Gabrielle and Danielle are 15 year old females who want to help the world. If you need advice, come to them. They know you have problems, and they are here to help. They will not judge you. You will get two points of view, Gabrielle and Danielle's. So there will be a choice. Be prepared. ;) "We want to help you, there is no stupid question, or silly situation."
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Alright... so i've been dating this guy for a couple of months and I broke off with him today... the reason why I broke it off with him is because I couldn't handle not seeing him only 2-3 times a month. He's in college and lives about 30-45 minutes away from me. I broke it off because he doesn't really pay attention to me and although he is a really nice guy I just think he's not ready to be more than just friends and he agreed that he "doesn't know what he wants." The last couple of months have been pretty bumpy because I went to get tested for HIV the first time in my life and I told him. He never asked how it went and didn't talk to me for a couple of days after I told him and so that was pretty much my deciding factor. I was really scared and needed someone to be there and he wasn't there for me just like he wasn't there a couple of times we'd been dating. So anyway, I talked to him on AIM and asked him some questions and he said that I've been bitchy lately and distant and I told that I have been because, "everytime I get atttached to you I end up being more disappointed than not." and he said some hurtful things and I was like "well, then I guess this is the best thing for both of us." and then he said... "well, fuck you too." and then blocked me... I feel really bad because I've never had to break up with anyone. Usually i'm the one that gets broken up with... I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should call him or wait a couple of days and then call him. I told one of my older friends and he was like, if he isn't mature enough to have that type of conversation and go through the whole, "no hard feelings thing" then he's not worth your time... I just grrr. I hate being cross with someone... anyway... some help? By the way, he's caused me a lot of tears because I constantly thought about him and he came off like he's never really thought about me. I think he's just a really passive guy and that he really does care about me, but doesn't know what to do... Also, distance is probably a factor, but I think it's just the chemistry between us wasn't good enough. The first few weeks we went out was really good because he'd pay attention to me and then the later weeks got worse and worse where he wouldn't text me or IM me. *sigh* help please :( (link)
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Danielle: Honey, I clutch this letter to my swelling heart. First, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. If he's the kinda guy that made you cry, the ugly bum needs to be put out on the streets! But, if he really cared about you, he wouldn't have been all, "fuck you" and he wouldn't have blocked you. You did the right thing, and DO NOT CALL HIM. Let him come to you if he wants closure. But for now, you do not need some jerk like that in your life. The best way to get over a guy...is too.......
GET A NEW ONE! ;) But if you can't move on right now, take it easy.
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ok so basically;
i really liked this guy , hes not really ot just cute and really nice, but thats thhe thing:hes too nice. hes a doormat and peolpe keep telling me that im using him, but im not and it only occured to me he was a door mat like today. anyway i guess i just dont know what to do, should i stop flirting with him? (link)
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Gabrielle: No,No,NO! Follow your heart. Flirt until you decide to go to the next step. If he is a doormat, once you get into a deeper relationship, tell him he is a softie, a doormat, a beezie! Tell him to tuffin up and get on the long haul to manhood, then give him a nice gentle kiss and walk away. Be good to him, if you feel he is too soft for you, go to a tuffer boulder in the pack.
Danielle: Well, do what your heart tells you and where it tells you to go,follow.
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if a guy calls you kfc wat does that mean? (link)
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It means a slut or a fat slut
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ok there is this girl at my school who i used to date, but it did not really go all that well, i was too shy. first of all i do not know how to overcome that, and second, ever since we broke up i have realized more and more how much i love her and want her, even though we rarely talk. she is also leaving at the end of this school year, i want to tell her that i love her, but it sounds so stupid. (link)
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Gabrielle: Nothing you say is stupid. You cannot hold in your feelings. You need to tell her how you feel immediatley. Don't tell her at the end of the year, she'll be gone and you won't be able to have the relationship that you can have if you tell her now. And if you tell her then, she might have a boyfriend and then what. If you don;t get your feelings returned, than don't sweat it. You can have another girl.
DANIELLE: First of all, no love is stupid. I suggest you tell her you love her before she leaves or you will have to live with the fact that you didn't for the rest of your life. If she is smart, she'll accept your love because any boy would have to be sweet and kind to pour his heart out to this advice column. I wish you the best of luck.
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what are the best ways to become closer to guy friends? and what are some things guys look for in a girl to just hang out with? (link)
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Gabrielle: Well, try to get into what he likes if you want to hang. If he enjoys sports, play and watch sports with him. If he enjoys money, spend lots of money with him, but not on him. And anything else he enjoys, enjoy it with him! If you want to get closer, do that and try to hint him and let him know how you feel, don't just say it, hint him out, if you want to go out and tell him you wanna be closer, than do that. But, dont be to quick about it or you may lose a good or great as hell friend.
Danielle: Do a full on investigation. Try to find out what kind of girl he likes, his hobbies. If you aren't interseted in what he is, don't try to play it off like you do, things will end badly.
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i like a guy, and i know he likes me back.
he said he wants to hang out..but since we both like each other, how is that any different from a date? is it a date? (link)
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Danielle: Think to yourself doll, how did he ask you? Was he in a more relaxed tone of voice like he was talking to one of his guy friends, or waws he a little nervous? Exactly where did he ask you to go out, if he asked you near his home, he probably wants to chill, but if he asked you out to a movie or to eat, it leans toward the dating thing. So if it is a date, go buy a new outfit that is hanging in the shop window at the mall and break some hearts. ;)
Gabrielle: Well Hun, if I have been in lots of situations like that, and if you don't like to be crushed, take this advice. Well, If he asked you around lots of buds or wasn't really paying attention to you, well, it's probably asking to chill. If he asked you to be alone, and then asked you paying more attention to you than ever, it's a date! Go get that make-up and ask a friend to beautify you. ;)~
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