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Whatever you want it to be :o)
when ever i have a boyfriend they always think im cheating on them because i flirt so much but thats just what i do and i dont know how to not flirt as much
This kinda used to happen to me. My girlfriends would get pissed at me because they'd always accuse me of flirting with their boyfriends and i wasn't even aware that i was doing it. It was really hard cause i felt i couldn't even talk to the guys anymore cause i'd get accused of flirting so i just kinda stopped talking to them...stopped being nice and helpful...for awhile and then everyone got over it.
what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship
Hmm this is a tough one. On first thought i was gonna say to tell the guy because he deserves to know what`s really going on. But then i thought it would really suck to lose this friendship. Maybe you could like, tell someone who you know will spill the beans or something. Then you wouldn`t be the one who told but he`d still find out about it.
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused
No one can really answer the question for you. Only you can know if you love him or not. That IS kind of young for finding your true love but hey, it`s happened before.
I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?
No way! The first time i even kissed a guy I was 16 years old. I had had boyfriends before, i was popular and lots of guys liked me, but i just hadn't got around to that yet. It happens at different times for different people...don't think you're weird because of it! Just go with the flow!
ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? thanks soo much!
=] thanks a zilxillion
Alright kind of complicated but i think i understand. First off i think that Jeremy just doesn't talk to you sometimes cause he's nervous. Guys are weird like that. Don't think you're doing anything wrong...it's just the way things work sometimes. If he told his friends he wants to get serious with you it's probably true, just give him some time to get used to you and stuff. Get to know each other better. As for the drinking thing, as long as it doesn't get to be a real problem you shouldn't tell him what to do. Guys don't like girls telling them what to do. They feel trapped. As for the whole Ewelina thing...if she swears that nothing will go on between her and Jeremy and if Jeremy seems genuinly interested in you, then you should give it a shot. Hope i helped!
I have this boyfriend and I need some serious advice. I love him do not get me wrong on what i am about to say. He is an alcoholic. It didn't bother me at first. He used to let me do what i wanted when i wanted and now it's like i have to beg and plead with him to do what i want to do. He expects me to be at his house as soon as i get off work. If i'm not he's mad and we fight. Not all the time but..the majority. He gives me a time to be home and i am . When i tell him a time he says he will do as he pleases.
sometimes he is real mean to me. I cry cause it hurts me. somdays it's like he doesn't want to be together anymore. So then i told him if you want me to leave i will leave. I will get my shit and never come back. Then he pleaded with me . he said no. I love you please don't leave. We play around and sometimes he plays to rough. It's like he doesn't care. I let him go to girls house or even be alone with a girl. But..if i do the same he accuses me of cheating.
He has only hitt me twice out of anger. I buy his cigs,his beer and any thing else he wants.Sometimes he calls me mean names and I've asked him not to. It feels somtimes like he wants hiss cake and he wants to eat it to. Please help me. I don't know what to do anymore.
wow this is tough. even tho you love the guy you should really consider breaking up with him. he's making your life a living hell and you deserve to be treated better than that. you really HAVE to do something about it and soon. you should NOT tolerate being abused this way.