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I walked in on my very hot teacher and his wife going at it in the janitors closet one day because i was helping my principal for community service points clean her office. when i came back she asked me what was wrong cause i was mortified. seriously. this is no joke. so i dont know if i should tell her or not. but when i went to class the next day i felt very awkward and i could tell my teacher did too. so later him and his wife saw me walking down the hall and asked me if i wanted to join them at their house, as long as i didn't tell. should i tell the principal or should i join them? seriously. anyboyd that just wants to laugh at me can screw off because this is a very serious problem and i'm really stuck andi dont know what to do. please help
This is a tuffy, but I can see where you're coming from and why you're confused.
First of all I do not think that you should join them. Have you considered why they want you to join them? I don't think that this is the best way to go because they know that they were doing something that they shouldn't have been doing at that time or place so they want to keep you happy and content so that you won't tell.
I think that you should tell the principal because she has a right to know what kinds of things are being done under her nose for minors to see, for any one to see.
Your teacher should have talked to you about it right away so its obvious that he's trying to hide it, even though that's not the best thing to do.
I think that you should call together a meeting with your principal and your teacher. At the meeting say to your teacher, "Okay, I think that (your principal's name) has a right to know what was going on and I think that it would be better coming from you." If he refuses to talk or does anything that you take as threatening or "don't say it" tell the principal what you witnessed yourself. It won't be easy but the sooner the better.
Also, make sure that you tell your parents what happened just so that they're aware of it.
Good luck on your problema nd I truly hope that this helps.
ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but it seems like he never notices me! we talk in my math class sometimes but never outside of class! how do i get him 2 notice him cause i always dress nice and stuff but i dont know what else to do!! pleaz help!
Well, you could always offer to turor him if he's not very good at math. Just smile at him in the halls, say hi and stuffc, eventually he'll start saying it too and you can talk to him about more stuff, just go easy at first. If he's better at math than you, you could ask him for help. Just be yourself around him, send him a note if that's your style. maybe if there's spare4 time at the end off class you could bring a gmae like cards or something to play with your freinds and invite him in too. Just some thoughts. Good luck!!
is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one
If you are truly and completly in love, and you are positive that you are with your soulmate and the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life. Then yes, I think you are old enough. But, to be married legally you need the approval of both sets of parents. Of course, you and your boyfreind could have your own private ceremony, with your parents or not, and give each other vows and rings. You could even get real vows that a preist or rabbi would say off-line to read or have read. Good Luck with your decision, and your future husband!!
Can a person be in love in 8th grade? Or is it just bogus? I do believe I'm in love and I wondering if it really is love. All of my friends alkways say I'm in love with this boy and I have been for a while. Thanks!
Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. Love is different for every couple, and can't be measured or categorized by certain standards. For me, love is when you feel wonderful around that one special person, and can see yourselves together in the future. It's all about what you think. If you truly honetly believe it's love without anny doubts, it probably is. Good luck with your future boyfreind!!
just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.
A lot of people on those match maker sites will keep their adds up because they like talking to a lot of different people. My freind herself talks to about three or four guys herself, just because she likes having people to talk to without the fear that she'll be embarrased or have her secrets told. He probably just likes to talk to different people. But, he sounds really serious about you. Diamonds are a big deal! He loves being with you, but likes talking to other people. Hope I could help a little bit! Good luck with your budding romance!!
my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
He loves you, thats why he wants you to marry him. Since he loves you that much, he probably doesn't see anything wrong with telling people. When you're in love, a lot of people want to tell the world. Not letting him tell might actually make him feel bad, and make him think you're ashamed of him or something. Which is ridiculous, you are marrying him, but still. Guys are complex. But if you are shy and don't want to be the center of attention, you should just tell him how you feel. Exactly, and your not wanting to be the center of attention. He'll most likely understand. Or, you could just let him tell a few people that you are both close to, that way he can let out his excitment to someone. He probably feels like the luckiest guy in the world and just wants to tell everyone what a catch he has! It will make him feel estatic that you love him enough to marry him! Good Luck!! Have a great wedding, I wish you the happiest years with your beau!!
Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do??
No offence, but it doesn't sound like this guy wants a real relationship with you. I think he just wants the sex and attention. If he said he doesn't know if he loves you the same anymore, but still wants to sleep with you, leave him. He'll admire your gut. If you really don't want to leave him, tell him exactly how you feel, and stop having sex with him, if you can't have a normal relationship for a couple of weeks without sex, it probably won't work. I'm really not trying to be rude! I wish you the best of luck, and hopefully you get the guy!
My friend ask me a question I dont know what to tell her.She asked if she should got out with this guy that really connects with her or stay with the guy that shes already with.She said her boyfriends a nice guy and is sweet but this other guy she thinks that likes her and she likes him,they got alot in common and can talk to him without being shy but he moves in the middle of the summer.Her boyfriend will always be there for her,So WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER?I'm 13,she's 13 the guys are also 13.
Wow. That sounds like a horrible predicament! Well, If she doesn't like being with her current boyfreind, and can't be herself around him, I would tell her that she should leave him. It would be nice if they could stay freinds though. And, as for the other guy, If he's moving it would be difficult to keep a relationship, but if she really likes him, and can be herslef around him, I say go for it! Long-Distance relationships can be tough, but they're not impossible! It sounds like she wants to leave her current boyfreind, since she likes another guy, but doesn't quite know how to break it off. I would have her sit him down sometime when they're both happy and calm, and have her explain that she would rather just be freinds, since it sounds like she doesn't want to hurt him and still wants to be close. He might take it hard at first, but it will be okay. It sounds like the other guy is perfect for her! And, thank you for asking, it shows that you're a true freind, trying to help her with her problems. Good luck to both of you!
Well, the KC metro area...
I go to the movies often enough,
Not much of a drinker or Dancer - don't really like smokey rooms so Clubbing and bars aren't usually my thing.
Anyone have any good suggestions as to how to kill time with friends or with a date here in the Kansas City / Overland Park area?
Well, I'm not in the Kansas area, but I understand what you mean. I hate smokey rooms, and bars, and drinking. You guys could spend Friday nights at home playing games, watching TV, or listening to music? Or you could throw a party every once and a while with your rules. That way you could just have good clean fun! On a date you could go out to dinner at a local cafe or coffee shop. You could go to the park and just hang out, or walk down to the local 7Eleven, if they have those in Kansas. Or Slurpee/Slushie shop. Ice-Cream is always good too. You could go to the batting cages if you're into sports. Scrap Booking? I hope you can find something to do! Hope I could be of some help! Good Luck!!
Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?
BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...
what should I do about this.. I really need help! :(
I think she might be playing with you. Sorry, but, I've seen girls at my school do the same thing. It feels good to know that someone really likes you, but when she heard you say that you loved her, she probably knew that it was over. I'm sure she didn't mean for you to fall in love with her. She just wanted the attention, and the flirting. By the way, I'm fifteen, and I've never had anyone tell me they love either. You're not alone! Just wait, I'm sure the right girl will come along someday soon, and then you can both be happy. Maybe you should tell this girl what you thought she was doing, and see if it was a missunderstanding. I wish I could help more! I wish you the very best! Just find out what she meant, and look around for that someone special, who might be right under your nose, you just didn't notice! Lots of Luck!!
Hey Everybody!
My High School will be having a Sweethearts Dance in February, and the girls ask out the guys. Well, there's this guy I like and in the past we had our little trouble times, but I think he likes me again! I want to ask him, but I don't know how. So, do any of you know how I should ask him to the dance?
I know I have asked this question before, just a little reminder because I need to ask him, now! So if you have anymore ideas, tell me as soon as possible!!
Love you guys.
~MiSSc~
P.S.~ I wanna do something sweet for him since he's a sweet guy. I want to ask him out that involves a poem, chocolate (because he loves chocolate), or anything special or cool. So, Got any tips?
Wow, it sounds like you already know sort of what you want to do but need some reasurence. So you've asked him out once before? Well, first to see if he would go with you before going to all the trouble of writing a poem, I would talk to him and casually mention the dance and see if he's already going, and see if he acts interested in taking you. Since you have suspicionws of him liking you now, he probably didn't say anything to you because after he said no to you beffore, he'd feel like a jerk asking you out now. So go for it! After you talk to him, prepare something really special for the next day. Guys think its cute when girls like poems, and most guys like girls who are artistic. Maybe you could get him a red rose, or yellow if you're not comfertable with red. Or wright a note and stick it in his chocolates. Hope that I helped a little at least!