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Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally
It could mean he's obsessed with you and wants to be just like you, or more than likely it's just a coincidence. I'm not him, so I have no idea what he's thinking, but it's possible he may like you. He just doesn't know you that well yet.
You said you're both emo, so that should instantly give you some ideas of things to talk about. Talk about music. Find out what kind of songs or bands you both like. Ask him or friends of his about some of the stuff he likes. Find things you have in common. Just try and establish somewhat a friendship with him. If he knows you like then he may be somewhat intimidated. Give him time to adjust to you. If he does like you, he'll make a move when he's ready.
ok.. well this kid i thought i liked was being a really nice guy and all of a sudden we start getting into all these fights. he does have a girlfriend and he knows that i have feelings for him and he promised me that him having a girlfriend wouldnt change anything but i think it has. and sometimes it seems like he only goes out with girls that he thinks are hott and my friend asked what he thought of me and he said i was ok :-( and my guy friend was like dont worry about it. but now i dont know if i like my guy friend or the guy i was pretty sure i liked. soo i got 2 questions.. what do i do about the guy i was pretty sure i liked and how i think things have changed and #2 about me not being sure if i like my friend or not
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As far as your first question goes I really think it's difficult to maintain a friendly relationship with a guy you like when he has a girlfriend. Things will always be awkward because he'll be so close yet so far (if you get what I'm saying.). You didn't specify what you two are always fighting about but I'm almost positive that if he olny dates the 'hot' girls then he's probably not very good boyfriend material. I'm sorry to say this, but he seems almost shallow. If you still want to try to be friends with this guy then the best thing you can do is confront him and ask him why things between the 2 of you are changing. Talk it out. Good luck!
Okay... question # 2: Most people don't like to start relationships with close friends because they don't want to loose that friendship. It's really up to you. You need to follow your heart (okay that was soo corny, but it's true!). If you think you like your friend why not give it a try? It's worth a shot. he obviously seems to care about you.
Good luck, however I don't think this was the best advice ever but it's late (2:30 am) and I don't know why but this question kind of had me stumped :/ ... but i hope I helped nonetheless. Let me know how it turns out for you!
I'm 14 and have never had a boyfriend or made out with anyone, i know many people have this problem so that's not such a big deal. The problem is I'm an outgoing person, just like a lot of my friends, but guys never seem to like me as more than a friend... Now my best friend got a job this summer and she's changed so much! She's a guy magnet! she hangs out with all these 17 and 18 year old guys who like her! I'm a little jealous but she's always gotten who she wants so oh well..I'm worried that when we go back to school the guys will be all over her. I think i've changed this summer (personality wise) and i hope they notice. I'm wondering what can I do to approach a guy? and give him the right idea about me when I first meet him? How can I show a guy there's more to me that meets the eye? thanks! ~ E
Hmm, good question. Actually excellent question.
The thing you should know about guys is that most of them are extremely shy when it comes to girls. It's hard for them to approach a girl they like. Most guys prefer a girl that makes the first move. So I suggest that if you happen to see one you like just go up to him and start a conversation. I know this is over used but if you want to make a lasting impression, try being yourself. You shouldn't have to try and change yourself for any guy. Eventually you'll find one who will like you for you.
Try to find common interests. Ask him a few questions about himself but not too many! while some guys enjoy talking about themselves :/ . . . most would prefer to keep the converstaion focused on you. I've also found, from past experiences, that if you can make a guy laugh you'll instantly be in his good books. I don't really recommend this but... you could try observing your best friend. watch how she flirts and try incorperating those things into your conversation with a guy.
Good Luck!
i feel so dumb..anyways..what am i suppose to do? like when my b/fs givin me a hickey or kissing me somewhere other than my mouth or doing other things..yah you know..umm like i dont know how to describe it, i just sit there like "duh"..what are some things to do to actually acknowledge what he's doing, show him that i like it, or idk..lol anything so that i'm just not sitting there..?
Don't feel dumb, you're definitely not the only person who's asked this. It's a perfectly normal question.
I know this going to sound corny and over used, but if a guy does something to you that's pleasurable a good responce is to moan. Most guys get a kick out of being able to make a girl moan. I don't want to seem like a pervert but most guys like it if a girl put her hands up his shirt and rub his chest. Just experiment and find things that you can do to please him as well.
omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..hmm plz help
Hey hun, don't worry too much about your first kiss. It may seem like a big deal now, but in a few years you'll laugh about how much you obssesed about it. First kisses are rarely that great anyway.
You also shouldn't worry about what your boyfriend will think. Simply explain to him you've never kissed anyone before (don't be embarrassed to do so either!), if he loves you he'll understand and help guide you through it. After awhile you'll see it gets a lot easier.
This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help?
It's always hard to get over your boyfriend. It wont happen immediately, so give it some time.
Usually what I do to get over a guy is to keep myself busy. I hung out with my friends that I knew would be able to help me deal with the situation. I also joined a sports team, it helped release all of my pent up anger i had for my ex. I always bake when I'm feeling down... I don't really know why... You could also try meeting new people.
I also know that sometimes you may want to be alone, which is perfectly fine. Everyone need their alone time. I don't know about you, but I tried to write poetry. It helped clear up all my emotions. The poems were horrible and when I look back now, it's just something to laugh about. Good luck!
Okay, the thing is, I'm confused. I know this is going to sound stupid, but I need to ask. People are always asking about tips on kissing and making out. I've never done either of those things, but what gets me muddled is the whole 'it comes naturally' thing. I mean, is it really based on instinct, or should i be worried about my first time doing all those things? (I'm having a hard time getting my point across here, work with me). People ask things like 'where should i put my hands' and 'what kind of kiss' and 'how do you french'. Are those things that you really need advice about, or do they really all come naturally and people only fret because they haven't done them? Is it better to have people tell you how-to's so it'll go better, or is it all going to come together anyway? I hope you don't find me too silly for asking, I'm just(like I stated before) confused! Thank you to all who choose to answer
I've seen questions like those all over here and those particular ones are the ones I choose not to answer.
I think for the most part, kissing does come naturally, but for some, their instincts are not as clear. No one can really tell you how to be a good kisser. And how-to's usually never work. You can't make someone a good kisser simply by telling them what to do. I don't think it works like that.
I hate people who assume that everyone will know how to kiss their very first time just because it'll come naturally. First kisses are usually horrible anyway. Really the only thing that can make you a good kisser is practice. Don't expect your first kiss to be amazing. It usually never is.
Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15.
I really don't think you should miss out on all the fun because of one guy. I say go, have a good time. But if all this guy wants to do is make-out then I say stick to your guns. If your not ready to do that then don't. Let him know that you think he's cool but you don't want to make-out with him just yet. If he tries to pressure you into doing it then he obviously isn't the type of guy you'd want to be involved with anyway.
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i meet this bout a week ago and he came over to my house on Saterday and meet my parents...and he asked me out when he came over...the best thing is that he was the 1st guy to come to my house meet my paretns and ask me out in person...so i was pretty happy bout that...well i really really like him alot...i maen i know its not to the point of love...but he says that he mite love my but it's to soon to tell..n i think the same thing...but we never get to see each other cuz we go to diff skools we...but we both see each other almost every weekend...would say its going to be a good realtionship...??
I think you'll do just fine. He seems really sweet. Not many guys will actually come over, meet your parents and then ask you out. You don't need to see eachother everyday to have a strong relationship. During the week there's always the phone or the internet so it's not like your cut off from all contact with him. And then that just gives you something else to look forward to on the weekends!
im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him?
since you've remained friends with him it's going to be hard to forget about him. Try hanging around other friends, or meet new people (a new future boyfriend perhaps?). Just don't completely ditch him. Keep yourself busy but just remember that it's ok to still be hung up on this guy. You'll probably never completely get over him but eventually it'll all work out.
SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS
There are tons of things to help keep you busy during the day. You just gotta get creative. When my last boyfriend broke up with me I baked . . . a lot. lol I do that a lot when I'm upset. Just an idea. Since you have to watch your brother why don't you spend some time with him? I'm not sure how old he is but you could take him to the park or to a movie maybe. Shopping is also a good stress reliever, if you like shopping anyway. Maybe join a summer sports team or something. And if you're getting annoyed with your current bestfriend you could use this as an opportunity to meet new people and maybe a future boyfriend? =P Hope I helped. Good Luck!