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Want to catch some attention
I'm 14 and have never had a boyfriend or made out with anyone, i know many people have this problem so that's not such a big deal. The problem is I'm an outgoing person, just like a lot of my friends, but guys never seem to like me as more than a friend... Now my best friend got a job this summer and she's changed so much! She's a guy magnet! she hangs out with all these 17 and 18 year old guys who like her! I'm a little jealous but she's always gotten who she wants so oh well..I'm worried that when we go back to school the guys will be all over her. I think i've changed this summer (personality wise) and i hope they notice. I'm wondering what can I do to approach a guy? and give him the right idea about me when I first meet him? How can I show a guy there's more to me that meets the eye? thanks! ~ E
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Hmm, good question. Actually excellent question. <br>
The thing you should know about guys is that most of them are extremely shy when it comes to girls. It's hard for them to approach a girl they like. Most guys prefer a girl that makes the first move. So I suggest that if you happen to see one you like just go up to him and start a conversation. I know this is over used but if you want to make a lasting impression, try being yourself. You shouldn't have to try and change yourself for any guy. Eventually you'll find one who will like you for you. <br>
Try to find common interests. Ask him a few questions about himself but not too many! while some guys enjoy talking about themselves :/ . . . most would prefer to keep the converstaion focused on you. I've also found, from past experiences, that if you can make a guy laugh you'll instantly be in his good books. I don't really recommend this but... you could try observing your best friend. watch how she flirts and try incorperating those things into your conversation with a guy. <br>
Good Luck!
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