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20. Mother of a 1 year old baby girl. Daycare provider.
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester,Ny
Occupation: Daycare
Age: 20
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Member Since: November 6, 2010
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k;; well me nd this guy have been dating 2 months;; we have only made out but talked about him fingering me; he felt me up nd he played with me down there many times he tried getting farther but i stopped him;; we were at the movies nd he felt me up;; the started ggoin down;; i felt a little uncomfortable then he just started fingering me ;; then i felt good i let him keep doing it;; i finallly stopped him; im 13 am i a slut? (link)
If your only sleeping with him or letting him finger you then no your not a slut..


Hey. 15/f, It may help if you go to google and search "William Suh Arrest". And read the articles first. But once you read that, read this. Im the victim in the charge, and although its almost two years later...I dont know what to do. I still miss/love him so much. And I know he loves me to. We wrote 2 letters to eachother, and in both he expresses how much he love's and misses me. and how he cant wait to be home.
Its complicated, but although he is 11 years older then me... I love him...How do I get over this so I can finally move on? (link)
I understand that you have feelings for this person. He has gotten other girls like you under his wings and he may not be a bad guy in your eyes but if he can threaten you or your family and other girls and there family then thats not a healthy relationship and you need to seek help from a therapist or a friend and talk it out because this isn't a easy think to get over.


My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. She's a nice girl but I don't have those feelings of love for her. I've been trying to wait it out, thinking that I'd start to feel the magic sometime, but it ain't happening. She's really into me and I'm just not into her. She's nice and all but that's about it. How can I dump my girlfriend without hurting her? I know I need to let my girlfriend down easy but how? (link)
Breaking up with her is going to hurt regardless of what you do or say.. Just tell her how your truly feel about her don't sugar coat it because if she some how finds out in the end its just gonna hurt more.


So this guy wants to finger me and it'd be my first time that someone else has done it to me, and what do i do when he does? (link)
Sit back and relax and enjoy haha no but for real relax dont be so tense or he'll think you dont like it and he'll stop


Me and my bf broke up because i found out he was using me for my money and 2 days after i told him to come see me and we were sitting in his car outside of my house and when we were done talkin i told him good bye for the last time and he started getn aggressive then he pushed me and the back seat and pinned my hands down and had sex with me. Idk if this is rape or not. Anyways i might be pregnant idk what should i do? (link)
Whether you guys are together or not if you didn't want to have sex that is RAPE! And you should tell your parents or notify someone in school about it because whos to say he won't do it again when he gets angry not just to you but to anyone he seriously needs help. If your pregnant then the choice is up to you but don't make the baby pay for his mistakes by getting an abortion if you dont want it put it up for adoption.


Ok, so me and this guy, we'll call him Bob, have become pretty close. He hasn't asked me to officially be his yet, but it's at that point where we might as well be. Well, the other night, I got kinda drunk, and I ended up kissing a long-time friend who's been crushin on me the whole time we've known each other. Actually, it was more like make-out. Afterwards, I felt really guilty, and he reminded me that I am still technically single. When I told my best friend, she yelled at me and told me that I did cheat. Now, I feel kind of guilty and kind of not. I don't wanna tell Bob, but I also don't wanna screw up a potentially really good relationship. Advice on what I should do? (link)
No, You didnt cheat if he didnt have the balls to ask you out then thats his fault. A girl can only wait so long. I imagine how you probably felt but you can't feel bad over something like that if your not even dating each other.




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