Okie Dokie .. Yeah I would go for the sweet card and the teddy bear .. But don't give it to him in front of his groupie b/ guys don't like that .. LoL

Hope I helped ..

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