17 years old, I've pretty much gone through anything and everything you could possibly think of so don't be afraid to ask me anything! Totally judge free :)
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Age: 17
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Why is my lip swollen and red and itchy after my boyfriend kisses me ? (link)
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if he has facial hair like my boyfriend the facial hair can irritate skin
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Hi, I'm 14/f and there's a boy in my grade that I have a massive crush on. The problem is, I don't know him all that well. I have talked to him a few times, and he laughed a lot when I told a funny story to the class. The problem is, my psychotic ex boyfriend TOLD him that I like him, to his face, with me standing right there. Most mortifying moment of my life. But anyway, he knows that I like him from that incident and like half of my friends have asked him if he knows me ( which he does.) Will he think I am a complete stalker? Does he think I'm creepy, or is he flattered? I guess I'm kind of pretty, nice, and I have friends... I'm not like a freak. Also, how do I talk to him now?? Won't it seem obvious that the only reason I'm talking to him is because I like him? I only have one class with him (and lunch as well) and I sit across the room from him. How do I talk to him? I get butterflies whenever I'm near him, and I always get scared to talk to him. He's really nice, funny, and a genius! Please help me! I really like him! (link)
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I totally know how you feel, well the only way he'd think you were creepy or stalkerish is if you were like constantly trying to talk to him lol, just start by asking him for his opinion on something you guys are working on in class, or ask for help or to check work, then just make small talk :) maybe a while after that try and message him after school and ask him about classwork, start the small talk again and then say somehting like I gotta go but here's my number, text me :) and if he texts you then you're good :)
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So my best guy friend recently got a gf. Ill start from the begining. My bestfriend got us to like eachother....a lot. I soon fell for him, and I think he did for me too. We Did do things (I.e. make-out) and soon after we were telling eachother that we loved eachother. He was the first one to say I love you too me also. So lately I asked him out..he said "I would. Say yes, but i might be going to jail, and I don't want a gf if I go to jail" I said "ok" kissed him, and he walked me home. I knew he also liked another girl along with me. So I'm guessing that either he asked her out, or she asked him..he apparently said yes. He decided to tell me over facebook....here i the conversation. Him:hey, I hve some bad news, me:ok what??, him: I kinda sorta have a girlfriend, me: oh....., him:yea, me:so what now?, him:idk, me:oh wait..let me guess who it is..(the other girl he liked name). He didn't reply, and soon after..he blocked and deleted me from his friends list. I don't understand why though... I don't think i did anything wrong, did I?? Can someone please tell me what is going on?? (link)
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well you most likely guessed right and he got touchy feeling about it. maybe he just didn't want you to mad about it so he didn't answer? boys aren't very logical, or mature for that matter so for him blocking you probably seemed like a smart move, he probably wasn't doing it to be mean!
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Okay, I'm sorry if this is long, or complicated I just need some advice. So I guess I'll start from the beginning then:
So it started in fall of 2009. I met this incredible guy on facebook... ( family friend knew him, not a complete stranger or anything) We didn't talk or anything, maybe comment on each others status's occasionally and then birthday's. Then I had some health problems and he was really nice during it. So a while passed and summer began. Around June we started talking a LOT .. like all the time just about anything. Then in the end of June we started dating. Again talked ALL the time about absolutly everything, our future, each other. It was amazing. We visited each other and everything.
Well apparently his mom found some of our IMs that she didn't approve of and I will admit we did mess up and talked a little to much about somethings we shouldn't. She doesn't like me, thinks I listen to bad music and that I'm a bad influence on him.
Now we get a limited time to talk, like it even matters because she reads everything!!! I feel like I'm talking to her. I can't talk about my music, or school, or heck no on our future. Idk what to do. Its so frustrating. I Love him but I just don't know if I can do this much longer... what would you do, or what do you suggest for me to do.. please I am so confused (link)
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Well you need to honestly talk to her! I know it sounds impossible but you need to tell her how you feel! Tell her you love her son and that your sorry she disapproves but her son loves you for you! You shouldn't have to change! Tell her how you make her son happy and that she wouldn't want to take that away from him! You can't help it! The heart wants what the heart wants you know?
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Okay, I need some advice about my situation. I want to send it to someone so its private, is there anyone who has experience in a long distant relationship?
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i have :)
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okay so I'm 16, almost 17 in 4 months. my boyfriend is 15, i am a year and one month older than him. he is in the 9th grade and im in the 11th (he was held back a year lol. its not as bad as it sounds.) we are both virgins, and i told him that i wanted to wait. it will almost be 6 months on prom, but im still wanting to wait. ive learned recently that waiting is a very good thing haha. but i want to just spend time with him. i want it to be sweet, romantic, and fun. i want him to have a good time. i have a best friend that he absolutely hates but i was going to see if we could go in on a beachouse together. i just dont know though. i want to spend it with some friends as well because i would not be able to pay for it all. i think the more the merrier, but i also wanted to spend it with him. so i was thinking of a bechhouse. the problem is he hates my bestfriend and if he goes (since he is still only 15) his step mom (who is always up his butt) says she will go to shaparone. honestly its my junior year, im almost 17....i do not need a stick in the mud chaparone and idt it would be fun for whoever else is with me either. also EVERYONE will be at the beach. ANOTHER problem we have is we live in walterboro SC. there is absolutely no good hotels here to hang out and spend the night at. we cant go and spend the night and have an afterparty at somones house because none of our parents are really THAT generous haha. i looked on the internet for ideas and it said camping, well i mean that is a good idea i just want it to be cozy though and stuff and walterboro or anywhere near is just sort of...gross. we cant rent a cabin bc there really isnt a cabin to rent. there arent that great of hotels here. also, i know we might go out to eat somewhere, i just dont want that to be it though. we need shelter!! i just need as many ideas as you can think of. also, i need help on the whole my boyfriends step mom situation. like if you were the stepmom you would like to know that everything will be okay. but how am i supposed to prove it to her or something. just help me out with that situation too please. MANY IDEAS AS YOU COULD THINK OF PLEASE! bc my brain is fried haha. thank you!! (link)
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me and my friends went lazer tagging. i know it sounds really nerdy but it was so much fun haha we went in our dresses and heels and everything which made for awesome pictures and great memories it was great! ask me about any other questions you may have :)
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I am 14 and I have had only one girlfriend so far. I am from argentina, and I would like you to tell me (specially girls) what is a good way to find someone I like (there isnt anyone at school who I like), and how to be a good BF if I find someone.
(btw, I am male) (link)
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well first of all your only 14 haha you have many years ahead of you to find a girl friend. have you personally met and talked to every single girl at your school? and you never know, looks may be decieving. the girl that YOU think looks mean and cranky may actually be the girl your destined to be with so give it a shot and if not like i said before. your only 14. wait till you graduate im sure there are new girls to come :)
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okay sooooo Ive been going out with this guy and I really like him.This morning he was great and all loving holding hands and kissing and then after 3rd hour today he told me he needed to clear his head (something was off about him). Some time alone. And asked if we can be friends for right now. I said we could. And he said thanks. So I dont know if that means he doesnt like me. Or hes not sure, or what
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i think he still likes you. a guy wouldn't typically act all lovey in the morning and then decide he doesn't like you. i think he problley just has alot on his mind and doesn't want to have to deal with a gf at the moment. give him some time. check up on him make sure hes okay. and i mean if you get really curious you could always just ask him if he still likes you ;)
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I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He wants me to come with him to his brother's house this weekend to watch a game with him, his brother, and a bunch of his brother's friends. So basically it'll be me and a bunch of guys, plus maybe his brother's wife.
Here's the dilemma: This guy that I'm seeing is four years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 22. In the beginning we were both skeptical about the age thing but now it makes no difference to us. I've already met his parents and his friends and they are all really nice and seem to be fine with the age thing.
I've never met his brother before but I know that they very close with each other. His brother is 30 so most of the guys who will be there will be around that age. I am just going to feel SO YOUNG and out of place. I dred them asking me what school I go to and me having to tell them I'm still in high school.
On the other hand, I think it says a lot that he wants me to meet his brother and wants to bring me to this "gathering". I feel that if I didn't go i might regret it. Basically I just don't want to feel awkward or unaccepted. I don't know what to think, say, or what on earth to wear.
Please help. Thanks!!
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Ummm deffinetly go. Hahaha I think your more affraid of the gender thing then the age diff. But for that I'm sure your bf's brothers wife is gonna feel the same. Chill with her! And if not then you always have your bf to hang with. What to wear. You want a good impression but you don't want to look like your trying to make a good impression so no skirts or boots. Tight jeans and flats and sneakers or something and then a tight top or semi tip top with a tiny bit low cut. Hahaha. Hope I helped.
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How can i make my girlfriend feel like the most im portant girl in the world? (link)
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Tell her she's beautiful. Hug her from behind. Give her your jacket. Tell her how much you like her when she's with her friends. Defend her even if its a stupid little fight. And simply tell her she's the most important girl in the world.
Good luck.
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im 13 years old and hes 14.
omg, ive liked him since last year, to last summer, to this year hahaa. so ive liked him for a while now, hoenslty, ithink im inlove, you might be rolling your eyes, but yeah thatdoesnt really matter right now, well we wer never THAT close to eachother, it was always like HI's and Byes or do you have a pencil? do we have h.w that stuff haha, but now this year me and him are pretty damn close, like in computer class we sit togehter and joke around and we'll go on paint and make fun of eachother, and he'll take my water bottle and like hide it from me and stuff and also when wer in class he'll be like go get me water,NOW!and he'll like be joking[my sis thinks its a way of flirting with me ] haha.
and whenever my sister is like talkin to him he has a straight face, and then when i come my sister notices him smirking and he neve rwants to look at me but ithink its cuase hes shy. but what do you guys think? i know yoiu cant know if he likes me or not but like what do you think about these stuff, im sorry its soo long haha :] htanks in advance kbye: ] (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you. But since your into the teasing thing I was in the same position. So be like (were gonna pretend his names joe) hey joe I heard this girl has a crush on you. And then keep giving him clues and eventually you'll be able to tell if he likes you through that if he keeps bugging you for an answer. Hope I helped!
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My significant other and I have been fighting a lot for the past month. I don't know whether to leave him alone or talk about it. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it, so i asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn't want to do that either. What should I do? I really want to get my mind off of him, and this situation. What should I do. Talking to him about it is not an option right now. (link)
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We'll its not healthy to stay in a realationship with someone if your fighting a lot and if he doesn't talk about it then how will you fix it? My soulution is since it seems obvious you still like him a lot then ask for a break. Like a week or two. It could be many things. Like something could have happened with a family or a close friend. Or bad credit. It could be anything so just try and see what happens. Hope I helped. :)
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Is it wrong to do sexual things with someone you are dating, but aren't going out with? Is that slutty? We've been dating for about a month and a half now. He is the only guy I'm seeing and I'm the only girl he's seeing.
And also if you're dating, are you considered to be in a relationship, or are you defined as single?
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Haha I'm in the same position as you. Its not wrong or bad if he's not seeing anyone eles. But if he does then I would back off a little because you don't wanna start unwanted drama. Ask him if he see's you guys as being in a realtionship any time soon.
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i've been going out with my friend karla for a while but ever since she got a bf weve been kind of distant, since i dont like him, and i think he's her favorite.
but i just got a bf, and he's like the perfect guy for me since he's bi too so he's a girly guy and well its just a perfect situation to be in, cept for one thing, my gf is pissed at me. she's says its b/c he's bi and thats why she doesnt like him but i doubt thats it, but i cant really tink of ne reason as to why she doesnt like him.
she's also ignoreing me, and being a real b*tch,
and i just dont know what to do....
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Oh my this is simpley easy. Probley cause I'm like the girliest girl! So anyways the reason she's pised is because she still likes you she's trying to hide her feeling by being pissed. I think shed probley be that way even if you were dating a girl. Either that or she could be homophobic. That's a tiny possibility though. But you seem happy with your boy friend so don't let her attitude affect the fun you have with him.
Hope I helped :)
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what are some good ways to turn my boyfriend on or tease him? he does it to me all the time and im trying to figure out how to do it back (link)
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Grab him by his shirt and pull him close and whisper thing in his ear. Lets say *naughty* things. Haha works trust me.
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Okay I'm 15 and a girl,there's this guy in my class,he sits next to on my right;he used to sit in back of me witch was great! Because I sortah have a crush on him.>//< I mean he's cute so yeah,I'm naturally handicapped when it comes to talking to guys.>//> I don't talk to him much,he sometimes says hi or tries to make conversation but I just smile slightly and nod then look away quickly like a weirdo freak.U~U
I don't mean to,but...I blush when ever I have to talk or even look at him...T-T
He has a girlfriend and I know her,we're cool with each other,I don't talk to her much anymore do to a schedule change but yeah.I just want to know if there's anyway I can stop blushing and making myself not look retarded and stupid infront of him... (link)
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Haha I know how you feel. I'm 14 and you probley don't want to hear this but there no way to stop blushing. And besides blushing is a good thing. If he see's you blush then he'll know you like him without you telling him. Maybe he likes you back? So if him and his GF breakup he'll come for you. If not every guy like to know that girls like him. You blushing will bump his ego. :) blush it up!
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18 female..
for the longest time i've like this boy but he had a girlfriend. well i couldn't let myself like anyone else and i knew he was well worth the wait. i hoped they would eventually break up but two and a half years later and they're still going out. now i know he wants to get with me but it's like he wants to still be with his girlfriend, but then also have me too and i don't want to be involved with that AT ALL and i made that clear to him. two weekends ago they went on a break. i was so happy, i thought this was finally my chance. i did have my doubts though, and even though i didn't want to get my hopes up i did anyways and as always, i'm hurt and alone. i talked to him last weekend, we were going to hang out but we didn't and i haven't talked to him since. well i was talking to my cousin tonight and she was like yeah, i think they're going back out or whatever you want to say. and i tried SO HARD to act like i didn't care. i was just like well yeah, i knew that was going to happen but whatever, i'm over it and she was like i'm sorry but i just think it's dumb because i know he doesn't want to be with her, i know he is just staying with her because their families are close (this is true). i'm just so done with this, i wan't to be over him SO bad. i can't put myself through this anymore but i'm so heartbroken. he's the only guy i have trusted, we're like best friends. i still want to be friends with him, i do love the boy but it's just so hard for me you know? i can't take this hurting anymore :( i hang out with my friends, but all i can think of is him. i hang out with other guys, but to me, they're just friends i could NEVER see myself dating any of them which makes me want him even more. i just have so much hate for him, he's put me through so much and i feel like i want to make him jealous. i want to make him realize that he could of had something good with me, but didn't want to take the chance but i don't want to piss him off to the point where he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. how can i talk to him about this? i just want to be like, well have fun with her, i'm going to hang out with the boys or something like that. i'm having so many mixed emotions. i feel like without him, i'm nothing. i can't concentrate in school because i'm always thinking about him. i can't have fun on the weekends because i know he is with her. i can't sleep at night because of him. i can't let him go, as much as i want to. i've tried not talking to him, it honestly hurt even more. i don't have luck with guys. i've never went out with a guy before because i have trust issues and he was the only one i trusted. i don't know what to say to him, i wan't him to know that i am hurt. i wan't him to know he lost the chance with me and that i'm finally moving on..i wan't him to know i can be happy without him. i feel so alone right now, you guys don't even know. i feel like he ripped out my heart and stomped on it right in front of me. (link)
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I know you probley won't believe me but I know how you feel. And I'm so glad you asked this. I'm 14 and this guy told me he liked me so much and that I was so special and then he went and dated this other girl the next day. And I hated him so badly because well he used me pretty much. Anyways I totally vented at him over it when she wasn't around and it was good. What I told him was (you can use this if you want)
Look just hear me out. You messed around with feelings which was unfair and now I'm stuck here feeling like crap over it. You told me lies and dated that girl. I still like you a lot but I don't want to date you. I think were better off friends, permantly.
That's what I said and weird thing was he understood. And now he's on girl number 3 and were still super tight. Like you I trusted and trust him so much thas why I felt used but a guy like that that your describing wouldn't trash a trust thing luke that. Hope this helps.
*and besides a girl only needs three men in her life. Her daddy, ben and jerry. Hahaha :)
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