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Name:MicheLLe
Age:14
Hieght:4'11
Hair color:BrOwn
EyeS:BrOwn
Statz:Single ;)
Family:I live with my mommah daddy and my older brother

..If yah waNt tO knOw aNythinG elSe juSt leT me knOw


Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: xCheLLe911x
Member Since: July 16, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: August 9, 2004
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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
Dont feel bad. Things happen when they are supposed to ...Your first kiss should be special so dont rush anything. Just wait patiently and it will come soon enough and when it does you will be glad ou didnt waste it on someone meaningless. Hope I helped!


well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
Well you cant really help who you like. So go to your friend and tell her how your feelin. Then if shes ok with it go for it!


ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused! (link)
Alright ..this guy seems like a total jerk. I've known plent of guys like him and they arent worth your time. If he is doing this now then it can only get wrose as time progresses. Im sure you can find someon who is honest and likes you for you and not what his friends think. I say... keep lookin!


I'm 14 and my boy friend and I have been togather since June 29 and its been good but there's one problem I live in the country and he lives in the city and its geting harder and harder every day to me cause we cant even talk on the phone cause it would be long distnace. Plus some times he goes out of town and we cant even talk on the computer cause at the other place he dont have a computer there and now he's down there and I really need to see him. I have a feeling that its not gonna work but I'm trying to hold on. I really love him. What should I do? (link)
All in all ...long distance relationships are hard. But all you have to say to yourself is ..."is it going to be worth it in the end?" Maybe this is jsut one hard bump yall have to get over. If you love him then this should be cake. Just hold onand I hope things work out for the best!


thers this guy i really like and he says he likes me too we dont really live THAT far away frum eachother but we always say wer gonna see eahtother and we never do i really like him our plans just never work out...any ideas n where we can go?/ (link)
hMm ...How old are you?


See me and this guy have been dating for some time. And we see eachother like everyday! But last week I had to go home to my fathers because I hadn't seen him in a while and since then I have only seen him once. But for some reason i think I am chasing him away by being with him all the time. and I don't like calling his house anymore because his mother thinks I call to much which I think i really don't but some days I might! But I really think I love him and I don't know how he feels about me it's just so confusing. Like when he is with certain people he wont want to bother with me or even talk to me on the phone. I don't think some of his family and friends really aprove of me so much either. I just don't know what to do. Beacuse He seems to hind things from me. And I don't know if he is using me or not, but some people seem to think he is. what should I do?

signed Confused Person! (link)
Honesty...thats what you need. Tell this guy how you are feeling. And if he isnt intersted in making things better then you dont need him anyway. There are plent more fish in the sea and im sure you can find someone who can treat you the way you deserve to be treated. and NOBODY is worht getting so worked up over that you cut yourself.

Hope it helped!


Lately i have been feeling very depressed because my boy friend has been at camp for a while and i really miss him n i alwayz think of negative things that that could be goin on or that he could be doin at camp see'in that its in maine n we live in berkley, mass so im alwayz talkin bout how much i miss em n cryin but im tryin not to think bout the negative things im tryna think positive things like he misses me as much as i miss him n he is alwayz thinkin bout me n like he is stayin away from otha girls n stuff but im tryna figure out ways to get the negatives off my mind n kno that my boy friend is not foolin round i mean i have been wid him for like a lil more then 9months n he has neva like screwed up in that way but im juss worried cuz he iz far from home n stuff so help me plz!!!!!


.*.>> a cry for help (link)
Well..the only thing you can do is hope for the best. Ifhe hasnt messed up in 9 months..he most likey wont do it agian. What you need to do is just do something to take your mind of of him for a while. It might be hard but it can be done. If you trust him then it should be just.

Hope it helped!


umm i was the one who had the crush on sum1 n didnt wanna talk....ik we should chill but id want him to think im clinggy asking to chill with him too much...helpppppp (link)
I say ..just go for it! lol ...who knows ..maybe he will love the companny you give him... and if he dosent..then there are PLENTY more fish in the sea. Why would you want to be with someone who dosent want to be with you? Just do what you want. Hope things work out for the best!...
CheLLe

if yah need ne thing else...JUST ASK!
let me know how it goes!



ok well .. i'm very critical on myself .. i think im soo ugly my friends say im not but i mean what r they gonna say ya i kno u r .. so they could b liein i mean ive had bfs nd stuff but i dnt kno how to make myself less critical of myself cause i got so mad at myself sometimes cause i think im so ugly .. x|0 (link)
Helo,
Before you ne thing else ..you have to jsut accept who you are. You may not be the most gorgeous person in the world ..but that dosent mean you are sooo ugly. Nobody wlil ever respect you if you dont respect yourself. Maybe your problem id that you care too much about what other people think. Surround yourself with people that are respectful to you. And if those who tell you that you are pretty ..then BELEIVE EM! lol if they are your true friends they will tell you the truth.If you just mkae yourself happy and not worry what others think ..I garentee that you will feel better about yourself. ..hope it helps

CheLLe

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